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Im a mistress and I need help.

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mhiebianx21


Arresto Menor

april_1980 wrote:@ EMERFECT and KBS

Nakakarelate ako sa inyong dalawa.I am not proud to be a mistress kasi may mga tao na hindi nila tayo maintindihan.pero like what AWV said,lahat ng mistress ay may kani kaniyang kwento.

I met the guy in our office, naging close friend kami kasi were both came from same province. I have a 12 years relationship  with my current bf that time. pero you know what? ipinagpalit ko yong 12 years relationship ko to a married man.sabihin nilang tanga ako, pero i don't care.

Nong umpisa kasi hindi namin alam ni Lowell na aabot sa ganito  ka-serious na relationship.
Hindi pa kami magkakilala, hindi na masaya ang pagsasama nila ng wife nya,minamaliit sya at walang respeto sa kanya kasi mas nakakaangat ng pinag aralan si wife,lage daw silang nag-aaway at nakikita nong anak nila.nagsabi na rin si Lowell ng saloobin nya sa asawa nya para ma-survive yong marriage nila,Pero nagbingi bingihan ang wife nya dahil sa taas ng pride. Na-witness  ko rin kung panu sya maliitin at laitin in front of many people na kakilala nya.
In short,iniwan ko yong bf ko and naging kami ni Lowell,Nakita ko kasi ang value nya,kung panu sya magpahalaga at magmahal na hindi nagawang ipakita sakin ng bf ko.Wala akong plan na agawin sya sa family nya.Share lang sya ng konting time for me masaya nako don.Gusto ko lang kasi na kahit konting oras maging masaya sya.We plan to have a child at nangyari naman pero kuntento nako sa situation namin.On my 5th month of pregnancy, nalaman nong wife ang tungkol sa amin. Pinalayas nya si Lowell at sakin tumuloy.Don na sya tumira sa bahay namin and syempre natuwa ako kasi kahit klan hindi ko naisip na magkakaron kami ng ganong chance.Nagkaron sila ng written agreement na wala na silang pakialaman sa isat isa..etc. and may signature ng mga witnesses nila.Every weekend sya dumadalaw at walang palya sa 1 nilang anak and hindi naman sya nagkukulang ng sustento.Ilang months ang nakalipas na ok ang lahat.Until dumating yong time na nanganak ako.paglabas ko ng hospital on that day, yong wife sumugod sa bahay ,sinampal ako at nag eskandalo.wala don si lowell kasi pumunta sa kanila para magbigay ng sustento at dalawin ang bata pero nagkasalisi sila.Nagalit si wife kasi ndi nakadalaw si lowell, eh nasa hospital ako non at nagbantay sya sakin .Pinablotter nya kami sa brgy.,after 3 days, pinatawag kami sa brgy.and pinablotter ko din sya for trespassing and assault.On the first day of hearing,inamin ni wife ang ginawa nya at ndi daw sya natatakot kasi may lawyer daw sya ,masyado syang mayabang.nag-sorry sya sakin nong nalaman nyang mabigat ang magiging kaso nya dahil sa ginawa nya sakin at gusto nya na e-close ko na yong case na yon.Actually naintindihan ko naman sya,hindi naman ako nagalit nong sinampal nya ko kasi deserved ko naman yon.sino ba ako para mag-inarte eh mas malaki atraso ko sa kanya kung tutuusin,pero sa harap ng mga taong andon ay sinisigaw sigawan nya si lowell at naawa ako sa kanya kaya hindi tuloy ako pumayag na e-close na yong case na yon on that day kasi wala pa naman kaming napagkasunduan don sa reklamong sinampa nya laban samin(pambababae ng asawa nya).Naniguro din ako syempre.kaya napagkasunduan na sa susunod na hearing na lang ayusin ang lahat,at planu ko na sa susunod naming paghaharap iuurong ko na rin yong reklamo ko sa kanya pag nagkaron na kami ng kasunduan at magsosorry din.Pero ndi umayon ang pagkakataon kasi hindi na kami pinadalhan ng letter ng barangay para ayusin yon,kaya nakapending yong case na yon.Nanahimik kaming tatlo for 4 months.Last month, pinakilala nako ng BF ko sa Family nya kasama ang anak namin,dinala nya kami sa province nila.Nalaman ko na hindi din pala nila kasundo yong girl kasi masyadong matapobre,kahit andon sila,pinapakita daw nya na sya ang nasusunod at hindi si lowell.Natuwa pa nga sila kasi naglakas loob na daw si lowell na iwan si wife nya.Pero sad kasi nalaman ni wife and nagalit uli. Kung ano anu pinagtetext sa bf ko.And nagfile sya ng case sa bf ko,nasaktan daw kasi ang pride nya kasi bat kailangan pa daw ako ipakilala.Gusto nya na bumalik sa kanila si lowell  kasi kong hindi ay ipapakulong sya at pinagbabawalan siyang ma makipagcommunicate pa samin.Ayaw pumayag ni lowell.I asked him kung gusto ba nyang bumalik sa wife nya at iintindihin ko na lang kesa mapahamak sya.Pero ayaw nya kaming iwan nong anak nya.Mas gugustuhin pa daw nyang makulong kesa bumalik sa asawa nya.Ganun nya ko kamahal kasi nakita din nya kung panu ko sya pahalagaahan na kelanman ndi nya nakita sa asawa nya.ito yong bagay na hindi ko pinagsisihan kasi kahit kabit lang ako,nakapagpasaya ako at nakapagbigay pa ng inspirasyon sa ibang tao na malapit nang mawalan ng pag-asang lumigaya,nakita ko kasi yong klase ng pagmamahal at pagpapahalaga  nya na hindi ko alm kung makikita ko pa yon sa iba.Ito yong bagay na sinayang nong wife,mas importante pa kasi yong pride nya at ayaw nya magpasakop sa asawa nya porque mas mataas pinag-aralan nya.
Nakipagmatigasan din sya sa wife nya,Pinakita nya na kahit anong pananakot gawin sa kanya ay hindi na sya talaga babalik at hindi na sya natatakot.Wala naman problema sa anak nila kasi mas gugustuhin ng bata na sakin na tumira ang daddy nya kesa sa bahay nila at lageng nag-away magulang nya.anytime naman kasi na kelangan sya nong anak nya ay pumupunta naman daddy nya. Sa ngayon ay hindi ko alam kung anong mangyayari,kung idedemanda kami ay alam ko naman na talo kaming 2 kasi si wife pa rin ang may karapatan,pero lalaban din ako para sa mahal ko.Itutuloy ko din ang kaso ko na trespassing and assault laban sa kanya.Sabihin na nating blackmail.Baka sabihin ng iba na makapal mukha ko kasi ako na ang mistress ako pa may lakas ng loob na lumaban.Gagawin ko to para ipaglaban ang mahal ko,

