Good day!
I have a daughter and she's using her father's surname hence we're not married. He's actually supporting our daughter and we're staying in their house since I gave birth to my daughter. The issues: I need to get out of that house and I want to take my daughter with me because I can't take anymore the emotional abuse and I really want a peace of mind, It's been three (3) years, nung una po okay naman, accepted ko po na babaero sya, meron dito meron doon. Minahal ko po sya sa kabila ng panggagago at panloloko nia. As time passes by, lalo lang po nagiging complicated ang lahat. Magkakaayos kami tapos hindi na naman. Paulit ulit lang po. Ngayon kasama pa pamilya nia sa mga issues namin. They never treated me right and even up to the respect issue, they never respected me. Yung tipong sa lahat ng maling ginagawa ng anak nila which is the father of my daughter, ay kinukunsinti po nila. Hinahayaan nilang magdala ng babae yung anak nila kahit na doon po ako nakatira. Kabastusan na po yun di ba? Hinayaan ko po lahat yun at inintindi. Pero may katapusan naman po siguro ang lahat. Kung hahayaan ko lang naman po sya at iiwan ng wala man lang settlement ng lahat, he can always turn his back at us, ang suwerte naman po nia di ba? All I want is to secure my child's support with him, I just don't want us to talk and settle things right then and there and then what comes next, he can break his words anytime and I can't depend or just trust his words. Gusto ko po ng kasunduan at kasulatan na hindi sya mangkukulang sa support nia sa anak namin. I want his full responsibility and support with our daughter. Although ngaun po nagsheshare naman kmi sa lahat kung sino meron sige sya bahala. Pero ngayon po all I want is his full support when we leave his house. Hindi ko po kasi kakayanin kapag ako lang magisa. I have a son also with my first man at ako lang po ang inaasahan ng son ko. Magaaral na po sya this year at hindi ko na po kaya pag dalawa na sila ng daughter ko ang isusupport ko. Kaya po please I need your advise regarding this matter at kung ano po ang pede kong gawin para sa ikabubuti ng daughter ko. Maraming salamat po and more power.