i will give child support for my children

hello po mga sir; ngharap po kmi ng wife ko knina s CSWD (hndi n po kmi ngssama s iisang bahay 3days already) and we discussed about child support. 50k po hnihingi nyang support. npakalaki po nun kung ttuusin, ibbase dw po kc s net salary ko... wl po b ko krptang tumanggi s amount shes asking and ask her kung san mppunta ung mageexcess s perang issupport ko s anak ko? kasal po kmi, preggy sya ngaun at mnganganak na. ssunod n lng po b ko s demand nya? seaman po ako. panu po b ung poea rules na 80% slary should go to family, panu ung case ko n mgkhwalay n kmi ng bhay at ayoko n syang mkasama??? can u pls clear me how can i support my child n ung ssobra s pnggastos nila is hndi mppunta s wla...

Well I think kuya kahit magkahiwalay kayo ng asawa mo...responsibilidad mo yun...ilan ba ang anak mo?kasal ba kayo? At ang isa pa ikaw ang umayaw na makasama siya...ibig sabihin nun pinaalis mo nrin xa..kaya may responsiblidad ka sa kanya at mga anak mo

actually, support depends on the capacity of the father to give support. Meaning, if your salary is 100k a month, you cannot deny that you cannot give 50k support a month. Your wife and children are your responsibilities. It is not tantamount to legal separation, the fact that you live separately. Marriage is protected by our constitution, and you cannot just sever if you don't want it anymore. File annulment or legal separation in the proper court.

FYI: Legal separation and annulment does not excuse you from giving support.

sya po ang umalis ng bahay at since gnawa nya n yun ipinagimpake ko na mga gamit nya pr ituloy na ung nasimulan nyang pagalis ng bahay, un n din po nagudyok s kin pr mkpghwlay n s knya ng tuluyan....sya na po ang umalis ng bahay, kya po ndesisyunan ko nang hndi na mkisama s knya ng tuluyan.....

Its not a question of who leave your conjugal home, because your wife can always say your maltreating her or her child. I would advise you to talk your wife in a gentleman way, you were once upon a time lovers. Because, its very difficult for you once your wife filed against you for violence against women and their child or the VAWC law for economic abuse.

ako po kse ang may galit s knya mam/sir... kht kylan po s buong almost 7yrs nming pgssama hndi ko po sinaktan ni dulo ng kuko o dulo ng buhok nya.... wla po kong nkktang rason pr mtakot s VAWC n yan.

eto po kc ngyri.nung feb14 po inaya nya ko mmasyal s mdyo mlayong driving distnce from our place.umayaw po ako.dhil dun hndi nya n ko tnigilan ng dakdak pglbas ng resto hnggng mkpasok ng sskyan,nung ns sskyan n kmi ptuloy at sunod2 nya nmn po akong minumura,ngddrive po ako nun hbng minumura nya ko continously hndi n ko nkpgtimpi,itinigil ko sskyan at hinampas ko braso nya.pgbba nya ng car cnbhan nya kong magtago n dw ako.after 3hrs umuwi sya ng bahay may ksmang 4 n tanod at kuya nya naipablotter at sinamphan nya ko ng kaso abt VAWC sinapak ko dw sya s mukha at s tyan(9months preggy po sya) nung pmsok kuya nya s bhay tinanong ko kuya nya kung nanniwla b syang sinapak ko kpatid nya-hndi dn sya mkapnwla n mggwa ko dw un.nung mghrap po kmi s cswd lhat po halos ng social worker hndi nannwlang sinapak ko sya at kht po ung kagawad n kmausap s min s brgy hall near our place.npahiya po ko ng husto s pgddala nya ng brgy s harap ng bahay ko dhil s sumbong nyang pnanapak ko dw s knya.a few days ago ngpunta ko s bhay n kslukuyan nyang tnutuluyan kinatok ng pinsan nya ung pinto n tnutuluyan nya at nkpgusap ako s knya,a minute after that ngreklamo sya s brgy at humingi sya ng brgy protection order against me dhil knklampag ko dw po ung pinto ng bhay n tnutuluyan nila hndi po ako ung kumatok ng pinto nila pinsan nya po...

Well if that is the case, i suggest you settle your differences in court. I have only provided you insights and possible outcomes of your problems.

Or try a psychologies, both of you should undergone a therapy with a psychiatrist, so that you can settle your differences.

thank you po mam/sir for suggestion & advice...

when it comes to child support at hndi nmn tmtnggi ang father bagkus ay responsable nmn po pgdting s usapin n gnyan, hndi po b pumpanig ang batas pr magverify o mgcomfirm kmi kung s plgay nmin ay mdyo may klakihan ang dinidemand s aming suporta? kung hndi nmn po kmi kylnman ngppbaya s responsibilidad nmin bilang ama at nagging mpgmahal s anak at myembro ng buong pamilya hndi po b mauunwaan o mpgbbgyan ng batas kung skaling ung sapat at cgurdong hndi nmn po kkulangin ang irrequest nming ibigay n suporta s mga bata?? nanniwla po kse akong hndi nmn po dpt pnbbyaang maabuso ang mga taong responsable at ngmmahal s pamilya.differences lng po nming mgasawa ang hndi maiaayos at hndi ang pglalaan ko ng pra s mga mahal kong anak.

mghhwlay po kmi ng misis ko pero pero hndi po mngangahulugang hhwlayan at pbbyaan ko n dn ang relasyon at pngangaylangan ng anak ko.ang gusto ko po sna ay maipramdam ang pgmmhal ko s mga anak ko kht nsa ibang bansa ako at kht man lamang through financial support n hndi nmn po sna mgkkron ng unfair treatment s batas... equal law lng nmn po ang hinihingi ko bilang isang desente at matinong ama pr s mga anak ko...

mghhwlay po kmi ng misis ko pero pero hndi po mngangahulugang hhwlayan at pbbyaan ko n dn ang relasyon at pngangaylangan ng anak ko.ang gusto ko po sna ay maipramdam ang pgmmhal ko s mga anak ko kht nsa ibang bansa ako at kht man lamang through financial support n hndi nmn po sna mgkkron ng unfair treatment s batas... equal law lng nmn po ang hinihingi ko bilang isang desente at matinong ama pr s mga anak ko...

salamat po s mga adivce n naibbgay nyo...

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