I am planning to separate with my husband for almost 20 yrs now. I was married at the age of 19 and have 3 kids aged 19, 15 and 13. I am a battered wife, everytime we have an argument it becomes violent. he will punched me in the head, my body everywhere , kicked me, throw me whatever he holds even threatwn me qith his gun. he cannot control his rage that even if we are at the mall he's not ashame of yelling at me and talk dirty to me . my. children are my witness. but o dont know how to do the separation since i am only a housewife without job and resources. in the span of almost 20 yrs he had relationships to different ladies. last feb of this year I found out that he was courting this girl, and i found out april. pls advice me on what to do because i sm tired of being hurt physically , mentaly and emotional. I am even afraid for my children because what they see seems to be so normal . pls advice