when you are into a relationship with the accused, the latter may use "sweetheart defense." here are some cases decided by the Supreme Court
PEOPLE vs. JOEL AYUDA G.R. No. 128882.10/2/03
A "sweetheart defense," to be credible, should be
substantiated by some documentary or other
evidence of the relationship — like mementos, love
letters, notes, pictures and the like. Here, no such
evidence was ever presented by appellant.
PEOPLE vs. ACERO, G.R. Nos. 146690- 91.3/17/04
A defense based on “sweetheart theory” in rape
cases is not a defense at all in rape where the victim
is a mental retardate.
PEOPLE vs. OGA, G.R. No. 152302. 6/8/04
Sweetheart theory prevails as a defense in rape
when it casts reasonable doubt as to the guilt of the
accused.
PEOPLE OF THE PHILIPPINES vs. ANTHONY
SANDIG G.R. No. 143124. 7/25/03
The mere assertion of a love relationship does not
necessarily rule out the use of force to consummate
the crime of rape. A sweetheart cannot be forced to
have sex against her will. Definitely a man can
neither demand sexual gratification from a fiancée
nor employ violence upon her, on the pretext of love.
When the offender in rape has an ascendancy or influence over the girl, it is not necessary to put up determined resistance.