PLEASE HELP!!! CONCUBINAGE, makukulong ba sila?

ano po ba dapat gawin kung ang guy po ay nangaliwa sa asawa at nagkaanak pa sila nung babae niya? matagal na po nila ito ginagawa at minsan narin sinubukang magusap upang makapag-ayos. pero hindi parin natigil at tuloy tuloy parin. kasal po ang babae at lalake at alam ng kabit na iyon na kasal ang kinakabitan niyang lalake. isang taon mahigit na po ang anak nila ng kabit niya. nung inilapit po sa baranggay ang kaso sinabihan sila na iakyat na sa police para daw makulong na. sobra sobra na po kasi ang ginawa ng kabit niyang iyon, namatay po ang asawa niya wala pa isang taon ngayon pero pinapatulog pa niya ang lalake sa bahay niya.

naaawa po kasi ako sa kaibigan ko. makukulong po ba ang babae ng asawa niya.? sinabihan po siya ng barrangay na bigay lang ang picture ng babae at ng asawa niya at huhulihin ito.pero makukulong ba sila?

salamat po sa inyong tulong.
godbless

she has to file the complaint against both her husband and the woman, but unless the police catch them living together, it may be difficult to effect an arrest.

Di ko po alam what po ang gawin ko. Hiwalay na po me sa husband ko dahil may kabit siya. Now may anak siya at buntis na naman ang kabit. I have pics nila 3- my husband kabit niya at anak nila. sila lang 3 . may mga text messages pa ang asawa ko sa akin regarding sa di naman daw siya magkukulang sa anak namin. Will that stand as an evidence po ba? I know where they live. At yung house pinatayo ng husband ko nung nag hiwalay kame. We are still married po. SO it is conjugal right? But the kabit said may pera din siyang gisnastos to build that house. Please help me. Nagkukulang lagi padala ng asawa ko para sa anak namin. Inis na ako. What should I do?

so he still sends support?

Yes po. But lagi po nagkukulang. Hindi niya po tinutupad usapan namin. May agreement po kame na pinirmahan po namin kaso lagi siya kulang from we have agreed. Mas inuuna niya anak niya sa kabit niya. Nakakasakit na po kasi ng damadamin. Naaawa po ako sa anak. Well infact nag aabroad po ang husband ko. He earns 27t a month po plus tips pa kasi he is a band singer. But bigay niya 5t lang po sa anak nagkukulang pa. just lately he just sent 3t and last month 2,500. Hilo na po ako if what gawin ko po.

hi po..ask ko lng po kasi un bf ko is married and nalaman ng wife nya bout samin and me pic sya samin at ng threat sya na magsasampa ng kaso..ano po ba ang pede nyang isampa sa amin at i papa black list da po kami sa poea at sisirain nya ako sa work at sa family ko po,pag di daw po bumalik yun husband nya po sa kanya..pero ayaw na po ng husband nya bumalik at gusto ng mag isa pero hindi po kami ngsasama. ano po ba ang pedeng isampang kaso ng asawa nya po laban sa amin at maipapahold po ba kami pareho sa poea?ano po ba ang pede kong gawin at ako po ang ginugulo ng asawa...

chasty, you can send a demand letter, after which you can file a case for economic violence or for increase in support.

winnie, be more sensitive to the wives on this forum and start your own thread.

attyLLL,
Thanks po talaga for the advise. I will take of note of that po. Thanks po talaga. You enlightened talaga my mind po.

hello po...im a mother of 2 girls...nakipaghiwalay ang husband ko (verbally- no written agreement) early this year..sevral months ago nadiscover ko may kinakasama na cyang iba.- they both live @ singapore right now and the girl is pregnant..please i need help although my support financially for the kids,,but i want to know if i can file a case sa babae nya? o sa kanila? mag kano naman po kaya ang magagastos ko...may chance ba na makulong sila?

attyLLL,
Good am...I still have one more querry po. Nung nag hiwalay po kame ng husband ko wla pa kame bahay. But nung nag hiwalay po kame nagpatayo siya ng bahay at ang masaklap pa pinagmamalaki ng kabit niya dahil nag share daw siya ng pera para sa bahay sa pagpapatayo. AttyLLL, di po ba conjugal yun? kasi we are not legally separated naman po. At itinayo po yun within our marriage po.

chasty, if you file a case in court to collate the conjugal properties, it will have to be proven how much each of them shared in the property. only your husband's share will be considered conjugal property.

attyLLL,
I think it's impossible for me to know how much he spent for that house. He might even tell me that I don't have the right to know. It's really confusing po...I feel so helpless.

the remedy is to file a case in court.

