In August 2016 (if Im not mistaken), my previous manager was transferred to another department due to personal reasons, and we had a new manager. To make the story short, my new manager have become verbally abusive and unfair towards me. I have listed few instances below:
1. On late Spetember 2016, he called me to his office to 'talk' to me, but it turned out that he would only accuse and convict me of negligence, insubordination, etc without any solid proof that I am guilty of it;
2. On December 2016, he instructed me to go home at once and forced me to resign from my position. He even asked me to choose between termination and resignation right in front of my subordinates (rank and file) without any written notice/warning. One week later, he came to my office again and asked me to promise that I would not resign yet. Either way, i do not intend to resign without any formal document from our HR or from our General Manager. I continued to serve the company, do some of his tasks and take responsibily over other activities as I take my job seriously and because my manager has asked me to;
3. On February 27, 2017, there had been some changes in the company and my manager asked to resign once again, over a phone call. But i still refuse as I am confident that I did not do anything that will be a ground for immediate termination;
4. On march 31, 2017, my manager has informed me thru a phone call that i should report to our head office on april 3 as I will be transferred to another position (executive assistant of the general manager) and that, they already have my documents prepared. Because of the disappointment towards my manager and my need to continue working as I have a family to support, I have accepted the position in our head office. I did not sign any paper as there was no contract, no job offer or what. I even had to request for an employee movement form so i could have a proof of my transfer, but until now, i do not have a personal copy of the form yet.
For 3 months, i have been struggling with depression caused by low morale, demotion and humiliation. Only now that I have found out about the Constructive Dismissal. I will be handing over my resignation letter tomorrow as I could no longer stand the depression, look for another job, though I still wanted to be in that company and am still confident that I can improve our operations.
With this, I badly need your advise on this, as I do not really know what to do next. I cant afford to be unemployed for so long as I am sending my sister to school. But as early as now, I thank you for your taking time to know my situation. I would be very glad if you could help me out.