Child support

Thank you for your reply.
Hihiramin lang po namin ang bata. Hindi po full custody ang hinihingi namin.


Kahit po ba hindi nakapangalan sakin ang bata e wala na po ako karapatan maksama sya? Ano po ang pwde ko gawin? Nsa amin po ang records ng injection ng bata.

Further, kung hindi po nakapangalan sakin ang bata ibig po ba sabhin ay hindi ako required mgbigay ng sustento sa anak ko? Kasi yan po ang hinihingi ng ex gf ko bago ko makasama ang anak ko

yong name ng father nasa Birth Certificate ba?

oo meron kang visitation rights,
at di naman tinatanngi ng other party na ikaw ang ama,,

kausapin mo muna mabuti hilaw na inlaws,,
then if ayaw, ipabaranggay mo/'

Visitation rights po ba ay kasama un pghiram ko sa anak ko ng 1month? Kasi yun po ang agreement namin noon bago sya umalis ng pinas. Dati po, ngsstay ang bata samin ng 1month at 1month din sa kanila. Kulang pa din po ang injection ng bata kaya hinihiram namin para matapos ang injection kasi nasa amin po ang records ng bata at hnd pwde maturukan sa ibang health center.

Hindi po ako nakalagay sa Bc. Pero sa mga medical records nya ako ang nakalagay na father at inacknowledge po nila un.

@pareng jae!1

ganto yan.. hndi kau kasal ng gf mo. lumalabas ay ligitimate ang anak mo..

kapag nag kaganon sa usaping custodiya..?

sa mother ang pabor sa ganyan. at kahit sya ay nasa labas ng banasa? ang magulang ng gf mo ang tatayong secondary guardian at hindi ikaw kahit na sabihin pa nating ikaw ang ama.


sa ganyang scanario. masakit man at nakaka sad?

tanging visitation rights lng ang meron ka dito.

now.. regarding sustento?

kung batas ang pag uusapan? eh dpt obligasyon mo ito.

at kung bilang pagiging ama ang pag uusapan?

iutos man ng korte o kahit saang pahina ng libro?

ang ama ay ama na dapat tumugon sa pangangailnagan ng kanyang anak.

goodluck

naku,
kung magkataon,
if contest nila, na di naman nila ginagawa, DNA test na yan,
kung yon ang kasunduan nyo, bakit di cla tumutupad,
if 1month/1month, di na visitation yon, kundi custody...
kasi nga share kayo,,,

pero sge, as per ur move,,
kausapin mo uli,if ayaw makipag ayos, din isumbong ke kapitan.

Kung pumapayag po ang secondary guardian? Pero ayaw tlga ng ex gf ko? Ano po pwde kong gawin? Pumapayag naman po kami na kht hnd na matupad ang 1month/1month. Kht ngayon lang kasi tatapusin ng bata ang injection nya. After neto, bahala na sila kung ipapahiram o hindi na

better i sugest talk to them.. maganda naman intention mo. and i fully undrestand how u feel parekoy.

geh lng..

iinsist mo kaibigan!!

Kinakausap nga po namin ng parents ko kaso ngmamatigas ang ex gf ko at un mother nya kung ano dw decision ng ex ko, un ang masusunod. Gusto ko lang po sana na kahit mahiram hiram lang ang anak ko.

Hindi po pinangalan sakin ang anak ko kasi nun time na nabuntis ang ex ko, inaayos na papers nya paalis ng pinas at baka mgkaron DAW ng problema pag nakita na may anak sya at nakapangalan skinl. Pwde dw nmn palitan ang BC ng bata pag nakaalis na ex ko. Kaso eto nga po ang nangyari.

Ano po ba karapatan ko sa anak ko sa ganitong sitwasyon?

Thank you po ng madami sa advices

ref:

Sinabi ng Korte Suprema sa kasong JOEY D. BRIONES vs. MARICEL P. MIGUEL, FRANCISCA P. MIGUEL and LORETA P. MIGUEL na “An illegitimate child is under the sole parental authority of the mother. In the exercise of that authority, she is entitled to keep the child in her company. The Court will not deprive her of custody, absent any imperative cause showing her unfitness to exercise such authority and care.” Malinaw rin na nakasaad sa Article 176 of the Family Code na “Illegitimate children shall use the surname and shall be under the parental authority of their mother, and shall be entitled to support in conformity with this Code.”