Sa ngayon ay nag-lie low na sya at sinabihan na lumayo na lang kami,takot din siguro na matangalan ng ipinagmamalaki nyang lisensya.Pero ayoko ng umabot don ang situation .Gusto ko din sanang mag-sorry sa kanya sa lahat ng nangyari pero wala pa akong lakas ng loob kasi alam kong hindi naman nya ko pakikingan,siguro sa tamang panahon na lang.kapag ok na ang lahat at umaasa ako na darating ang araw na yan.

Wala akong inagawan o sinirang pamilya kasi bago pa lang ako dumating ay talagang sira na.Nagkataon na ako ang dumating para mapasaya sya kasi kung hindi man daw ako dumating sa buhay nya ay maghahanap daw talaga sya ng ibang magmamahal sa kanya.
Hindi ko sinasabi na dapat tularan ang tulad kong mistress.Hangat maaari kung kaya pang iwasan ay umiwas na muna.Pero kung talagang nagmamahalan kayo, it's up to you kung kaya nyong ipaglaban ang isa't isa pero be ready to face the consequences.
Sa mga legal wife naman, wala akong karapatang mangaral sa
inyo, ang masasabi ko lang,sana pahalagahan nyo yong mga husband ninyo.Wag puro mga pagkakamali lang nila ang nakikita nyo,baka ang mga bagay na hindi nyo nakikita ay napakahalaga pala sa iba.

Sana don't judge "US".


TAMA! Hindi naman namin ginusto na maging kabit. Nagmahal lang kami. at sana maintindihan nyo yun...

202Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Tue Jul 30, 2013 10:29 am

angelexis


Arresto Menor

Numbers 5: 20-27
God curses women who commit adultery, causes them to suffer horribly and, if pregnant, miscarry.

Life is full of choices. God gives us freedom to choose between good and bad. If u choose what is right, He will reward us something we deserve. If u choose against His law, He will let us suffer with the consequences of our choices.

