Husband having an affair abroad

Hi po,
Magtatanong lang po ako ng adcise kung ano po ang dapat kung gawin, kasi po ang asawa ko ay nag abroad pumunta po ng Dubai noong Oct 2008 (with mutual decision for the financial needs of the family) nung umpisa po madalas ang communication. Nung mga June 2009 po yung asawa ko ay tumawag sa akin at nakikipaghiwalay nap o, siyempre bilang asawa hindi po ako pumayag. Pakatapos po nun hindi nap o siya tumatawag sa akin. Malaman ko na lang po sa pinsan niya na nasa Dubai na may babae na siya dun at ipinakilala sa kanila na asawa. Salamat nap o sa FB dahil lahat ng ebidensiya ay nandun mga pictures nila nung babae. Yung pinapadala niya na financial support para sa mga bata ay tinigil na rin po niya. Ngayong Dec 2011 nakita ko po sa FB na umuwi sila sa Pilipinas kasama yung babae, nakita kop o tong lahat sa FB at naitanong ko nga din po sa mga biyenan ko…kung hindi ko pa nga po sila tinawagan e hindi po nila sa akin sasabihin. Ang gusto ko na lang po ay magkausap kami at huming ng sustento para sa 3 naming anak. Ang kaso nga po di siya nagpakita at di ko rin po alam kung saan siya pupuntahan..ang iniisip ko na lang ay maghain ng HDO para ng da ganun hindi siya makalabas ng bansa at mapilitan na kitain ako. Kailangan magawa kop o ito sa lalaong madaling panahon bago sila makaalis ( hindi ko po alam kung kelan ang balik nila sa Dubai). Hindi ko po alam kung ano ang gagawin ko at saan ako maguumpisa. Nawa’y masagot niyo po ako…maraming salamat po

you can file a criminal complaint for economic abuse at the prosecutor's office, then compile requirements for issuance of watchlist order and request that from the DOJ.

gud evening atty,..

i would like to ask for advice,..my husband is in abroad for more than 2 yrs now..he came home last oct 2010 and left after a month,..last April 2011 he send me a cp unit that he used there..the cp has a lot pictures with his friends there and a girl named jodi..im kinda getting wooried when i saw a picture of them together so i asked my husband if why are they too close...he said it was nothing..a month after he admitted that he has an affair with jodi,and telling me that he's no longer happy with our relationship..i keep on asking why but he never give an answer...i dont know what to do but to accept the fact that he dont want me anymore..After a week he asked for forgiveness and i forgive him but after 3 days he changed his decision,he said that he never meant anything that he said,..4mos paassed by without communication but on the 5th months he called he asked for forgiveness and telling me that he's sorry,and that he wants me back and start all over again but after 3 days he retrieved all the things he said,..
Now my sister told me that the 2 living in together,..We never had a child atty,since May 2011 he never sends financial supports.I would like to ask for my rights atty..Am i allowed to have a financial support even we dont have a child?By the way jodi is also married..What case can i file for them?please advice me atty..thanks

are they in the philippines now? regardless, the spouse is always entitled to support

no atty they are still in qatar...since he left me i never recieve any financial support from him..

same as above, file a case for economic abuse at the prosecutor's office

magtatanong lang po ako kasal po kami ng asawa ko mag 3years na this june kaso nung umuwi xah galing ng riyadh nung august na meet nya ung mahal nya daw ngaun cla hanggang ngaun pero cnasabi nya na hd na sila nabuksan ko po fb nya ng hindi sinasadya may usapan po sila magki2ta pag uwi this february 2012 para mag sex alam po ng isa nyang pinsan nila at lahat ng ka trabaho nya na me bago na xang gf nabasa ko din po sa fb nya nagpapakitaan po sila ng ari nila lalo na po ung babae pinapakita nya lahat pati ung asawa ko pinapakita nya ang ari nya sa babae.bago po xah umalis nun sabi nya ipapatay nya ako para makuha nya anak namin saken at ngaun sana daw po mamatay na ako nakita ko po ung fb ng babae bata pa collage pinapadalhan nya na din ng pera ang babae sa loob po ng 2 buwan di nya kame pinadalhan pero ngaung january nagbigay xah ng 5k para sa anak ko.nung isang araw po cnabi nya saken na naghiwalay daw po cla dahil ginugulo ko sila sabi nya pag napagbati ko daw po cla ibibigay nya lahat ng gusto ko ginawa ko kinausap ko kabit nya pero hd daw cla nag kaa ayos dahil daw po pinaghiwalay ko sila wala kaming makukuha ng anak ko sa kanya kahit idemanda ko daw po cla dahil hiwalay namn na sila at pag uwi nya daw po ilalampaso nya mukha ko dahil hiniwalayan xah ng kabit nya ano pong gagawin ko ?wala na po bang isasampa sa kanila ?

sorry, but please don't use text spelling.

i recommend you send a demand letter for support then file a complaint for economic abuse under ra 9262