Other woman

Good eve,

Im a married woman since 2008, and have to work abroad, me and my husband had a misunderstanding about financial wayback 2014 then nagkalabuan n kmi nung 2015 we have a daughter 6yrs old,, he had another woman hiding from me,, and found out this february 2016 that other woman is pregnant,, i had a relationship with other man too which made me pregnant too,, april this year my contract ended and time to go back in philippines, humingi aq ng kapatawaran sa nagawa ko sa kanya at sa pamilya nmn,, nung umuwi aq dto i found n bihira n pala xa umuwi dto smin at halos ubos na ang mga damit nya, dun xa umuuwi sa babae nya,, he also admit his mistakes and wanted to clean the mess at ayusin at buuin ung pamilya nmn,, which i agree dahil din sa anak nmn na labis na naapektuhan sa mga nangyari dahil madalas din kmi magtalo at mag away. He told me na hindi alam ng pamilya nung babae na may asawat anak xa at kasal xa kaya nahirapan xa mkpghiwalay sa kadahilanang papalayasin dw ung babae sa knila, hanggang sa nalaman n din ung totoo na kasal xa at magiging other woman ung babae, palipat lipat ung husband q may till june, uuwi smin babalik dun,, then hindi q na kaya ung ganun setup so i want him to decide. He told me n he want our family na maayos, at mabuo. But he just want to help that woman until makapanganak xa, by that time samin n xa umuuwi, july nanganak ung babae xa gumastos lahat dahil pinabayaan na ng pamilya ung babae pero dun pdin xa nakatira s knila, my husband told me na susustentuhan nlng nya ung bata,, august when i gave birth too, inaccept nya ung bata and nakaapelyido s knya,, till now sinustentuhan nya pa din un para sa bata and last thursday nameet q ung other woman nya because he told my husband na pinapalayas n dw xa dun dahil my nagpost at nahack ung social media account nya and pinagbintangan nya din aq na aq dw gumawa nun which is i did not do, i just told her na "hindi q nga xa kinakausap tpos magaaksaya pa q ng panahon na ihack ung account nya and ano mapapala q kng ggwn q un" she told my husband na nagsesend dw ng mga xrated link and asking for money ung nkapaghack nung account which is totally unbelievable for me dahil nabubuksan nya pdin ung account nya,, at nakakapagpost pdin xa dun,, she wanted na tulungan xa ng husband q na hakutin ung gamit nya sa knila at pupunta dun sa kapatid ng asawa q na babae pra dun na tumira,, nung una for d sake nung bata okei lng skin until i realize na sagutin na nya ung other woman n un kaya hindi aq pmyag child support okei lang, ngayon my husband sister is helping that woman pra mkpnta s knila, which made them close dahil halos same age lang cla. I feel miserable now, pkrmdm q tinapakan na q, i just want to know what cases could i file for that other woman,, kse she even goes to our house and begging for my husband to help her, gusto kse palabasin nung other woman na kukunin n xa ng asawa q at ibabahay, pra hindi magalit sa kanya ung pamilya nya,, naalala q din before she even threatened my husband na susugudin xa ng parents nya kpag hindi xa sinustentuhan, o inilipat ng bahay, kung sakaling hindi tulungan ng husband q ung other woman na makaaalis sa kanila pero tinulungan pdin nung kptd nya na mkpnta dun ano po pde q gawin kse ung sa bata lang ang usapan na susuportahan nya at hindi na ksma ung other woman, please help i dont know what to do...

What is your question? At any rate, when you bring your intention to court, it could backfire to you as well and to your legal husband on his counter-attack as both of you could be liable for each other's possible revenge cases imho.

my question is about sa other woman, ung pagpunta nya sa bahay, ung pagbibintang skin dahil nahack ung account nya,, and for the child support, she even wanted na tumira sa family ng husband q,, any cases na pde q ifile, kse nanggugulo n xa smin,, salamat po...

Both of you have unclean hands in court that is, and that would backfire to both of you. Ang isa sa ikakaso mo sa kanila/kanya eh concubinage, at adulterous relationship naman sa iyo. In the end, both of you could lose wasting your time and money. Might as well talk peacefully and agree on terms at baranggay level. Or maybe legal separation if you can prove a valid ground, which is also costly.