baby's surname

hello po! gusto ko po sna humingi ng payo, kasal po ako sa previous marriage ko 7 yrs na po pero ung 7 yrs na un hindi nging ok.ngyon po hiwalay n po kmi pero hindi po annulled may sarili n po syang buhay at kinakasama sa saudi..ang anak po nmin ako n po ang bumuhay hindi po sya ngpapadala para sa anak nya, kung magpadala lng kung kelan lng nya maiisipan, two years n din po na totally wla po padala o tawag wla n po kmi communication.hindi n din po ako naghihingi kc wla din nmn po ako napapala, hindi po sya nging responsableng ama at asawa sken financial man o emotional, dahil n din po sa nging takbo ng buhay nmin d po inaasahan ang ganitong pangyayari..sa ngyon po hiwalay po kmi wla n din po communication..may sarili n po syang buhay gnon din po ako..sa ngyon po meron po akong bagong pagibig at may mga plano po kmi, sa ngyon po wla po kmi pera pang annull...ang tanong ko lng po, kung sakaling magkaanak po kmi ung surname po ng magiging anak pwede po ba gmitin ung surname ng biological father nya ung present partner ko po? regarding sa birth certificate nmn po ung maiden name ko po ba ang ilalagay ko o ung legal name po? mraming salamat po..

hindi po naging maayos ang previous marriage ko, months lang po kami nag sama sa iisang bubong iniwan din po nya kmi magina ng ilang bwan hangang sa makaalis sya papuntang saudi...nung dito pa po sya sa pinas may communication pa pero hindi po sya nagbibigay ng financial support sa anak nmin...ng makpagabroad sya bihira din po ang pagtawag nya di ko din po sya makontak kdalasan..hangang sa nasanay nalang po kami magina na wla n po kmi maasahan sa tatay nya tawag man o financial support..hangang sa malaman ko po sa mga katrabaho nya dito sa pinas noon at sa mga katrabaho nya sa saudi ang totoo nyang pagkatao..isa po syang gay, ang kinakasama po nya sa saudi base sa source ko ay isang pinoy..wla po ako concrete na evidence pero based po sa mga dati naming kasama sa work dito sa pinas at ibang mga katrbaho nya noon pa daw po sya gay bago pa kmi nging magkarelasyon...

you are married therefore the legal presumption is that the father of your child is your husband. you cannot declare otherwise.

I cannot advise you to lie and state you are single when in truth you are married.

i have the same case..i'm pregnant now(with other man) and really confuse what would be the surname of my child.the family of my husband threatening of filling case against me.ang pinanghahawakan ko lang is that my husband abandoned us(with our 6y/o son) for 2years.and now their back claiming the custody of our child.what would be my best stand against their case?

your husband himself? or his family but not him? refuse and they will have to file a complaint in court for custody. if you are not living in with your other guy, you stand a strong chance of retaining custody though he can file adultery case against you.

re surname, read my post above. sorry, but that's the law.

thanks for replying..

in case he'll file an adultery case,will i be convicted?can i file for probation?atty what are the requirements for probation?what would be the best thing for me to do??

i need you advice badly.

i have to say it's possible because the child is good evidence. but you can apply for probation

what will happen to my boyfriend?will he also be convicted?
can i use my surname for the baby?what are the implications of this?thank you

only if there is proof that he knew you were married. i can't advise you to say that you are single, when you are actually married.

i hv the same case as above. kasal po ako but almost 10 yrs na kmi hiwalay. now, nagkaanak po ako sa iba pero ang nakalagay po na father of my son is my legal husband. can he file a case against me for using his name as the father of my kid?