I hate people saying "Nagmahal lang sila" or "di sila perfect" or "You can't judge me" these lines are defense mechanism to cover their guilt. Alam nyong mali ang ginagawa nyo.

The real happiness (Joy) is God-centered and eternal- our choices now does not affect the future, yan ang totoong happiness.

Happiness is self-centered and temporary- our choices now affect the future. Maaaring masaya ka ngaun pero hanggang kailan? Nakawasak ka ng pamilya, nasira ang buhay ng mga anak na winasak mong relasyon. May libre pang condemnation sa ginawa mo. Mawawalan ka ng trabaho, magiging kaaway mo pamilya mo dahil hindi sila sang ayon sa ginagawa mo. Its not that makes you happy, selfishness po yun.


THINK!
THINK!
THINK!

203Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Thu Aug 08, 2013 2:34 pm

neriejhane


Arresto Menor

ang pinagbuklod ng diyos hindi dapat pinaghihiwalay ng tao, sana kung hindi kayo natatakot in legal way mahiya kayo kay God... sa mata ng Diyos at lipunan mali at maling mali. What if ikaw an wife ano ang mararamdaman at gagawin mo? maraming lalaki na single bakit kelangan ung may asawa pa.... ang love protects ang love understand ang love happiness maligaya kb na nakakasakit ka.


@angelexis very well said Smile

204Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Wed Aug 14, 2013 2:29 pm

mrs. confused


Arresto Menor

nkakarelate ako s posts dto and i also need help.. my boyfriend had a 1 night stand and nabuntis nya un girl dahil dun they were forced to get married. d p man sila kasal lumayo nko dahil sobrang msakit un ngyari.. after 2 years, aksidenteng ngkrus ulit landas nmen sa isang event at nalaman ko n hndi umabot ng isang taon un marriage nla at nghiwalay dn.. may bago ng asawa un girl at may anak n dun s bagong asawa.... because of that bumalik ako s knya, walang naging problem dun s first wife.. we got married khit alam nmen n null and void p rn un.. smooth ang flow ng relationship and pti inlaws ko kasundo ko. the problem began 2 years ago when my husband transferred to a call center, i found out that he's having an affair with his officemate na 21 yrs old that time.. knausap ko un babae to inform her n bka d xa aware n may asawa un bf nya. she denied the relationship.. ramdam ko meron p rn cla pero wla akong proof.. then last year natuklasan ko n on-going p rn un relationship and worst nabuntis p xa.. my husband requested for a space last dec 2012 alam ko n may mga plano na cla kya nkpghiwalay ang asawa ko... nanahimik lng ako kc msyado n rn ako nasasaktan... twice a week dumadalaw ang asawa ko s anak ko (we have a 7 yr old son and un 9 yr old daughter nya s first marriage) and sometimes dun s bahay natutulog.. at first ok p un financial support and ok kmi... minsan ngpphiwatig xa n parang gusto nya ng bumalik... civil nman kmi pg nsa bahay xa..... until recently unti unti n nman nbawasan ang financial support n bnbgay nya 1k n lng kda sweldo...at mrmi xa dahilan kung bket wla n xa pera.. i got a feeling na kno-control ng babae un pera nya.. i got the chance n mkuha un celphone nya nung minsan umuwi xa.. naconfirmed ko na cla p rn although d cla ngssma dahil s kptid nkatira un babae. nakita ko rn s message na inaaway xa nung babe everytime na umuuwi xa s bhay.. i got the chance n mkuha ang contact number nung kptid nung babae.. i talked to them and inform them of the situation kaya lng d n nla mkontrol un kptid nila.. the girl is also texting me now and telling me na pareho lng kmi ng status at xa ang mahal ng asawa ko kaya wala akong magagawa para maghabol s asawa ko at sweldo ng asawa ko....aware dn xa n hndi mghhbol un first wife kya ang lakas ng loob nya.. nananadya p xa mgpost ng kung anu-ano at tlgang nang-aasar....i feel so down pero wala ako magawa...meron kaming bnbayaran n house and lot and unti-unti n rn ngmi-missed ng payment un husband ko.. im afraid n bibitawan nya rn un dhil s utos nung babae nya.. nag-iisip kmi ngayn ng mga in laws ko ng legal way para masiguro n smen ng anak ko mpupunta un bahay.. meron po b kyo maipapayo para dun? meron dn po bang case n pwede ko i-file dun s babae s emotional at psychological stress na binibigay nya sken?? sa ngayn pnigilan ko n un husband ko n pmunta ulit s bahay ksi sobra-sobrang stress un gngwa sken nung babae everytime n andun xa sa bahay..sana po matulungan nyo dn ako...

205Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Wed Aug 14, 2013 3:05 pm

polah_vidal_siers


Arresto Menor




nako hanap ka nga ng iba..... ang gulo naman nyan! Wala ka talagang laban dyan kahit sabihin mo pa na lalaban ka. In the end ikaw pa yung suffer ng consequences plus yung future offspring nyu! Bakit sabi mo hirap communication dahil suspicious na si Mrs? Ano ba naman yan...get a life and a healthy relationship. Kun ganun eh hindi pa nga kayo open cohabitation, meaning denied ka pa ni hubby sa Mrs nya relasyun nyu (playing safe pa sya sayu, meaning he only plays around with u). Ikaw nga puntahan mo asawa nya sabihin mo sayu na sha if c Mr approve sayu mahal ka nya...if not bobog sarado kappa dyan, I'll bet! Alam mo kahit erase ka pa sa picture dyan, kapag babaero lalaki hanap pa yan ng iba kahit wala ka na o magdistansya ka pa. Kasi hindi decided c Mr. Eh! Akala ko kasi nag live in na kayu, indi pa pala.

206Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Wed Aug 14, 2013 3:12 pm

polah_vidal_siers


Arresto Menor



Gusto mo batas on yur favor, naku sabihin mo yan sa mga taong matitino! Don't close ur mind Iha! Kahit yung religion mo gamitin mo wala yang basis yung concern mo. Against the law pa nga eh! Crime kasi yan against morals, and public policy. Para ka ng nakaw ng asawa nyan! Based on the holy Grail and the law wala ka talaga kalagyan. OK. U better seek psychological help instead.

207Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Thu Aug 15, 2013 9:47 am

bullet28


Arresto Menor

pasingit! i hate mistresses... may husband has a mistress who is 10 years younger than him! tried couple of times to reach out to the girl and ask her to leave my family alone. ang tapang! mas matapang pa sila sa tunay na asawa... or siguro it's because she's very young kaya super dali pang bolahin. anyway i filed her a case... tingnan ko lang kung hindi mawindang ung bruha na un! Smile

208Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Sun Sep 01, 2013 12:51 pm

AWV

AWV
Reclusion Perpetua

Mrs. Confused dahil pangalawa ka sa pinakasalan nya, sabit sya ng bigamy kahit di nag work out yung first marriage nya dapat di mo na pinakasalan dahil sabit ka rin dahil aware ka na kasal sya from the start. So kung mag take ka ng legal action lalabas rin itong situwasyon mo sa kanya. Mahirap situwasyon mo kailangan mo ng expert na lawyer dito.

209Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Fri Sep 06, 2013 9:41 pm

crazybutyou


Arresto Menor

im a mistress and now having a baby with my boyfriend.
my parents decided to stop me seing him and ask me to just stay at home and support all mu needs.
the problem is my sister wants to help the wife sue my boyfriend by telling her im pregnant.
can somebody help me?

1. can she really sue my bf and also me using my baby as an evidence?
2. can my sister testify that in behalf of my presence?
3. what proof do they need to justify that my baby's father is her husband?
4. what if i denied it, and tell them its not his child? is it possible?

hoping somebody can give me a legal advice.
im having a hard time right now and worried about my baby.

Thanks.

210Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Sat Sep 07, 2013 5:13 am

AWV

AWV
Reclusion Perpetua

crazybutyou wrote:im a mistress and now having a baby with my boyfriend.
my parents decided to stop me seing him and ask me to just stay at home and support all mu needs.
the problem is my sister wants to help the wife sue my boyfriend by telling her im pregnant.
can somebody help me?

Typical! of all people! you can't trust your own bloody sister! I wish all horrible siblings just disappear in this world! Evil or Very Mad 

1. can she really sue my bf and also me using my baby as an evidence?
If she can get hold of the birth certificate of your child and get a DNA test which is possible because of your stupid sister! Mad 

2. can my sister testify that in behalf of my presence?
I'm afraid she can!

3. what proof do they need to justify that my baby's father is her husband?
If you use his surname and have him acknowledge your child. And if your stupid sister manage to give the wife a sample to use for DNA test.

