is 30% basic salary enough for a kid in province

i have a friend po na seaman din been separated from his wife.. their issue is the girl wants a 100% allotment. they only have one kid a 5 years old, walang yaya at nirerentahang bahay school fee is just around 500 a month and province pa sila nakatira.. before he was giving them 100 percent then 80% since di naman daw nakakaipon ang babae at dumadami pa utang nila, at wala din nakikitang bagong gamit sya pa ang bumibili ng lahat.. isa pa di na din pinapakausap sa kanya ang bata.

ngayon he decided to give only 30% which round up to 6000plus another 30% for his unemployed single mother the rest 40% he plans to save for himself for his expenses during his off board.

His ex wife threatened him to file case since gusto niya 80% since di daw nagbibigay si guy ng pera kapag nasa land sya.. pano magbibigay eh off board..may ginawa na declaration letter yung friend ko na 30% ng basic salary bibigay nya.. may habol po ba sya?

mjabaac wrote:i have a friend po na seaman din been separated from his wife..

Legally separated ba?, which means may court process or judgement like annulment, or nullity, or legal separation?

If none, well, the guy should support his family, his wife and his child, 100%. Yup (isang daang percent), likewise, hinde pwedeng ilagay sa usapan or written aggreement yung support kasi sabi ng batas, support cannot be subject to compromise.

If yes, try to look the court order, yung dispositive portion, kung magkano ang nakalagay doon na dapat na support sa bata. If none is written, then file a petition for support sa court.

nope, di sila legally separated pero kasi he was bothered lately kasi gusto kunin 100% .. pero may nakapagsabi din kasi na under daw ng child support law di naman nakalagay na 100% depende daw sa needs ng bata at sa income ng father, saka considering factor din daw na may work ang nanay.. siempre kung bibigay nya 100% panu naman daw sya mabubuhay wala ng natira sa kanya and knowing na wala na sya tatay at unemployed nanay niya obligation niya din nanay diba?

thats why he only plan to give 30% since he needs nasa province naman ang mag ina wala ibang gastusan kundi school and basic needs

mjabaac wrote:nope, di sila legally separated pero kasi he was bothered lately kasi gusto kunin 100% .. pero may nakapagsabi din kasi na under daw ng child support law di naman nakalagay na 100% depende daw sa needs ng bata at sa income ng father, saka considering factor din daw na may work ang nanay.. siempre kung bibigay nya 100% panu naman daw sya mabubuhay wala ng natira sa kanya and knowing na wala na sya tatay at unemployed nanay niya obligation niya din nanay diba?

thats why he only plan to give 30% since he needs nasa province naman ang mag ina wala ibang gastusan kundi school and basic needs

pagdating sa child support common na ang story na halos hubuan na ng babae ang lalaki kakahingi ng pera (excuse sa mga nanay dyan), yan ang totoo.

ang pag-hingi ng child support ay hindi parang pagsalok ng tubig sa balon na hanggat gusto mo e sige lang. the capability of the provider and the actual needs of the party asking for support is always a big factor. bakit ka hihingi ng 20k kung ang actual na kailangan mo lang naman ay 10k? at kung yun lang nag kaya ng provider.

parenting is always the responsibility of both mother and the father, kahit pa magkahiwalay na kayo.

true, dapat parenting is both ways di iaasa lahat sa lalaki.. kawawa naman friend ko ayaw bgyan ng girl supportahan mama niya gusto ni girl kanya ang 100%

saka pano nga kung basic lang salary ng tatay? di dapat kung anu lang sapat at nararapat.. yung mismong may katawan kailangan din mabuhay nyan di puede lahat ibigay nya..

support is dependent on the needs of the child and the financial capacity of the one giving them. inasmuch as the child needs sustenance for him to live, there is also a concurrent right of the one giving support to live. hence, a 100% sustenance is ridiculous if not impossible to give. however, the proper determination of support is for the court to decide, the 30% may be adjusted or changed by the court it may be added to or lessened by it. the decision rendered is not final.

mjabaac wrote:nope, di sila legally separated pero kasi he was bothered lately kasi gusto kunin 100% .. pero may nakapagsabi din kasi na under daw ng child support law di naman nakalagay na 100% depende daw sa needs ng bata at sa income ng father, saka considering factor din daw na may work ang nanay.. siempre kung bibigay nya 100% panu naman daw sya mabubuhay wala ng natira sa kanya and knowing na wala na sya tatay at unemployed nanay niya obligation niya din nanay diba?

thats why he only plan to give 30% since he needs nasa province naman ang mag ina wala ibang gastusan kundi school and basic needs

Support as provided under the civil code includes:

Transportation
Education
Sustenance
Dwelling
Medical assistance
Clothing

Not necessarily and confined in terms of MONEY, the father MAY give 100% support in terms of clothing or medicines/vitamins, so the better way to determine how much would be the proper support (in terms of money) is for the court to determine, after all, support may vary depending on the needs of the child.

File a petition for support.

sa case ko na ganyan. simple lng ang ginawa ko. digit by digit actual expenses ultimo sentimo. service, school fee, groceries, baon evryday, eh pati nga yta butil ng kanin na kinakain nung 2 kung junanakz eh halos bilaning ng aking dakilang x-wife. katwiran ko. sya naman ang nanay at may work din naman sya? bka naman pwdeng sya na sumaopt ng ulam? hehehe. anyway hndi din namin yan napag kasunduan dahil sa actual brealdown ng computation na binibigay nya sakin for me to knw kung mag kano per month? aba napansin ko. palaging klasama ang girl scout uniform, books at proj? hehehe kya mejo akoy umimik na.. monthly ba nag papalit ng uniform ang girlscout? at monthly din ba kailanagan bago ang books? anyway.. ayun hangang sa ngyaun jan umiikot ang sweet exchanging msg namin ng aking x-juwawers.. tek note:) sya ngayun ay jontis s akanyang new fafu:) ahihihi. ang landi.. ahahaha. anway maiba naman ako. yung kasama ko sa trabaho as per the rule dw eh 70% ang hinihingi ng x-wife nya s akanya as sustain monthly. so what he did is.. eh di hndi nya i dineclare ang real monthly income nya. 70% daw kamo? o cge, 10k/month dw sahod nya kya ayun. bonggang bonggang 7k/month ang padala nya. para naman may maiwan sa kanya kahit in real life eh hndi naman yun tlga ang sahod nya. diskarte lng. kase kung minsan kapag nag pa sakop sa rules. eh kawawa ang mga anak ni adan:( geh.. tips and tricks lng po:)

kapag legal wife may karapatan po siya magdemand ng 80% ng basic salary ng asawa niya mapupunta sa kanya

i mean di naman pwedi na 100% yon.

Hirap sa mga babae ngayon napaka taas ng expectation at abusado! ang iba naman sinasadyang mag asawa para lang may masandalang magsusuporta! hays! at least ang asawa ko kapag tinotopak at nag alsa balutan hindi nag dedemand ng pera dahil sa pride kaya mahal na mahal ko eh! sa totoo lang maraming mga babaeng walang pride at mukhang pera na ginagamit panang galang ay ang kanilang mga anak! hindi marunong magbanat ng mga buto ang alam tihaya lang at hawakan sa leeg ang mga lalaki! kaya bago kayo magpatali kilalanin munang mabuti kung nararapat ba ang babaeng makakasama nyo ng pang habang buhay at sa panahon ngayon maraming mga babaeng users!