ako ay kabit

ako po ay 31 yrs old na lalake. nagkaroon po ako ng relasyon sa isang 36 year old na babae na nakilala ko lamang sa chat. nung una po ang pagpapakilala nya sa akin sya ay hiwalay sa asawa. ang ang batang nakikita ko minsan sa cam nya ay pamangkin nya. nagkita po kmi ng personal noong march 24 2010. me nangyari po smin. natuloy ang relasyon nmin hanggang nitong july 7 2010. marami po akong nalamang kasinungalingan nya. nalaman ko na din na meron pla sya tlgang asawa. ito ay nasa abroad lng. at sa katapusan ng july ang uwi. at bukod po sakin ay meron pa syang ibang nakarelasyon. nais ko pong malaman kung me kasong pwedeng isampa sakin kaso sakaling sabihin ko sa asawa nya ang mga pinaggagawa ng nkarelasyon ko habang ito ay sana ibang bansa.

The offended party in what you have narrated here is the spouse of your chatmate. Yes, he can file a complaint against you and his wife for adultery but he will need solid evidence to prove his allegations. No other person can file the complaint except him. He can file adultery charges against his wife and he cannot institute the complaint without including you. But as I've said, he will need concrete evidence, i.e., testimony of persons who actually saw or witnessed the sexual intercourse or carnal knowledge of her, photos, receipts, text messages, etc. If I were you, it's better to stop this nonsense and look for other female friends who could be your room mate forever. She's a married person and I'm sure you don't like to make your life complicated.

i hope you saved her messages to show that you thought she was unmarried. that is your defense in case the hubby files a case of adultery against you and is able to prove that you had sexual intercourse with her(but it's right, terribly hard to prove).

wla nman pong ebidensya makukuha ang asawa ng nakarelasyon ko. ang purpose ko lng po kya ko gusto sabihin sa asawa nya ung namagitan smin ay para matigil na ung ginagawa nyang panglalalake. dhil habang kami ay may relasyon nalaman ko po na meron pa plang iba bukod sakin. gusto ko pong matigil ung ginagawa nyang panloloko.

i wouldn't advise contacting the husband unless you can keep anonymous. if not you'd be giving evidence of your wrongdoing. and watch out for the wife. if she finds out, she might confess to drag you in.

thank you sir.. ill keep that in mind

meron po bang pagkakataon na kung saan ang kabit lamang ang nasasampahan ng kaso at ang asawang babae ay pinapatawad ng asawa nya? ano ang maaring pwedeng maging hakbang kung sakaling gnun ang mangyari?

no, they have to be charged together. and reconciliation will benefit the lover also. up to you if you want to risk it.

There is only one solution to your problem....STAY AWAY and LEAVE that girl for good!
This is the only way for you to avoid being subjected to any kind of complications that has both legal and moral consequence.

i just want to get back at her for being loose. i want her husband to find out what shes being doing while he is away. first of all when i met her she didnt say she is married. she said she is separated and with one daughter. after our relationship went on and with the constant questioning her about her life.. where she live, whos her last relationship with, thats only the time i found out she did have a husband. at first i felt betrayed and after a while i accepted it. and continued with our relationship. our problem started when i began doubting her. i found out that i wasnt the only one shes been seeing. which brings me to my next question. can i be held liable in court if i hack into her email? i hacked her email and found out this certain guy. shes telling him that if someone ask him about her in any networking sites like frendster, facebook and yahoo messenger.. wag dw sabihin kung sino sya o kung ano sila. i printed that conversation and presented it to her. and like every confrontation we had she denies it. the problem with this woman is getting the truth out of her is like waiting for a snow to fall here in the philippines. now, i know a lot of you will ask why stay in that kind of relationship?.. not to be blunt about it.. but the sex is always good. and im only human.

oh good, now some honesty. and don't worry, we know clients always lie and fudge details.

let me keep my comments to purely legal matters.

1) under the electronic commerce act you are criminally liable for hacking. you cannot use the email because it was taken through a violation of her privacy of communication.

2) once you knew of her marriage, you became liable for adultery for each time you had intercourse with her.

I think you have enough info to make a decision. good luck.

thank you.. i guess ill just stick on being anonymous if thats the case

hahahhahah there you go... what a nice conversation we have... good luck to you man...

i was once a kabit too ... i am just having dilemma if i will have to go to prison for what i did months ago....


i hope i won't coz im planning to go abroad together with my fiance..... who knew everything about me....