I need your advice,about my marriage but never been as husband and wife :(

Hello po,
ASk ko lang po kung ano magandang gawin about my life being married pero hindi po kami nag sama.Ganito po yun,nag pakasal po ako sa isang japanese guy dito sa pinas kami kinasal nung Aug. 15 2005 after po nmin ikasal mga two days ay bumalik na po sya sa japan.Nung nasa japan na po sya lagi lang po sya tumatawag skin at nag papa dala ng pera pero after ng mga dalawang buwan nag tataka na din po ako bakit di na sya namamasyal d2 sa pinas,puro dahilan nya po na busy sya then pag ka march po ng 2006 yun na po yung lat na contact nya at padala nya skin.Never na po kami nag meet ang last lang po naming pag kikita ay yung araw na kinasal kami after po nun until now di na po kmi nag kita at walang contact.Ano pong gagawin ko?Meron na po akong ka live in ngayon at may isa na kming anak,gusto na po nmin mag pakasal.ano po ba ang magandang gawin namin?pls reply po kayo,i really need your advice.Thanks! and More power

Just file a petition for presumption of death of your japanese husband and state therein that his whereabout is unknown. Eto lang ang magawa mo in order for you to remarry your ka live-in partner.

You cannot file annulment or nullity based on that mentioned facts, but you can file for legal separation which is one of the remedies BUT AGAIN this is NOT a good remedy for your intention to marry your partner.

Lastly, you need a lawyer for this.