advice for filing a case

gandang hapon po.
may gusto lang po ako linawin.
kasal po kami ng asawa ko pero nasa ibang bansa siya.4 years na siya hindi umuuwi.sa kasalukuyan may kinakasama siya sa ibang bansa.gusto ko po sana magsampa ng demanda laban sa kanila.ano po ba ang dapat kung gawin para maisakatuparan ko iyon?
kapag ba nagsampa ako ng kaso may laban po pa ako?at ano ang kaso nararapat sa kanila.

ang problema ko po wala ako evidence na nagsasama sila at may relasyun sila.nalaman ko lang ito nung nagchat kami nung babae.at nagkausap kami ng asawa ko at nakikipaghiwalay na siya sa akin.
pag nagsampa ba ako ng kaso madedeport sila?

is he still sending financial support to you?

oo.ang sabi niya sa akin hindi daw niya tatalikuran ang obligasyun niya sa mga bata.ano ba ang dapat kong gawin?pag ba nagsampa ako ng kaso makukulong yung babae?may laban ba ako? pero sabi sa akin nung napagtanungan ko kailanagan ko daw na sapat na ebidensiya laban sa kanila.pero paano ko gagawin yun kung nasa malayo sila?wala naman ako pera para kumuha ng tao para magimbistiga.sa katanuyan nga umaasa lang ako sa kanyang padala.

whatever case you file, you will need evidence.

i do not recommend a criminal case because these acts were committed in a foreign country. philippine criminal laws are applicable only within philippine territory. one possible case is violence against women under ra 9262 because one of the elements, violence, was experienced here, but this can only prosper against your husband.

it may be that what they are doing is punishable under the laws where the are staying, but i regret i cannot advise you on foreign laws.

you can also explore filing a case for damages against the girl for meddling in your family affairs. the case can prosper even if she is outside the country if you publish the summons, but you can only execute against her property here.

i am not familiar on basis, but it appears from the posts of others here that complaints are received at poea.

pero sabi nila ang pede lang icheck ng POEA ay ang mga OFW na direct hire.tama ba? makukulong ba ang babae?(but you can only execute against her property here.)what do you mean by this sir?ano po ba ang ebidensiya ang kakailanganin?sapat na ba ang verbal?
paano kung itanggi ng babae na wala naman sila relasyun kasi nga wala naman ako sapat na ebidensiya. pede ba niya rin ako sampahan ng kaso laban sa akin kung sakaling matalo ako sa kasong isasampa ko?kasi gusto ko bago rin ako gumawa ng move ay alam ko rin ang kakahinatnan.

you really should investigate further. how do you know what was said to you on chat s true? or the person chatting with you is actually the girl?

if you can get one of his workmates to testify for you that he personally saw them sleeping in the same room, that would be good evidence.

a civil case is just about money, no prison. as i said, i doubt if any criminal case you file will prosper.

and they can file a counter charge against you, possibly perjury or false incrimination.

ganun ba?ang tanging basehan ko lang ay ang pakikipaghiwalay sa akin ng aking asawa.at pagchachat namin.
maitanong ko lang,ang akin po kasing mga kapatid ay gumawa ng hakbang ito ay ang kausapin ang pamilya nung babae dahil sa kagustuhan namin na magdemanda.kaso rin ba itong maituturing?

it depends on what your brother said to them and how he said them. you can file a case even for just the effect of doing so, but it may get dismissed in the end. build your case further.

salamat po ng marami.