Constantly Nagging Wife

My wife keeps on accusing of having an affair with my co-worker. I must admit, during my younger days and we're not yet married, I've had numerous affairs but the moment I decided to marry her, I know I have to leave the life I used to live. At first I thought that her nagging was just an effect of giving birth to our son but now that our son is turning 4 years old, it seems that it's (nagging) getting worse. He keeps on threatening me that she will disclose my affair to our workplace with all the emotions and curse with it. I explained everything and told her that I am not having an affair with my co-worker or with anyone but she keeps insisting her paranoid theories. This has been going for almost 2 years now and I can say I am emotionally stressed, emotionally abused or whatever they may call it. I have been contemplating into resorting to physicality to impose my point and innocense but I know that I will just be going against the law. I keep searching on the internet about any laws that can protect MEN from such emotional abuse but to no avail, all I can find is VAWC.I love her and I swear to God I am not having an affair with anyone. What legal remedy can I do on this matter especially if she indeed bring her paranoia in public?

I think there are no legal remedies to your problem with your wife. better seek spiritual advise and talk to your wife heart to heart when you both about to sleep. prove to her that what she was saying was not true. Show her the love everyday. Pray with your wife every night and say" My Lord I love my wife Please give her the best health for i would want to spend the rest of my life with her". if you ask me? this was the effective way. Just my Opinion.. by the way.. married for 15 years now. Just be Patient..

make your life transparent and make her more a part of it. Let her meet your co-workers in social gatherings or even set up one so she meets them. Let her have access to your social media accounts and messaging apps. Let her even track your location. Trust comes with transparency

Thank you for the advice. I have been very transparent with her. For example, she was nagging about me using my credit card for hotel room in which she insist where me and my alleged lover see each other, I gave her the SOA of my credit card and she had prove nothing. She knows my co-worker, they've been hanging out together before this issue pops out. When the boys asks me out, I always inform her about where are we going and who I am with. It's just so irritating to be contstantly accused of something that I don't even think about.

Thanks AttyLLL

To maxwell_24
I get and appreciate your point sir. I totally agree with your advice. I have been considering spiritual advise few months ago, I was just not able to do it yet. I said to myself that I really have to be patient and pray to God to help us. At the end of the day she's still my wife and I love her.