4. what if i denied it, and tell them its not his child? is it possible?
Even if you deny it, if your sister is helping the wife she can get you into trouble because she is a BITCH! 

hoping somebody can give me a legal advice.
im having a hard time right now and worried about my baby.
Try to move far away from your stupid sister so she won't know where you are and curse her so she cannot come near you anymore! Who knows it may work and she cannot harm you anymore! Twisted Evil 

Thanks.

211Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Fri Nov 22, 2013 4:53 pm

assenav

assenav
Prision Mayor

angelexis wrote:Numbers 5: 20-27
God curses women who commit adultery, causes them to suffer horribly and, if pregnant, miscarry.

Life is full of choices. God gives us freedom to choose between good and bad. If u choose what is right, He will reward us something we deserve. If u choose against His law, He will let us suffer with the consequences of our choices.

I hate people saying "Nagmahal lang sila" or "di sila perfect" or "You can't judge me" these lines are defense mechanism to cover their guilt. Alam nyong mali ang ginagawa nyo.

The real happiness (Joy) is God-centered and eternal- our choices now does not affect the future, yan ang totoong happiness.

Happiness is self-centered and temporary- our choices now affect the future. Maaaring masaya ka ngaun pero hanggang kailan? Nakawasak ka ng pamilya, nasira ang buhay ng mga anak na winasak mong relasyon. May libre pang condemnation sa ginawa mo. Mawawalan ka ng trabaho, magiging kaaway mo pamilya mo dahil hindi sila sang ayon sa ginagawa mo. Its not that makes you happy, selfishness po yun.


THINK!
THINK!
THINK!




i like this comment! very! kaya nga yung utak ej mas mataas sa puso kase para mag isip ng tama at nde masunod ang puso.. hay naku. kahit ayaw nio manira ng pamilya, yun ang ginagawa nio..

there's a lot of fishes in the ocean.. sobrang dami..

212Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Fri Nov 22, 2013 4:58 pm

assenav

assenav
Prision Mayor

bullet28 wrote:pasingit! i hate mistresses... may husband has a mistress who is 10 years younger than him! tried couple of times to reach out to the girl and ask her to leave my family alone. ang tapang! mas matapang pa sila sa tunay na asawa... or siguro it's because she's very young kaya super dali pang bolahin. anyway i filed her a case... tingnan ko lang kung hindi mawindang ung bruha na un! Smile


hahahaha... talagang matapang pa nga sila.. kaso nung magkaroon ng kabit asawa ko, aba d ako nagpatalo.. matapang sya, mas matapang ako! kaladkarin ko nga at hubaran sabay isakay sa jeep n pauwe s kanila.. san ka pa? hahaha d nakapiyok ang bruha!!!!!!! Very Happy

213Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Sat Nov 23, 2013 12:56 am

katarah

katarah
Arresto Menor

hi poh sa inyo. Talagang nakakarelate ako dito. Same also to my situation, im a mistress din. Halos gabi gabi kong iniiisip ung sinabi ng asawa ng x bf ko saken. She will sue me adultery kung hnd ko daw titigilan ang asawa nya dahil nalaman nyang nbuntis ako ng asawa nya nang sa pagkakaalam ko ei hnd sila kasal pero me dalawa silang anak. At c lalaki na asawa nya at x bf ko ay wala n kami ngaun ni communication wala n din. Ngaun, me laban kaya ako sa x bf ko? Anung
kaso naman kaya ang nararapat s kanya? Plz help me. I need your advice.:'(

214Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Tue Nov 26, 2013 2:17 pm

jamjamjoh


Arresto Menor

sabe nga ni jacquilyn jose sa secret affair:
ang mistress kaya tinawag na mistress kase nakaka-stress
ang kirida kaya tinawag na kirida kase kiri

wag kayo ma-offend kase dapat ang pagaganahin mo dito bago ka pumasok sa isang napaka delikadong relasyon UTAK. isip-isip din at tanong tanong kung ano posibleng mangyare kapag pumasok kayo sa isang relasyon na illegal.
hindi porke mahal eh mahal lang mabubuhay ba kayo sa pagmamahal lang.kung alam nyo ng me asawat anak bat papatol pa kayo kung alam nyo naman na magiging magulo lang ang relasyon nyo.
hindi sa lahat ng oras at panahon masasabi nyo na nagmahal lang kayo.
babalik at babalikan kayo ng karma kahit dina gumanti ang legal wife.andyan lang ang karma.

yung iba kaseng kabit me asawa na tapos ang kapal pa ng muka magladlad. like ng ngyare samen ng asawa ko until now todo deny pa rin.pasalamat nalang sila at dipa ko nagpa-file ng case laban sa kanila.i have the evidences but still im quiet.
saka lang kase nila maiisip na MALI ang ginawa nila kapag nawasak na ang isang pamilya...

215Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Fri Dec 06, 2013 4:15 am

Unknown2210


Arresto Menor

Gudpm. Same situation. Really appreciate sa mga magaadvice. Recently kinasal ang bf ko sa pinas, ang babae e living in canada for more than 12yrs at residente na at meron na 2 anak sa ibang lalake na canadian citizen dn. The reason was kaya pinursue ng bf q ang marriage dhil sa pgiging citizen nya dn sooner. im currently working here in macau and we finally decided na pumunta sya dito sa macau pra mkpghnp ng trabaho at dito bumuo ng sarili nameng pamilya, wala silang anak ng girl 1month nagstay ang girl sa pilipinas pra sa kasal nila sad to say nagpakasal lng tlg sila dhil sa ctizenship n habol ng bf q, and ngayon na nalalapit na ang pagpunta ng bf q dito ntatakot aq.na maiskandalo dahil mayaman ang girl.

216Im a mistress and I need help. - Page 9 Empty Re: Im a mistress and I need help. Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:02 pm

hononymous


Arresto Menor

hi! we have the same situation but different story. if halimbawa nagfile yung asawa ng concubinage or monetary damage ano din ang pwede ko icounter sa kanya? since ineskandalo nya ako at family ko. pati don sa pinagtratrabahuhan ng parents ko at kapatid nag eskandalo din sya. it all happenned 3 yrs ago. the thing is before pa naging kami ng asawa nya meron na rin naging mistress ang bf ko ngayon. and she also learned about it she scandalized txted the girls parents. like the way she did to me. ni unang nalaman nya about sa amin sinugod na nya ako kagad. pumunta kagad sa hauz para mag eskandalo. kinausap din ang father ko. buti nd inatake sa puso tatay ko. dahil nabigla sya. nid na shock ang tatay ko sa ginawa nya. nagcompalin sya sa brgy. sinabi na rin sa kanya ng bf ko na susuportahan na lang nya sila ng anak nila. 1 lang naging anak nila kc ang ngyari nabuntis lang din sya kaya pinakasalan. at dahil sa kagustuhan din ng magulang ng bf ko since yun nga buntis na yung asawa. ngayon po nungkinasal sila eh sa munisipyo nd po cla dumaan sa tamang proseso since may kamag anak yun girl na politician kaya napadali ang kasal nila. 2011 un ngyari. lahat ng kakilala namin pinagkwekwento nya ako. as in sirang sira na po. kaya imbes na layuan ko n lang asawa nya eh lalo ako napakapit dahil sa ginawa nya., mahal na mahal ko naman din bf ko pero kaya ko sya pakawalan that time kung gusto nya maayos rrelasyon nila..humarap kami sa brgy para ayusin pero d sumipot yung asawa. pero magaling syang mag eskandalo..pati mga kamag anak ko eneskandalo nya e wala naman alam mga yun.

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hononymous


Arresto Menor

i dont believe in karma kase kung meron nyan marami ng nakarma na gumawa ng masama. and sabi nga start your own thread and respect this thread. kaya kayo naipagpapalit dahil di kau makaintindi.Evil or Very Mad 

jamjamjoh wrote:sabe nga ni jacquilyn jose sa secret affair:
ang mistress kaya tinawag na mistress kase nakaka-stress
ang kirida kaya tinawag na kirida kase kiri

wag kayo ma-offend kase dapat ang pagaganahin mo dito bago ka pumasok sa isang napaka delikadong relasyon UTAK. isip-isip din at tanong tanong kung ano posibleng mangyare kapag pumasok kayo sa isang relasyon na illegal.
hindi porke mahal eh mahal lang mabubuhay ba kayo sa pagmamahal lang.kung alam nyo ng me asawat anak bat papatol pa kayo kung alam nyo naman na magiging magulo lang ang relasyon nyo.
       hindi sa lahat ng oras at panahon masasabi nyo na nagmahal lang kayo.
babalik at babalikan kayo ng karma kahit dina gumanti ang legal wife.andyan lang ang karma.

yung iba kaseng kabit me asawa na tapos ang kapal pa ng muka magladlad. like ng ngyare samen ng asawa ko until now todo deny pa rin.pasalamat nalang sila at dipa ko nagpa-file ng case laban sa kanila.i have the evidences but still im quiet.
                          saka lang kase nila maiisip na MALI ang ginawa nila kapag nawasak na ang isang pamilya...

