Abandonment

Gusto ko lang po sana humingi ng advise.
May gusto po mag file ng case sakin for abandonment which is my ex gf. Nag live in po kami for a couple of months and nagka baby kami. I tried to give her everything she needs pero dahil sa attitude nya at laging pagdududa sakin which is tiniis ko ng ilang months e naghiwalay kami which is pumayag naman sya. Then pinanganak na yung baby namin which is after a year saka nya ako kinontak ulit para humingi ng sustento. Hindi nakaapelyido sakin yung bata at may karelasyon sya ngayon. Ano po ba ang magandang gawin ko para dito? Salamat sana if magreply kayo.

Ilipat mo itong ad mo. Labor and Employment itong thread na ito at walang kinalaman ang ad mo sa thread.

did you sign the birth certificate?

No. I didn't sign anything po. Kahit anong document walang nagdedeclare na anak ko yung bata

Then before she can claim support from you, she has to first establish that you are the father.

So it means po kailangan may document na nagpapatunay na ako ang ama ng bata? RA9262 daw po iffile na case sakin. Pero im willing to do everything naman para hindi na humantong sa korte ito. May sariling anak na din po kasi ako which is nakaapelyido sakin. Pero hindi pa po ako kasal.

Naguguluhan po talaga ako kung ano dapat kong gawin.

you can give money to buy peace, but if you acknowledge that you are the father, you will be legally obligated to provide support continuously. or you can take the hard stance and deny you are the father to leave her the burden of having to prove that you are the father

Can we just have a verbal agreement? No documents need to be signed.

yes that is possible. just note that if you believe the child is yours, then wouldn't there be a fatherly obligation on your part to provide support? but if in doubt, get a dna test

Same situation po sa akin but not an ex gf. Di ako pumirma ng any document. After nya manganak nag contact po kami but nung wa akong maibigay since nag aaral pa ako pinapahiya ako sa social media. And threats na lagot daw ako sa mga friends nya. Nagbigay naman po ako ng pera but not that much. Then may nagsasabi na d daw sa akin yung bata then nag stop
Yung communication namin.