Ibig sabihin, kapag ang magulang ng isang bata ay hindi kasal, siya ay considered as illegitimate child at ang sole parental authority ay ibinigay ng batas sa kanyang ina. Sa nabanggit na kaso, ang magulang ng bata ay hindi kasal at ang ina ay pansamantalang nakatira sa sa ibang bansa para magtrabaho.

naku,
nadenggoy ka ng ex mo,,

anong pwede palitan name?
di no, maraming proceso...
kung ako sayo, umpisahan mo na,,,

Oo nga brad. Un na din hinala ko kaso iniisip ko noon na baka mgkaproblema sa pgprocess ng papers nya kasi nakapetition sya e. Pero humingi sila ng supporta sa amin noon. Simula nun mabuntis kasama namin sya sa bahay, hanggang sa manganak. Ano magagawa ng dswd sa case ko? Thank you!

sad that ur are in the wrong end of the stick,
ang DSWD eh more on sa pagtulong sa mga Babae, na iniiwan ng asawa, or binubugbog,,
walang financial support, etc...
wala gaano sa mga adan,, kasi very rare ang sa kase mo..
sa case mo, bka naman gusto lang nya muna magkaroon ka ng job,
why not eto muna asikasuhin mo,,
then if meron na, baka bigyan ka na nya ng right sa bata.

try to nego sa inlaws,
prove to them u deserve ur baby..

ililitsa q din yan. we need mag karon ng batas na para sa mga anak ni adan!!

B-atas
A-linsunod sa
Y-apak ni
A-dan againts
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isulong!!!

B-A-Y-A-G!!!!!

Haha! Una ako mg-agree sa batas na yan! Thank you sa advices. Post ulit ako pag nagusap ulit kmi ng hilaw na inlaws ko

good day
my ex partner filled a case againts me for not giving support on our son,.we're not married and both have our own partners as well..
been providing financial support to ur son but for her wala daw akong ibinibigay,.kept all the receipts for buying supplies and also money transfer,.then still wala daw ako binibigay and then she send a msg on fb when we argued about me requesting to have a date or ipasyal ko ung anak namen for just a day and ibabalik ko din pero nagalit cia and said since wala naman daw akong ibinibigay sa anak namen e wag na wag na ko magpapakita sa kanila or sa anak namen and kung may balak pa daw ako magbigay ng sustento e wag na lang daw..
sinunod ko ung gusto nia kc nagworry ako if i insisted e baka lalo cia mastress at maapektuhan ang pagpapalaki sa anak namen and i just waited for her to contact me again if ndi na cia ganon kagalit
i just checked on our child thru fb
then after a few months ex texted me about settling agreement regarding child support,.i said theres no problem about that,.but the schedule she wanted me to go was conflict to my work schedule and i cannot be absent because i might be terminated and its only possible if she could have advise me earlier so that i could file a leave,.then she ask if i can buy our sons needs,.did that and visit the house,.ex thanked me and also send videos and pics of our son,.then after a week texted me again to buy our sons needs,.told her that i dont have enough money and also my partner is in the hospital and was about to gave bitlrth,.told her that i will give the needs once i have excess..then shocked me that a case was already filled againts me and i was not able to receive the subpoena because it was sent to my old adress and the time ex was asking me to go to their place for agreement if the preliminary investigation already...what shall i do with that?

more probably,
ur ex was/is also a visitor here,,
and we are the same persons givings advices,,
the challenge sometimes, is that the information provided are sometimes one sided,,,but
actually i think, its a two way road,,, no matter what....

anyway, on ur concern, ang gusto lang nya eh magbigay ka ng sustento,,
at di para makulong, kasi if nakulong ka, paano ka pa makakapagsustento,,, diba?
ano gagawin mo???/

1. contakin mo sya, mag-usap kayo...
2. wag excess ang bigay mo, meron dapat share sa division ng kita ang anak mo sa kanya,
kung magdutdot ng asin ang kabila, di pwedeng adobo sa kabila,,,,

Good day!

My brother received a letter from a certain attorney demanding my brother to appear on an out of court settlement. This is about the demand of his ex-partner for child support. We knew for a fact that he has a baby out of wedlock from a particular woman from Mindanao. He left Mindanao knowing that he got this woman impregnanted. He was not able to acknowledge the baby since he left before the girl delivered the child.

My brother left for abroad and gave support to his child regularly prior to his coming home. He's only concern and our concern too is to be able to see the child, but the girl refused and didn't agree with this kind of set-up. My brother continue to support the child financially even the situation is not in his favor. The last time he went home, he tried to visit his son but failed since the mother didn't allow him. This triggered him to stop his support.

Now that my brother has arrived and has no plan of going back abroad because of his worse experienced there. I can really say that he's no longer capable in supporting his child financially. In fact, I would say the burden and responsibilities is already at my shoulder since I still need to send him back to school to finish his studies for him to earn a degree and eventually (hopefully) he could get a job in line of his profession that would help him earn a living without going abroad.

