is this a ground for adultery?

lOst_StuDent wrote:Alexm, if you knew that she was homosexual it could not be used as a ground for annulment. If you have prior knowledge of her homosexuality, then there could be no concealment.

I suggest that you go after that tibo with a civil case for damages.

My wife is a girl im sure of that , I kaya lang ang nangyari is parang nagligawan muna saka ginawa ung deed and ung tibo ay naging malapit muna sa kanya bago pinakita ung tutuong itsura nya and intention

Ok for the camera I dont have any plan on sharing the image or the video it will capture its is just to prove that I am correct, if sa bedroom ung image , pero if sa living room i think I can use this.

sa totoo lang attyLLL, iniisip ko pa ang mga sasabihin ko once i open this topic to her but, I dont want to be connected to her legally after this because I consider this act na Pagtataksil sa kasal namin,tibo man ang pinatulan nya.

Mas mababawasan ang kahihiyan kung legally ko ma settle ang kaso na to

pwede ko bang I conclude na:

Pag ang lalakeng may asawa ay pumatol sa babae ( may asawa o wala ) pwedeng maging ground for annulment.

Pag ang babaeng may asawa ay pumatol sa tibo di pwedeng maging ground for annulment.

Hayy kawawa pala ang mga lalake pag tatawanan lang ng mga tibo at ikukwento sa kapwa tibo " pre na tikman ko na asawa nu he he he " masakit pero totoong nagyayari to at sigurado ko hindi lang sakin nangyari to...

alexm wrote:pwede ko bang I conclude na:

Pag ang lalakeng may asawa ay pumatol sa babae ( may asawa o wala ) pwedeng maging ground for annulment.

Pag ang babaeng may asawa ay pumatol sa tibo di pwedeng maging ground for annulment.

Hayy kawawa pala ang mga lalake pag tatawanan lang ng mga tibo at ikukwento sa kapwa tibo " pre na tikman ko na asawa nu he he he " masakit pero totoong nagyayari to at sigurado ko hindi lang sakin nangyari to...

Sexual infidelity is not a ground for annulment. mali ang conclusion.

Ngayon, kung ang asawa mo na pumatol sa tibo, that can be a ground for annulment. Concealment of homosexuality/lesbianism. You can allege na tibo ang asawa mo and she concealed that fact to you. You can prove that by the images you discovered in her laptop. Now, kailangan mo rin mapatunayan na dati na syang tibo para may concealment talaga. Try to ask around kung bago naging kayo nagkaroon na sya ng relationship with another tibo.

Good luck pre...

Ung nga ang problem wala akong mahahanap na evidence na tibo na sya dati pa. Wala naman syang naging Bf nung dalaga pa I was her first and even prove it on our honeymoon. All her family and friends know na babaeng babae sya talaga.

Ito lang talagang tibo na to ang talagang nag pursige na matikman si misis, may mala angel locsin kasi si misis.kaya siguro naging interesado si tibo, ang di ko lang maintindihan talaga bakit napapayag si misis, di naman ako nag kulang sa lahat ng bagay financially , emotionally, lagi naman kaming magkasama sa umaga, gabi at weekend, lagi rin kaming may out of town at out of the country trip... hayy buhay nga naman..

It could only mean na baka tibo na talaga si misis. kung homosexual sya, wala ka na talagang magawa. Tingnan mo si Carmina, kahit gaano kaganda walang epek ka bibi gandangahari also formerly known as rustom, mistah ni robin..hehehe!

given na maganda ang misis mo, how about yung tibo?

lOst_StuDent wrote:It could only mean na baka tibo na talaga si misis. kung homosexual sya, wala ka na talagang magawa. Tingnan mo si Carmina, kahit gaano kaganda walang epek ka bibi gandangahari also formerly known as rustom, mistah ni robin..hehehe!

given na maganda ang misis mo, how about yung tibo?

Maganda rin eh , kasi makinis at maputi sumali pa nga sa isang beauty pagent sa makati, ang kwento nya para daw makaboso ng girl na kalahok. no way yata sa annulment ah? baka kasi maghabol sya pag legal separation lang eh kaya natatakot ako na un ang gawing move.

Annulment is still possible. Have your marriage reviewed by a lawyer for other grounds. Pero yung concealment of homosexuality is available pa rin. Kailangan mo lang patunayan na dati na syang homosexual.

If you did not discover yung lovemaking nila, can you say na may problema ang marriage ninyo. I mean nararamdaman mo ba na di ka nya mahal or di kayo masaya? baka naman phase lang ito. try to reach out to her, talk about it. sabi mo, you found those pics sa recent docs. obviously she's not really trying to hide it from you.

also, baka naman curious lang sya or she wants to spice things up. pero kung unacceptable sayo yun and you cannot forgive her, you are very much understandable. alam mo, some husband would actually be pleased to be in your position. i'm not trivializing your situation, just saying. you know, from a different perspective.

I respect your point of view, but like what you have said, its not acceptable sakin talaga.

Lately napapasin ko that she is not interested or I should say wala syang gana lagi considering na 4 years pa lang kaming kasal, I found her lagi sa laptop smiling and laughing on facebook or skype while chatting. Di katulad ng dati na pagdating ko galing opis may lambing na agad.

Alam ko maraming lalake ang ma excite sa situation ko learning their wife has another affair with another girl baka iniisip nila pwede silang maki threesome , pero sakin seryoso ako , I am a one woman guy at expected ko na ganun din sya dapat sakin.
We have wild ideas about our sexual life and some of them we already did/do. pero out of the question sakin ung mag introduce ng ibang partner.

Kaya ang gusto ko end this nonesence legally and finally.

salamat po sa mga advice

Atty,
My sister found out that her husband was having an affair to a wyeth district manager, married. she was able to open her husband yahoo messenger and print out the conversation for 2 consecutive days. in the conversation it states how they love having sex and making plans when will be the next sked and how long will they be spending, there are actual erotic languages stated on how they do it. she filed a complain to wyeth HR but informed that she need to file an adultery case first to subject the girl for suspension for investigation. and wanted to file concubinage too to her husband. does she have the ground with the print out yahoo messenger chats?

alex, if in post no. 46 you were not referring to your wife, then your challenge is to prove that she was a lesbian before getting married to you and that she deliberately concealed it. it's not the easiest of grounds to prove.

freda, in my opinion, those are private communication which cannot be used as evidence.

attyLLL wrote:

freda, in my opinion, those are private communication which cannot be used as evidence.

Atty, won't the manner how she got those information matter? How about if the chat massages were just left there in the computer for her to see. Won't that be admissible?

in my opinion, there has to be consent of at least one of the parties. of course she can try to present them as evidence, and they can be admitted if they don't object.

[quote="rchrd"]am here in the phil.. i am willing to humiliate him, di lng takutin sya,kung di patanggal sa trabaho, patanggalan ng visa at pauwiin dito ng walng wala!

Kyusi: bago lang po ko d2 s forum, prehas po kami ng case, ako po ay nandito sa pinas at nsa abroad po ang aking asawa (wife), at ang lalaki (kalaguyo) na bumuntis sa kanya ay kanyang katrabaho. parehas po ang aking nararamdaman...to humiliate, patanggal sa trabaho, patanggalan ng visa at pauwiin d2 ng walang wala! tnx po.