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hononymous


Arresto Menor

eh kung matagal ng sira? lol.. kakasabi lang sa inyo start kau thread nu d kau maakintindi eh. ang kulit:evil: 


assenav wrote:
angelexis wrote:Numbers 5: 20-27
God curses women who commit adultery, causes them to suffer horribly and, if pregnant, miscarry.

Life is full of choices. God gives us freedom to choose between good and bad. If u choose what is right, He will reward us something we deserve. If u choose against His law, He will let us suffer with the consequences of our choices.

I hate people saying "Nagmahal lang sila" or "di sila perfect" or "You can't judge me" these lines are defense mechanism to cover their guilt. Alam nyong mali ang ginagawa nyo.

The real happiness (Joy) is God-centered and eternal- our choices now does not affect the future, yan ang totoong happiness.

Happiness is self-centered and temporary- our choices now affect the future. Maaaring masaya ka ngaun pero hanggang kailan? Nakawasak ka ng pamilya, nasira ang buhay ng mga anak na winasak mong relasyon. May libre pang condemnation sa ginawa mo. Mawawalan ka ng trabaho, magiging kaaway mo pamilya mo dahil hindi sila sang ayon sa ginagawa mo. Its not that makes you happy, selfishness po yun.


THINK!
THINK!
THINK!



i like this comment! very! kaya nga yung utak ej mas mataas sa puso kase para mag isip ng tama at nde masunod ang puso.. hay naku. kahit ayaw nio manira ng pamilya, yun ang ginagawa nio..

there's a lot of fishes in the ocean.. sobrang dami..

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assenav

assenav
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hononymous wrote:eh kung matagal ng sira? lol.. kakasabi lang sa inyo start kau thread nu d kau maakintindi eh. ang kulit:evil: 


assenav wrote:
angelexis wrote:Numbers 5: 20-27
God curses women who commit adultery, causes them to suffer horribly and, if pregnant, miscarry.

Life is full of choices. God gives us freedom to choose between good and bad. If u choose what is right, He will reward us something we deserve. If u choose against His law, He will let us suffer with the consequences of our choices.

I hate people saying "Nagmahal lang sila" or "di sila perfect" or "You can't judge me" these lines are defense mechanism to cover their guilt. Alam nyong mali ang ginagawa nyo.

The real happiness (Joy) is God-centered and eternal- our choices now does not affect the future, yan ang totoong happiness.

Happiness is self-centered and temporary- our choices now affect the future. Maaaring masaya ka ngaun pero hanggang kailan? Nakawasak ka ng pamilya, nasira ang buhay ng mga anak na winasak mong relasyon. May libre pang condemnation sa ginawa mo. Mawawalan ka ng trabaho, magiging kaaway mo pamilya mo dahil hindi sila sang ayon sa ginagawa mo. Its not that makes you happy, selfishness po yun.


THINK!
THINK!
THINK!



i like this comment! very! kaya nga yung utak ej mas mataas sa puso kase para mag isip ng tama at nde masunod ang puso.. hay naku. kahit ayaw nio manira ng pamilya, yun ang ginagawa nio..

there's a lot of fishes in the ocean.. sobrang dami..



no offense meant kay hononymous...anung kwenta ng forum kung walang sasagot? yung iba nga na nagpo post eh nahingi pa ng advices dba? kaya nga poh thread... isa pa, di lang naman mga KABIT ang member ng forum natin kaya d natin maiiwasan na may mga LEGAL WIVES ang mag comment!!!


gawa ng sarili nilang forum yang mga kabit na yan para walang legal wife na mag comment sa kanila...

you said "eh kung matagal ng sira?" kaya naman kau eh sinasamantala na lalo pang sirain???? kau lumagay sa lugar ng mga legal wife na may mga anak.. yung pilit na ginagawa lahat mapanatili lang na buo ang pamilya para sa mga anak?

sabi nga poh sa BIBLE if you re reading; "ANG PINAGSAMA NG DIYOS AY DI KAILANMAN MAAARING PAGHIWALAYIN NG TAO.."

