Good sister VS evil sister

Hello attorney,

My sister who is married with her husband (who currently lives in US) have 2 kids. Now three (3) years ago we found out that my sister had an illicit affair with another man. We made great efforts to save their marriage. My bayaw pleaded and begged her to stop and end relationship with the man but didnt change her mind. She was very persistent.

Came November of 2016 my sister abandoned her 2 kids (6 and 9 yrs old) without any explanation or at least gave us 1 good reason. My younger sister took the her (mothers) responsibility to take care of the kids. Then i resigned from work gave up everything to help. Suddenly a bad news arrived that my sister got pregnant and bore a child with her paramour and living together. So thats the reason why sister left the children.

My hatred was raging, shes unforgivable. ngayon po if we come across with my sister tapos tinatawag niya yong mga anak niya pinagbabawalan namin anak niya na makita siya. She reported this to DSWD we explained what happened but still granted my sister to see the kids on Saturdays. I declined this verdict but DSWD told me that i might be sued because my sister has rights. Is this right? She abandoned them! (Pasensiya po at ang haba ng pasakalye ko)

please please im suffering too much. Please help me what to do i dont want any interactions YET between my sister and kids. For me Its not YET the right time. May proper time naman hindi po ba? Gusto ko po sana na mag antay muna ang sister ko till the kid’s minds are fully developed and have understanding towards what happened sa kanilang pamilya. At ayoko ko po sanang makita ng mga pamangkin ko ang lalaki ng mother nila. Please give me legal advice.

if you believe you have a better right to custody over the children you should file a petition in court else you may indeed be charged with RA 9262.

Thank you attny for your response.

Yes i think so attny. I truly believe that i have the capacity to take care, love, and protect her kids better than my sister. Okay po attny ill ask my bayaw to maybe help me file a petition. Would this take long? Are there court hearings or investigation pa po?

Oh the anti-VWAC attny are you talking about psychological violence-unwanted deprivationof the right to custody po. . But why? My sister is selfish. Pinagpalit niya ang mga pamangkin ko sa lalaki niya. She abandoned the kids and there were also maltreatment pinapalo sila ng steel rod attny at may mga pasa daw sila before. This is unacceptable.