ABANDONMENT

Hi. Ang mother ko po ay madaming naging kinasama. Pito kaming mgkakapatid. Tatlo kame sa tatay ko, ang pang-apat sa anak nya sa ibang lalake at ang huling tatlo ay anak niya sa isang dating pulis.

After 20 years, ngayon ko lang nakilala at nakita ang mother namen ganun din ang mga kapatid ko. Kaming unang tatlo ay iniwan nya sa tatay namen, ung pang-apat ay pina-ampon at iyong dalawa na anak ng pulis ay pinaalagaan sa mga kamag-anak niya at ang bunso na anak din ng pulis ay pinaampon.

Ngayon na nagkakilala kaming lahat. Ay nadiagnosed ang mother namen ng Cervical Cancer. Nangangailangan sya ngayon ng pinansyal na tulong. Ang problema ngayon ay dinemanda nya ang tatay ng tatlo kong kapatid which is iyong pulis ng abandonment. Tama lang po ba na gawin nya un kaht siya mismo ay inabandona din nya kame?

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Is she legally married to the police?

No. She's not married to the father of my youngest half brother (The police). Actually, the police was already married when they lived together for several years.

You, your children and your immediate needs come first. If there is nothing left, she cannot squeeze blood from a stone.

Ang alam namin. ngreklamo sya ng abondonment and No support sa father ng kapatid ko. Ngayon na may sakit na sya at malalaki na ang tatlo kong half brother nghahabol n sya ng supporta. At malaki ang hinihingi nyang partial payment daw. Ngayon ung dating police nasuspende nung araw sa trabaho at ngaun ay kakakulong lang sakanya last week.

They had three sons. Ang unang dalawa ay naka-apilyedo sa dating pulis. Pero ang bunso ay pina-ampon ng ina namen. (Actually, halos lahat kaming pitong mgkakapatid ay iniwan din naman niya (Mama namin.Now, ung bunso namen at naka-apilyido sa nag-ampon sakanaya. Hindi alam ng pulis na may pangatlo pa syang anak kay mama. Nitong taon lang nya nalaman.

Why would he be jailed? Someone you are not married to has no right to demand support. Your mother has no right to demand support from the police officer.

Base sa kwento ng pamilya ngaun ng pulis ay nasuspende ang tatay nila sa serbisyo dahil sa abononement and no support. Not sure kung may iba pang kaso para sya ay makulong.

Ngayon po, may magagawa po ba kami para makapag-counter ang tatay ng kapatid namen at ano ang dapat naming gawin. Makakatulong po ba na icounter namen ang pag-iwan din nman samen ng ina namen?

lalot hindi nya pinaalam sa pulis na may bunso pa syang anak na pina-ampon ng mama namen?

Consult a lawyer where you are.

Thank you.

I met my mother last april of this year after 20 years when she left us (We're three). I also met my other 4 siblings last may.

We're three siblings from my dad. (Who raised us because our mother left us)

I have a younger brother from a different man. (Actually, he was abandoned and adopted by someone)

I also have 3 more brothers from a suspended police. The two of them are in my mother's caring. The youngest has been abandoned by our mother and adopted by an old lady without his father knowing that he still has a third son from my mother. He just knew my my youngest brother looked for him and our mother through facebook. He's now 17.

Now, after we met each other. We found out that our mother is suffering from cancer stage 3-B.

Ngayon, kinasuhan nya ung suspended police for abandonement and non-support for his children. Ngayon not sure bkt naikulong na ang suspended police because of this, The suspended police was not married to our mother, because he has been married to someone befor he met our mother,.

Question:
Is it legal to sue the suspended police for that case even through she also abandoned our youngest brother without even introducing him to his father when he was born? (Naka-apilyedo n ang kapatid ko sa umampon sakanya)

Can we file a case against our mother for what she has done for our youngest brother?

May karapatan pa ba syang maghabol ng sustento ngayong malalaki na ang mga anak ng suspended police? (Which is pinaalagaan naman din nman nya sa iba?)

Thank you