MAGRESPETUHAN TAYO SA COMMENTS AT IDEAS NG BAWAT ISA...


MERRY XMAS SA LHAT.. KABIT MN O LEGAL WIFE!!!!!!!  Laughing

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yumanjo


Arresto Menor

HI bago po ako dito.. I just want to ask.. Same scenario din po.. hiwalay na po sila ng BF ko ngaun... 6 years na sila hiwalay.. and nagkaron kami ng anak ng BF ko.. may possibility ba na if maghabol xa at maidemanda din kami.. I am hoping for reply.

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raheemerick

raheemerick
Reclusion Perpetua

yes

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assenav

assenav
Prision Mayor

raheemerick wrote:yes



aba aba teka...  Rolling Eyes 

nabuhay ang patay! este si sir raheem!  Twisted Evil 

long time no post ah.. musta ba ang bakasyon..

ang regalo ko wag nang balutin ha.. hihihi

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soulessraigne


Arresto Menor

Could I be too considered a mistress..??
I met my now live in partner last 2013.
Back then all I know was he was single with a son out of marriage. They separate on 2012. We cohabits and now have 2 kids of our own. Recently I discovered he was married previously and this is much more previously that the mother of his first born child. He was married 2009.

The question is can the real wife file anything against me even I didnt know anything about her existing? She didnt bother with the 2nd wife though. (Making me the 3rd) but she suddenly txted me saying she was the legal wife... as to my surprise.

2. Can my live in partner file for a petition for nullity of marriage? Since their marriage was not consumate for several years and they dont have a kid. And they dont have a marriage license since it was a secret marriage.

3. Can she file for Hold departure Order? My live in partner is an ofw. She was threatening to file a hdo and concubinage if my husband dont give her money 120k.

4. Can she file a case in POEA to stop my livein partners job abroad and send him backhere in the Phil?

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soulessraigne


Arresto Menor

oulessraigne Today at 6:07 am

Could I be too considered a mistress..??
I met my now live in partner last 2013.
Back then all I know was he was single with a son out of marriage. They separate on 2012. We cohabits and now have 2 kids of our own. Recently I discovered he was married previously and this is much more previously that the mother of his first born child. He was married 2006 got separated in 2009 but not legally.

The question is can the real wife file anything against me even I didnt know anything about her existing? She didnt bother with the 2nd wife though. (Making me the 3rd) but she suddenly txted me saying she was the legal wife... as to my surprise. 

2. Can my live in partner file for a petition for nullity of marriage? Since their marriage was not consumate for several years and they dont have a kid. And they dont have a marriage license since it was a secret marriage.

3. Can she file for Hold departure Order? My live in partner is an ofw. She was threatening to file a hdo and concubinage if my husband dont give her money 120k.

4. Can she file a case in POEA to stop my livein partners job abroad and send him backhere in the Phil?

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Katrina288


Reclusion Perpetua

soulessraigne wrote:oulessraigne Today at 6:07 am

Could I be too considered a mistress..??
I met my now live in partner last 2013.
Back then all I know was he was single with a son out of marriage. They separate on 2012. We cohabits and now have 2 kids of our own. Recently I discovered he was married previously and this is much more previously that the mother of his first born child. He was married 2006 got separated in 2009 but not legally.

The question is can the real wife file anything against me even I didnt know anything about her existing? She didnt bother with the 2nd wife though. (Making me the 3rd) but she suddenly txted me saying she was the legal wife... as to my surprise. 

2. Can my live in partner file for a petition for nullity of marriage? Since their marriage was not consumate for several years and they dont have a kid. And they dont have a marriage license since it was a secret marriage.

3. Can she file for Hold departure Order? My live in partner is an ofw. She was threatening to file a hdo and concubinage if my husband dont give her money 120k.

4. Can she file a case in POEA to stop my livein partners job abroad and send him backhere in the Phil?


1. Since you now know that your live-in partner is married, then yes, you and your partner can be sued by the wife for concubinage.

2. The fact that your partner and his wife do not have a child together is not a ground to have their marriage declared null and void. "Secret marriage" doesn't mean they did not apply for a marriage license. But if they didn't, then your partner can file a petition for declaration of nullity of marriage if he has sufficient proof.

3. A HDO can be issued by the court if there is a pending criminal case. If she threatens your husband that she will file a suit unless she be given 120K, that would amount to Extortion.

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