Sustento para sa mga anak

Hiwalay po kami ng asawa ko (legal). I currently have another family with a child.
I have had 2 kids (6 & 7 years of age) na sinusuportahan sa "legal" na wife (una).
Nagttrabaho po ako sa UAE, as F&B Supervisor, earning a gross of roughly 40,000 in Philippine peso. Yung cost of living sa Dubai, UAE may cost roughly 15,000 per month (transportation, board and lodging, food). I am sending my 2 children a regular amount of not less than 10,000 philippine peso a month as regular sustainance. Occassions where they need more, i send more as well - like during Xmas, etc.
Their mother do not know how to handle money wisely so I decided to do the savings part for my 2 kids on my own. Now, their mother is demanding a 30,000.oo peso sustainance for the kids + a house arguing that 10,000.00 does not fit in the needs for my 2 kids; for school, food, transpo - about the house, they do not rent, they are currently living on my parents house.
Being a father, I definitely am planning to build a house for those 2 kids, but obviously, something that may took years to be built - isa pang bagay na kailangan din pong pag-ipunan at ibawas sa buwanan kong sweldo.
Masyado pong persistent ang ina ng 2 kong anak for the amount that they are asking. Gusto ko po sanang malaman kung magkano po ba ang nararapat na isustento ko sa 2 anak. May anak rin po ako sa asawa ko ngayon, 2 taon gulang, and i reserve the 5,000.00 peso for him.

Gusto ko rin po sanang gumawa ng kontrata sa pagitan namin ng una kong asawa upang maging klaro at maiwasan ang aberya sa paghingi ng sobrang sustento ng una kong asawa. Posible po ba ito?

Iintayin ko po ang inyong suhestyon. Marami pong salamat.

ece0035660 wrote:Hiwalay po kami ng asawa ko (legal). I currently have another family with a child.
I have had 2 kids (6 & 7 years of age) na sinusuportahan sa "legal" na wife (una).
Nagttrabaho po ako sa UAE, as F&B Supervisor, earning a gross of roughly 40,000 in Philippine peso. Yung cost of living sa Dubai, UAE may cost roughly 15,000 per month (transportation, board and lodging, food). I am sending my 2 children a regular amount of not less than 10,000 philippine peso a month as regular sustainance. Occassions where they need more, i send more as well - like during Xmas, etc.
Their mother do not know how to handle money wisely so I decided to do the savings part for my 2 kids on my own. Now, their mother is demanding a 30,000.oo peso sustainance for the kids + a house arguing that 10,000.00 does not fit in the needs for my 2 kids; for school, food, transpo - about the house, they do not rent, they are currently living on my parents house.
Being a father, I definitely am planning to build a house for those 2 kids, but obviously, something that may took years to be built - isa pang bagay na kailangan din pong pag-ipunan at ibawas sa buwanan kong sweldo.
Masyado pong persistent ang ina ng 2 kong anak for the amount that they are asking. Gusto ko po sanang malaman kung magkano po ba ang nararapat na isustento ko sa 2 anak. May anak rin po ako sa asawa ko ngayon, 2 taon gulang, and i reserve the 5,000.00 peso for him.

Gusto ko rin po sanang gumawa ng kontrata sa pagitan namin ng una kong asawa upang maging klaro at maiwasan ang aberya sa paghingi ng sobrang sustento ng una kong asawa. Posible po ba ito?

Iintayin ko po ang inyong suhestyon. Marami pong salamat.

walang specific amount kung magkano kailangan i-support sa mga bata. the best thing to do is mag-usap kayo ng asawa mo. make a fair computation kung ano ang mga needs ng mga bata and devided into two (your share and her share). 30K/month is too much.

thank you so much po.

my 2 po akong pmangkin 5yrs old ung lalaki 2yrs old ung babae.hndi po kasal yong ate ko dun sa lalaki at ndi rin cla ngssma dmdalw lng ung llaki sa bhai pero simula po ipinangank ung 2 bata ndi po cla ngbbgai ng sustento pero.wala din po trbho ung llaki nkaasa lng ito s mgulng nia kc my trbho nmn ung parents nia seaman ung tatai at my work din ung nanai.ung ate q wala din po trbho ndi cia mkpgtbho dhil dun s 2 bata wlng magbbntai.kinausp nmin ung nanay nung llki sna mgbgau n cla ng sustento pero ayaw nila.ang tanung q po f kukuha b kmi abogado my habol b kmi sa knila at my mkukuha po b kming sustento para s 2 bata?sana po mbgyn nio aq ng advice mrming salmt.

please do not use text spelling.did the father sign the birth certificate?

yes attorney pumirma po yong farher.and gmit po ng two kids yong surename ng father nila.

and my karapatan po ba yong lalaki n kunin yong anak niya kahit hindi po sila kasal?

Hi,
Karagdagang tanong lang po... Yun una ko pong asawa, as i have said - hiwalay na po kami, pero since divorce is not allowed here,magastos at komplikado ang annulment... it's just a mere separation by word. Ngayon, seems like, blackmail, she said na kakasuhan daw po niya kami ng asawa ko ngayon.
Pareho po kaming nagtatrabaho ng asawa ko, ang worry ko po eh baka maapektuhan yun.
Ano po ba ang dapat gawin?

Salamat po ulit...

hello po attorney....naghamon po ng hiwalay ang asawa ko,,nasa saudi siya...at sabi d na daw ako dapat hawak libreta ng bangko na pinapadalhan niya...anak ko na lang daw...at yong dati niya pinapadala ay bawasan na lang daw niya...puede ba ako magdemand na ganito dapat ipadala niya?ilang percent po ba dapat idemand...3 po anak namin....walaa po ako work nasa bahay lang....