Atty, may magagawa po ba ako para mapatanggal ang asawa ko at ang kabit niya sa trabaho since alam nang girl na kasal ang asawa ko? same company po sila ... nalaman ko po na dinadala niya ang kabit niya sa bahay namin pag gabi at tinatago niya sa kwarto at sa umaga umaalis sila agad.. yung anak ko naiiwan sa yaya at siya e katabi nang kabit niya... ano po bang kaso ang pwedeng isampa sa kanila at maari po ba silang matanggal sa trabaho? nagbabarko po ako at sa pag uwi ko pa po ako pwede gumawa nang hakbang.. sana po maliwanagan niyo po ang aking katanungan!

tatanong ko lng po dahil po ang asawa ko nasa canada at my kinakasama na syang laleke sa iisang bahay matagal na pala gnagawa inamin nalang nya ngayon ng umuwi sya at nag file sya ng devorce ang sbi nya grant ang devorce pero hindi po ako nakatangap ng anoman papel na at wla din ako penirmahan na pag sang ayon.ano po ang pwd ko ikaso at ano po ang dapat kung gawin dahil po yong lalake na kinaksama nya ay my asawa din at kung ano ano ang sinasbi na paninira nya mismo sa aking asawa.ano po ang dapat kung gawin?pwd please help me.salamat po

pwd ko po ba isumbong dito dsa embassy ng canada ang ginagawa ng asawa ko nakikisama sya at hindi pa sya res,visa dahil 2years palang po sya as caregever ano po ang dapat kung gawin saasawa ko ano pong kaso ang pwd ko isampa o dapat ko report dito sa embassy ng canada.salamat po
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hello po...i have read several letters in this site about husbands cheating on their wives in which i have the same case..
my husband and i have been married for about 3 years now, actually we're about to celebrate our 3rd year this month sana if everything in our marriage is still going fine..
my husband works in canada and in the first years of our relationship i never doubted about his loyalty when we talked every single day over the phone and online...when i first found out that he has a secret affair i was so hurt knowing that despite of our everyday conversation he still managed to cheat on me...i also found out that he had so many other relationships/flings to different women..but i still gave him second chances..worst, i found out that he had a child with one of his EXs there...i confirmed it with the girl herself. i was so hurt and i even had sleepless nights and i couldn't concentrate in my work anymore..it was so painful to know that while i was pregnant, he also got another girl carry his other child. 2 months after i gave birth his then mistress also gave birth to his child. our children were born in the same year. That was so painful for me and to my child as well. My husband never admitted that to me. But because of my intention of keeping our marriage and to give our child a complete family, i gave him another chance only to find out that he had left that girl already and now he has a new girlfriend. i gathered so much information and evidences that they are now living together. when i first confronted my husband about that affair he has with this woman he strongly denied it and he told me that there's no truth to any of my accusations..but i got a copy of a phonebill to where it reflected their phone numbers. joint phonebill that is. a copy if their car insurance to where the girl added my husband as his boyfriend so he could drive and alternately use each other's car..i also have copies of their pictures together posted in instagram. when my husband couldn't deny anymore he started avoiding me. he would even reject my calls and no replies to my text messages. i even discovered that my husbands salary is held by his mistress since they also have joint bank account. She holds his phone so he wouldnt be able to answer even his parent's and sister's call..in short the girl blocks our ways of communications. she would even manipulate my husbands email & fb account. this is very insulting and really damages my emotions...i also found out from some people there that their relationship is being publicly displayed and they're acting like husband and wife..they even tell other people that we are already separated which is so untrue..maybe we are not in good terms but i believe things like that need to be talked about and agreed by both parties..i tried calling my husband to settle this and ask for what he really wants but he doesn't have the courage to do so..he is so coward to face the issue all he knows is to walk away from the problem he has built, to just keep silent and ignore me and our child..he hasn't sent financial support for our child yet. for the longest time i remained silent and did not take legal actions but now i want to file a case against them..please help me with this..i heard and read about RA 9262 but i need some other clarifications...what other cases can i file against them i know it's really hard because we are not in the same country..i want justice for myself and my child..i want my husband to be deported and his mistress to pay for this.
please help me...thank you!

are the evidences i mentioned strong or at least helpful for the case? thank you. Please help...

paano po ang gagawin ko kc po nagka anak po muna kmi ng asawa ko bago po kmi ikasal..so ang surname po ng anak ko ay ang apelyido ko nung pagkadalaga ko  pa.after  1 yr pagka panganak ko po ay nagpakasal kami,,paano po ang gagawin ko para mailipat sa apelyido ng asawa ko ang anak ko.salamat po

woman, are they in canada?

iloveyou, answered your other post.

yes atty. they are both in canada right now..i want my husband back here in the Philippines. thank you.

woman, criminal cases can be filed only at the place where the crime occurred. and i heard canada does not consider infidelity a crime.

Correct! they don't get involve with any case outside their country...

I know canada allows two individuals live together and they can even file a common law or conjugal partnership, married or not in their own country.. but what's the least i can do then? i just cannot let them hurt us while they're enjoying their lives that's still so unfair. my child & i here suffer..my husband is just a contract worker and he only has a working permit valid for two years..he doesn't send financial support to our child, what can i do about it? i want him to come home but he'll never do unless canadian government will deport him..but for what grounds?

If he has valid visa to stay, there's no way you can have him deported I'm afraid! And those contract working visa are renewable, so he can live there as long as he has valid visa and after certain years living in Canada (5 years) it gives them rights/entitlement to settle or obtain Citizenship.