Our concern now is, can we just disregard the letter or should my brother really need to appear to the settlement? In case he needs to appear, the situation is, he has no personal cash for his travel to Mindanao (fare, food, accommodation), my problem again. Personally, I have my own family to take care of, we no longer have parents. Second, his safety, I don't know if its wise for him to go there knowing that the family of this girl has grudges toward my brother. Third, if my brother would not appear, can they push through the case to court giving all the scenario above? Finally, is it proper for them to sue my brother in their place or as far as what I understand, they should file the case or settlement here in our place because my brother is here. It really cost a lot of money for us for such a demand coming from them.

Hope you could help us enlighten about this matter atty.

Thank you so much.

Our concern now is, can we just disregard the letter or should my brother really need to appear to the settlement? In case he needs to appear, the situation is, he has no personal cash for his travel to Mindanao (fare, food, accommodation), my problem again. Personally, I have my own family to take care of, we no longer have parents. Second, his safety, I don't know if its wise for him to go there knowing that the family of this girl has grudges toward my brother. Third, if my brother would not appear, can they push through the case to court giving all the scenario above? Finally, is it proper for them to sue my brother in their place or as far as what I understand, they should file the case or settlement here in our place because my brother is here. It really cost a lot of money for us for such a demand coming from them.

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1. should appear, so that things will be settled, malay nyo, yan ang way para makita nya anak nya..
2. they only want financial support, so in return should not prevent his right to his child like visitation..
3. pwede mapush through sa on court settlement, pwede rin mahantong sa criminal case ang unang civil case.
4. kung saktan, ipakulong, bugbugin ang brother mo, then paano sya makakapagsustento,
common sense lang,
5. kung walang financial ang father, walang mapipiga sa tuyong damit..

goodluck

Thanks sa reply sir..

Concern ko po ang pamasahe ng kapatid ko, pagkain at titirhan nya doon. Until now wla pa akong pera pra sa pagpunta nya don, at sa letter nila binibigyan nila kami ng date ng hearing sa June 25, 2015. Isa lang po naman ang gusto nila, financial support, na sa ngayon mahirap mabigay ng kapatid ko. Galit na rin ang asawa ko kasi ako ang gumagastos sa loob ng bahay at eto pa ang kapatid ko paaaralin ko sa second sem. Ang hirap po ng kalagayan namin, dagdag pa etong problema nya. Kung di ko po magawan ng paraan ang pagpunta nya don at di po sya makarating sa date ng hearing, ano po ang maaaring mangyari? Atty. kung sakaling ma push through ang kaso, di po ba maaaring dito nlng sa lugar namin at hindi don sa mindanao?

Salamat po sa kaalaman.

ang complainant eh merong right kung saan nya pwede ifile ang case nya,,,
unless wrong jurisdiction,, magproproceed to, at di pwedeng sa lugar nyo ipilit, eh di cla naman ang namroblema paano punta sa inyo,,
well,
responsibility yan ng kapatid mo,, pwede naman utang, sorry, wala ako pwede ipautang,,
kung di dumating, default ang tawag don,
then pwede na iakyat ang kaso sa court, mag-kakaroon ng prelim investigation,
then, pwede na sya padalhan ng sub-poena from the procecutors office..
dyan, required n syang attend, or else magiging fugitive sya, or person of interest ng batas.

bottomline,
i understand ur situation, but all actions requires a counter action,, balance lang po,
nag-anak sya, so harapin nya consequences..

salamat po sa sagot, malaking tulong po talaga. wait nalang po namin ang sub-poena.

ok, no problem...

Gudday po.. Hihingi lang po sana kame ng advice.. Ung live in partner ko po kc ngyun nireklamo ng kanyang ex livein partner dahil sa child support. May 3 silang anak.. Kame naman po ng live in ko ay may isang anak 2 yrs old. Nagsusuporta naman po ung live in ko sakanila dati nahinto lang po nung nanganak ako sa firstbaby namen dahil sa d n po tlg kaya ng live in ko dahil sobrang kinakapos dn po kame dahil sa liit ng sahod nya. D nadin po cla nagparamdam samin .After 2yrs bglang dumating ung ex nya at nagsampa ng reklamo sa POA nagulat nalang kme may dumating n letter. At ang gusto nya po mangyare 3000 a month ang ibgay saknya na hndi nman po kaya ng live in ko dahil halos 4k lang sinasahod nya. Last day n po ngyun ng live in ko sa trabho. Ano po ba dapat namen gawin. Ayaw po kasi pumayag ng ex nya n kung magkano lang yong kaya namin. Gusto po kasi nya siya ung masusunod sa amount. Pano naman po kame at ung anak ko na pinapagatas ko din
Sana po matulungan nyo kame kung ano dapat gawin. Maraming salamat po..