salary assignment for an illegitimate child

good day everyone,. I hope somebody could give me clarification about our minor problem regarding sa sustento ng anak ng asawa ko sa ibang babae..
well to make it short,. sabay kameng gf nya, and it happened na nabuntis nya ung isa, then after 5mos ako naman nabuntis nya, after 2yrs totally iniwan na ni lalake ung isa para ayusin ung buhay nya for the reason na kung habambuhay na mag stick xa sa dalwang family eh cguradong lalong hindi magiging maayos ung both family, so after a yr na wala na cla nung isang girl, eh nagpakasal na kame to legalize everything, that was 2015,.we even registered the birth certificate of our son as legitimated child,.while the other son naman po eh continuous ang sustento through my husband's parents,. so ngayon po 2017 nakapasok po sa PNP c mister,. police trainee palang sya but this girl eh gusto nya may sustento agad galing sa asawa ko the fact na binibigyan nmn xa ng parents ni mister,. well, this girl kc ay may live in partner na po and she's about to give birth sa anak nila ng bf nya, at yung anak ng asawa ko sknya eh ayaw nila ipahiram samin or maski sa lolot lola man lang, pupunta lang cla sa pwesto to ask for money straight to the point then aalis na once nakakuha ng pera,. so about sa sustento sana namin sknya, gusto ko po magkaron muna ng idea kung pano po ung computation sa pinaka reasonable na amount na ibibigay sa bata,. or kung pwede bang i convert sa groceries/items,. kc dba hindi nmn pwedeng sarilinin ng asawa ko ung gagastusin nya sa pang araw2,. yun lang po, thanks in advance! Godbless!

Hi,

Since your husband and the other girl are not married to each other, their son is an illegitimate child. The father of an illegitimate child only has visitation rights, not shared custody. In other words, even the grandparents can only visit their grandchild. Nasa nanay na lang 'yon kung pumayag siya na magsleep over o iwan niya muna doon ang bata.

There is no fixed amount of child support. Child support covers living, educational and medical expenses.

Living expenses include shelter, food, milk, clothing, etc.

Educational expenses include tuition fees, field trips, uniforms, books, educational supplies, etc.

Medical expenses include doctor's fees/check-up, vaccination, hospitalization, etc.

Both parents have the responsibility to support their child. The amount of child support depends on the needs of the child and the capacity of the parent to provide support. Kung parehas naman sila may trabaho, share sila sa sustento sa bata at proportionate sa kung magkano ang kinikita ng bawat magulang.

Pwede naman grocery items, just keep the receipts or perhaps take photos just to make sure your husband has proof na nagbibigay siya ng sustento sa bata.

Regards,
Atty. Katrina

thank you for responding atty., so kung hati po cla sa lahat ng expenses ng bata, mean to say hindi po pwedeng mag demand c girl ng mas malaki sa pinag usapang amount, pero pwedeng mabawasan ung sustento depende sa take home salary ni mister?, kaya po naisipan namin kung pwede ang grocery items intended for the needs of the child only kasi nangangamba po ung side ng asawa ko na baka ginagamit lang ung bata for her personal agenda, na instead lahat ng binibigay eh para sana sa bata pero hindi pala, because she's known to be a materialistic person,at nagawa na po nya dati yun,.gusto nga po namin sana na kunin nlng ung bata pero syempre hindi nmn po pwede yun lalo nat 5yrs old palang po ung bata

You're welcome.

That's not what I meant... Habang lumalaki ang bata, lumalaki din ang gastos para sa kanya. Kung tumataas ang gastos sa bata, halimabawa nagsimula nang mga-aral, syempre mas mataas na hihingiin ng nanay na financial support.

Try to work out kung magkano ang expenses ng bata, at based sa work ng nanay at work ng husband mo, maybe you can agree on the amount of child support.

I understand, at baka hindi rin pumayag ang nanay na kunin ninyo ang bata.

what if ung nanay po ng bata eh walang work, since kabwanan nya ngayon sa 2nd child nya and sa live in partner xa umaasa ng para sa expenses nya as of now, pwede po kayang maging grounds yun para makuha namin custody ng bata at ma wave ung rule na hanggang 7yrs old dpt nasa nanay ung bata?since parang lumalabas po na wala xang kakayanan na buhayin ung bata?, pasensya na po makulit, mejo confusing po kase...

since illegitimate yung bata, sa nanay ang sole parental custody. visitation rights lang meron ang tatay.

mean to say po ba nun na maski walang pambuhay ung nanay eh wala pong pag asa na makuha namin ung bata dahil illegitimate sya?,. super thank you po sa mga time nyo,. if that's the case mukhang kelangan lang tlga namin na isiguradong mapupunta sa kailangan ng bata ung sustento na ibibigay sknya., salamat po,. Godbless!