Wife got pregnant by another man

Medyo mahaba po ito so i hope you'll bear with me.
3rd quarter 2008 nalaman ko na may lalaki ang asawa ko.
For the sake of the kids, pinatawad ko at pinilit na kalimutan ang lahat now last November 2009, nabuntis siya at ng i-confront ko nga, inamin na niya at ng lalaki niya na sa kanila ngang kagagawan ang pagbubuntis niya. kaharap ang kapatid niya at asawa nung lalaki niya ng mangyari ang confrontation.
Gusto ko na sanang mag file ng legal seperation pero hindi ko po alam kung pwedeng maging basehan ang nasabi kong dahilan sa itaas at kung pwedeng maging testigo ang mga anak ko na nasaksihan ang ilang pangyayari na ginawa ng nanay nila. kasal po kami for 16 years na at edad 16 at 14 ang sinasabi kong mga anak na nakasaksi.

sa ngayon po kaya ko naisipang ituloy na ang pag file ng kaso ay sa dahilang binabaliktad pa ako ng asawa ko na ako daw ang nambababae.
sana po ay may makatulong. salamat po

depende yan...among the reason to deny the petition sa legal separation is that the act complained of has been condoned by the agrieve party. It means forgiveness, express or implied. Sleeping together after the full knowledge of the offense is condonation. However, each sexual intercouse outside marriage is a separate act of adultery. Hence, condonation of one act does not imply condonation of the other.

Upon on the other hand, her ACCEPTANCE while confronted of having been impregnated by other man in front of her brother or sister, with the wife of his paramour could be a solid oral evidence for her infidelity.