I am a bread winner in the family and my mother is already retired from work. I really hope you could help me how to go through the process...what is the first step? Shall I inform/contact my son's father fist or file a case (if that how it is called) directly. If so, where am I going to file it...can you recommend a free lawyer just in case? I live here in Cainta and I can not afford to pay a lawyer's service..Thank you so much for having his site..it surely helps a people..God Bless![b]