an affair with maid

ano po pde ko ikaso sa maid and husband ko na nagkaron ng sexual relationship sa loob ng pamamahay nmin while Im out for work in the night shift ... they'd been doing this for 1yr 4 mos... sana po matulungan nyo ako ....

the proper case against them both is concubinage to be filed by you at the prosecutor's office. against your husband is psychological violence for repeated marital infidelity under ra 9262

makukulong po b sila pareho? up to how many years? annulled na rin po b u kasal ko kpag nakulong husband ko? kc umamin na po sa akin husband ko ... ndi ko po alam kung san hahagilapin ung maid(22 yo) na, kc napalayas ko na ... its too late nb po un? Nung Jan 18 ko lang pinalayas ... tas jan 23 ko nalaman lahat through my husband din ... kc nagsumbong ung maid sa parents ko na isusumbong daw nya sa pulis ung husband ko ... lumalabas tuloy na minolestya sya at ginahasa kaya umamin ung mr ko na may sexual relationship nga sila and evertime they had sex ngbabayad mr ko ng 1k sa kanya.

you will have to file the case at the prosecutor's office first. only after a finding that you provided sufficient evidence will the case be elevated to court.

no, the validity of your marriage will not be affected.

atty., ang tanging evidence ko lang ay ung pag amin sa akin ng mr ko ... bukod don ung ibang hinala ko na nakita ko sa maid ko like special name nya sa mr ko sa cp is "POPSKIE" tas nakita sila ng anak ko na magkayakap at nagkiss sa kusina, sa gabi na naliligo ung maid bago ako pumasok sa ofc ... wla na akong ibang pruweba pa ... dhil ndi ko sila inisipan na ganun mangyayari.. sufficient n po b to?

if your husband denies it, then no, i do not believe there is sufficient evidence because your claim of admission will be self-serving.

Hi Atty.

If I may add to the discussion since similar case kami. My husband had an affair with my maid last 2013 until the first quarter of 2014. Then my maid left for a vacation nung May 2014 and that's when ung mga kasama ko sa bahay - my mother, children and my other kasambahay-confirmed ung matagal ko ng suspetsa sa asawa ko sa at  sa katulong ko. Ang pinakamabigat was ung pag-amin ng asawa ko na totoong may nangyayari sa knila whenever nasa out of town ako for work or worse pag madaling araw habang tulog kami sa room sa taas ng mga anak ko.

Wala na din ung maid ko sa bahay dahil nga nagkabukingan na. Pero psychologically impacted kaming lahat sa bahay and I would say, most especially ako. It's been almost a year yet we can't move on from the situation although my husband is still with us.

I would like to file a case against her and my husband if need be. Sabi ni husband willing siya to testify and aminin ang ginawa nila in court should I file a case. Can this be used as evidence as well as ung accoung ng mother ko at mga anak ko? Please help me.

Thanks.

"I would like to file a case against her and my husband if need be. Sabi ni husband willing siya to testify and aminin ang ginawa nila in court should I file a case. Can this be used as evidence as well as ung accoung ng mother ko at mga anak ko? Please help me."

Mga misis, no offense po,, pero parang unfair naman tayo,,,
unang una, mister nyo ang dapat panagutin dito
review nyo po ang kasong concubinage..
eto eh kaso para sa lalaking merong kalaguyo,
sya pwede makulong pero ang kalaguyo eh simpleng exile lang ang parusa. meaning no pwede na loving loving,,...

yong mister nyo ang kakasuhan nyo, at walang kaso vs kalaguyo alone maliban na lang na ginugulo na kayo,,,

as reading from your lines, accepted nyo ang ginawa ng mister nyo, sorry pero merong tendency na maulit yan... rendahan nyo po c mister kung gusto nyo ng peace of mind...