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Hi, My situation is crazy but I would like to know what am I to do with my husband because he is using our son(I have my daughter with me)to push me on filing an annulment?I left him last year since the day I gave him the last straw (he hit me again). I was in and out of the house before only to visit my kids and that time i still don't have a boyfriend.My daughter is now staying with me and we are presently being supported with my ever understanding boyfriend who lives abroad.My husband and I have relationships now.
I REGULARLY allow my daughter to visit her daddy and granny because they live in the same house every weekends but their Dad SELDOM allow my son to visit me.He would only allow him if he is in the mood or if he does not have a problem at that time.Their Daddy would sometimes pick her up in my apartment or I would bring my daughter on a place where her father can meet her.Thinking that he would do the same.
Honestly,my boyfriend told him this February that he is going to help us on our annulment but he is referring to ME not him and there is no definite date mentioned.My husband thought that we can SHARE the same lawyer too.He's been bugging me and also pressuring me to file the annulment ASAP as if I have plenty of money.My boyfriend gets dismayed every time my husband would not allow my son to see or talk to me when I actually allow him and would even give them pasalubong when my daughter visits them and so he commented if only he's been nice to me.I told my ex that he needs to wait until the right time and until he said so and why can't he see that her Mother is still living in with her partner for three decades but was never married.I know of course,I will benefit from it because I will never see him anymore but he needs to understand that my boyfriend is carrying his obligation and that I want the offer to come from him not mine.
Another thing is,if we get annulled he said he will be giving back my son to me and he will just give "sa abot ng makakaya". I think I will be asking for child support after the annulment because he's good in running away from obligation too.He wants us to have an agreement that we are separated,I tried to educate him that that it is impossible because it is against the Family Code.
If he's not "Topak" in a day he would call at home and talk as if nothing is wrong with us and tells about her girlfriends or just tell us to take care , he also thought I would feel insecure about his gf's.
My boyfriend's divorce is taking too long because of not being amicable with each other just like us. Her wife's brother is known here and is very very powerful.I do not pressure him regarding his divorce because he is transparent about it.I almost met all of his children,families and relatives here in the Philippines and even abroad because of the internet and he visits me every 3 months.I do not share this information to my ex or he will feel more insecure because making me miserable makes him feel good.
Anyway while getting mushy I talked to a lawyer before and he gave me a breakdown of how much it will cost and how long will the annulment takes,he also gave the basic requirements and one thing funny is that we didn't know that we have a common friend.
I have another big problem I lost my wallet and a good hearted person returned it at my EX's house!!!He did not tell me about this until his tounge slipped. I doubt that the kids just accidentally left my withdrawal slip to their bag,my daughter once time told me that her father was curiously asking how come I do not have money when actually I am financially abundant(that is not true, i do not have the nerve of shopping galore or wasting money for material things).I am being accounted and it's fine with me.
One day I accused my ex of stealing it from me so he told the real story and there i told him that he still stole it from me because he is not returning it.OH ow what shall I do? Those are joint account of ours.We built a small business and I am assigned to manage everything but it is not yet starting but soon it will be.It was supposed to be named after me but I know someday my ex will run after it when he finds about it.Should we change our bank?My ex is not returning my lost wallet I know though he is pressuring me to file an annulment he will for sure use that against me.His excuse of not returning was those evidence will speed up the annulment.My head is spinning round and round because he told me that he wants to be blamed for everything and he is willing to be accused of being an drug addict or lunatic,the latter maybe and now he is telling me that it can be use as an evidence?What can that slip do to me?I told him to stop scaring me about adultery because he too is committing it and it is not a ground for annulment.He doesn't listen to explanation when he is not on the mood.He will just badmouth especially he is so talkative.
I REGULARLY allow my daughter to visit her daddy and granny because they live in the same house every weekends but their Dad SELDOM allow my son to visit me.He would only allow him if he is in the mood or if he does not have a problem at that time.Their Daddy would sometimes pick her up in my apartment or I would bring my daughter on a place where her father can meet her.Thinking that he would do the same.
Honestly,my boyfriend told him this February that he is going to help us on our annulment but he is referring to ME not him and there is no definite date mentioned.My husband thought that we can SHARE the same lawyer too.He's been bugging me and also pressuring me to file the annulment ASAP as if I have plenty of money.My boyfriend gets dismayed every time my husband would not allow my son to see or talk to me when I actually allow him and would even give them pasalubong when my daughter visits them and so he commented if only he's been nice to me.I told my ex that he needs to wait until the right time and until he said so and why can't he see that her Mother is still living in with her partner for three decades but was never married.I know of course,I will benefit from it because I will never see him anymore but he needs to understand that my boyfriend is carrying his obligation and that I want the offer to come from him not mine.
Another thing is,if we get annulled he said he will be giving back my son to me and he will just give "sa abot ng makakaya". I think I will be asking for child support after the annulment because he's good in running away from obligation too.He wants us to have an agreement that we are separated,I tried to educate him that that it is impossible because it is against the Family Code.
If he's not "Topak" in a day he would call at home and talk as if nothing is wrong with us and tells about her girlfriends or just tell us to take care , he also thought I would feel insecure about his gf's.
My boyfriend's divorce is taking too long because of not being amicable with each other just like us. Her wife's brother is known here and is very very powerful.I do not pressure him regarding his divorce because he is transparent about it.I almost met all of his children,families and relatives here in the Philippines and even abroad because of the internet and he visits me every 3 months.I do not share this information to my ex or he will feel more insecure because making me miserable makes him feel good.
Anyway while getting mushy I talked to a lawyer before and he gave me a breakdown of how much it will cost and how long will the annulment takes,he also gave the basic requirements and one thing funny is that we didn't know that we have a common friend.
I have another big problem I lost my wallet and a good hearted person returned it at my EX's house!!!He did not tell me about this until his tounge slipped. I doubt that the kids just accidentally left my withdrawal slip to their bag,my daughter once time told me that her father was curiously asking how come I do not have money when actually I am financially abundant(that is not true, i do not have the nerve of shopping galore or wasting money for material things).I am being accounted and it's fine with me.
One day I accused my ex of stealing it from me so he told the real story and there i told him that he still stole it from me because he is not returning it.OH ow what shall I do? Those are joint account of ours.We built a small business and I am assigned to manage everything but it is not yet starting but soon it will be.It was supposed to be named after me but I know someday my ex will run after it when he finds about it.Should we change our bank?My ex is not returning my lost wallet I know though he is pressuring me to file an annulment he will for sure use that against me.His excuse of not returning was those evidence will speed up the annulment.My head is spinning round and round because he told me that he wants to be blamed for everything and he is willing to be accused of being an drug addict or lunatic,the latter maybe and now he is telling me that it can be use as an evidence?What can that slip do to me?I told him to stop scaring me about adultery because he too is committing it and it is not a ground for annulment.He doesn't listen to explanation when he is not on the mood.He will just badmouth especially he is so talkative.
