I want a legal separation kc financially irresponsible husband ko

Is it possible n magsettle nlang kmi arrangement thru writings? I wanted a legal separation kya lang magastos lalo n mdami kmi utang at 4 ang anak nmin. May business ako then employed sya. Khit mlaki sahod nya sobra delay nmn as in months like now mag-april na but 40% plang ng jan nkukuha ko. may mga sidelines nmn sya pero d nya pnpaalam skin kung magkano. Okey lang nmn s akin as long as tnutulungan nya ako s pagbbyad n utang. Ang hirap kc kbila-kbila utang nmin, masyado p sya galante magpainom at lagi sya inom ng inom. Syempre nanghihinayang ako s pera gnagastos nya para dun. Depensa nya d n nga sya naalis ng bahay. Nagbago nga sya khit ppno kc dti may bnhay sya at halos lagi sya wla s bhay. D rin sya nagpapadala noon ng pera. Basta asahan ko nlang ang pagdating ng sweldo nya kung meron na. Mas madalas wla sya pera kaya ako halos o lagi sumasagot s lahat ng gastusin nya ultimo pang inom nya para wlang gulo. Pag my gulo kc sobra naapektuhan mga bta kung ano ano naiisip gawin. Now, gipit n kmi. I wanted to sell our house then divide it among us including our 4 children. Then ung share nming mag asawa dun ibabawas pambayad s lahat ng kautangan nmin. Ung share ng mga bta wlang bawas para sa pagtustos ng kanilang pag-aaral hanggang mkatapos at least my nksave n para sa kanilang schooling pero susuportahan pa rin nmin dalawa lahat cla para s iba pa nilang gastusin. Syempre kc d p nila kaya suportahan sarili nila. Since may mga work nmn kming dalawa so sa amin nlang ibabawas ung pambayad s mga utang since kaya nmn nmin i-sustain sarili nmin. Tpos magkanya kanya n kmi ng asawa ko at kanya kanyang pera. Pero ung mga bta syempre minor skin kc d rin nmn cla maaalagaan ng papa nila. Pwed nmn bisita s knila at syempre ung supporta nya s mga bta. Ung share ng mga bta s pnagbentahan ng properties para s knila lang un. Wlang pwed gumalaw khit ako. Un ang agreement. Pwed un d b?

you can draw up an agreement as to custody and support. but you cannot separate your conjugal properties without court approval.

What if both parties agreed to that kind of arrangement? Kung pareho kami pumayag s ganoong set-up to sell our property then the proceeds be divided among us inc luding our children will also have their share. Do we need for the court decision?

yes, you can do that. what you cannot do is say, for example, that if you buy future properties, it will be owned only by one

honestly speaking, bringing our case to court would only costs us. that is why i was thinking to settle things amicably with him, of course with writing. yes, i wanted separation from him for good but it does not have to be done in the court since we both have no money to spend for it. well practically speaking, i would rather save what we have for our children's education and other needs. in case i would be buying some properties in the future, i would rather have it titled under my children's name instead.

just be aware of the possible consequences. if after the agreement, you win the lotto or buy properties, he can still claim his conjugal share because that agreement will not be enforced by the courts.