current status of my parents: they still live in the same house together with my other 2 siblings but on separate rooms.
since we were still young, we have been physically and verbally abused by our father. my mother more so. the abuse only stopped just a few years ago, the physical part anyway. we have no evidence whatsoever of these abuse since at the time we were scared to do anything about it especially my mother since she is the martyr type.
my father and his mistress: we've known about this since the beginnin g but couldnt do anything about it since we'r scared. since i got married, ngayon lang ako nagkalakas ng loob to fight. just recently i got to know where they live since i saw my father come out of the property. my father now just goes home only in the mornings and aftnernoons but goes back to the mistress and spends the night there. sometimes he doesnt go home at all for days. and also we heard they have a son. but i have no proof of this. only hearsay.
since we were born, our father never supported us financially up until now. all bills, school etc was payed by our mother and lola(aunt of my dad). when our lola died that was 2010, thats when my father only started to provide for us.. he pays for the electric bill but only up to a specific amount otherwise if the bill exceeds we are obliged to pay for the excess amount.
i really want to file a case against my father and his mistress. my mother is willing to participate as well. but the problem is i dont know where to start.. since i have no evidence. perhaps you can provide us with the evidence part.. money is not a problem if the price is right. we would greatly appreciate your help.