Your surviving spouse would have to get her conjugal share first, then the remaining portion would be distributed equally among their children (assuming that your grandfather has no illegitimate children). Assuming that your parent (child of your grandfather) is still living, then the share will pertain to him, and not to you and your siblings. But if your parent is no longer living, then his share (and only his share) will have to be distributed to you and your siblings equally (assuming also that your parent does not have any illegitimate children). https://www.alburovillanueva.com/wills-succession-inheritance This would be the rule if you and your siblings really cannot agree.
But if you can agree on how the property should be split up, then all the remaining heirs may execute a deed of extrajudicial settlement, stating the desired distribution among yourselves. This is only applicable if ALL of the remaining heirs can agree, because if not, then you have no other choice but to go to court and settle the estate judicially, which would include the subject property as among the assets that would be distributed.