atty, i nid your help. im an x mistress

i have my long distance bf. i had a bf too which was married. after months of being a gf, the husband left his wife but not because of me. the reason for his leaving was because of his wife's attitude. it was the second time the man left his wife and with the same reason. the man visited his daughter at the woman's house where he thought he lost his cp. I didn't know before that his cp got lost because there's someone still texting me using his no. I texted him to stop the relationship. After a week i think, the man went to the place im working, he saw me and said his cp got lost.I told him that i broke up with him tru text and with that no. I ask him who maybe that one texting me. he said maybe his wife who stollen his cp. The woman knew everything because of the cp. and iv said sa lalake na what ive texted there is final. so the relationship ended.

ive used the number of my friends to text him before when i doesn't have load. And with the stollen cp, she got that no. of my friends. the wife use different number i think to text my friends and tells that i'm like my mom etc. she said also that i enjoy being a mistress and being use by her husband. She insist of texting that i am a woman na pumapatol sa may asawa. i can say it was just once na ginawa ko yun and so i san cay that it is the wife of my ex bf. she also said how wide is my"......... "and wants to taste me. i said to my friends not to reply. She includes my name in her texts. She even send a message to my sister thru facebook saying that i'm malandi, mistress etc. i replied and said it's over between us but still she insist of me having an affair with her husband. Her niece saw us once riding in his husband's motorbike but that was just once. She also told me that she'll tell everything to my bf. She said she will tell that i'm a dirty woman. Until now, she keeps on sending messages to my sister tru facebook and i cant refrain myself from replying and telling that everything is over. She makes stories that i and his husband still see each other and that i live in her husband's boarding house. I go there before for sometimes but surely im not living there. She wants my license as a nurse to be removed. what will i do? how can i defend myself?.. please help me. she wants to ruin everything even though i asked for forgiveness. I know forgiveness wont change everything but ive said I learned my lesson. how can i protect my license? what wud be my sanction if ever... can i file a case also against the woman?

please give me advice atty.
thanks a lot!!!!!!!!! thanks for your time

by the way sir, im a nurse.