LEGAL WIFE seeking advice!

Good day Ma'am & Sir!

I married my husband last May 16,2013 after a month he went back to Minnesota where he is living and working. So to make the long story short we're in a long distance relationship. After we got married he changed a lot with his attitude he is always hot headed/hot-tempered, whenever he is mad he will curse me and will say other bad things. But what alarms me whenever we fight thru video call he always threatens me that he will look for another girl and I should start looking for another guy and move on with our lives.

In the last quarter of 2014 he didn't talked to me for almost 4 months.But because we already have a son I swallowed my pride and ask if we can fix our relationship for the sake of our son and then he agreed. That's the cycle of our relationship whenever we fight I will always be the one to fix and approached him.

Then on 2015 things got worst we seldom communicate he will call me if he already sent me the monthly allowance of our son.

I decided not to talk to him because I am waiting for him to approach me first but nothing happened.So now we both move on. He has other girl and he sent me divorce papers for me to sign but we got married here in the Philippines and now he wants to marry the other woman in Minnesota.


Please let me know what I need to do.
I am really confused with my current situation.

Thank you

even if you married in the Phils, if he is not a Filipino, he can divorce you in the US. just be sure to get a copy of your divorce and have it recognized in the Phils for your sake.

We are both FILIPINOS.

Are you sure he did not become a naturalized citizen of the U.S.?

Filipinos cannot get divorced. Even if they do, the divorce decree will not be recognized. Only a foreigner can divorce the Filipino spouse and that divorce decree must be recognized via court action in the Philippines for the Filipino spouse ro remarry someone else.