betrayal of a guy who admitted to be gay!

gud pm po! eto po ang problem ko ive known "j" since 2008. were frends nang mabuntis ako sa bf ko "j" ask me kung ok lng sia managot sa amin ng baby pero, d ko eto binigyan ng attention. last sept 25 pinabinyagan ko ang second baby ko my bf and i were ok pero meron silang conflict ng parents ko. thats why we are not together. I envited "j" to be the ninong of my son. that was the time na ngkita ulit kmi for three years we never had communication.after my binyag "j" txted me and ask kung nasaan ang father ng baby ko and i told him the situation. Again he offered to stand as the father of my baby. He ask my parents about our plan of getting married and gusto nia na apelyedo nia ang gamitin ng baby.