He narrated that they were gf/bf in the past but were separated as friends. after 2 years when he went back abroad, and celebrated his birthday, this ex-gf showed up in the apartment with 2 more girl friends, they got drunk and the had sex. after 1.5 mos the girl contacted him saying that she is pregnant. he doesnt want to believe na zya ung ama and the girl got furious when he said so. in good faith, he supported her financially during her pregnancy until she gave birth. she has to go back sa philippines due to pregnancy. when the child was 6mos he told her that he is taking a break because he is not her husband. they were friends and he was invited to their home in the province when the child was 2 years old. the parents demanded a marriage, he refused but offered to support the child financially. this did not happen, 1st he is doubtful if he is the biological father of the child 2nd due to various changed of his job abroad. he changed his employer 3 times in the period of 2 years. in these two years, he got married abroad and now they have a child. after they got married he lost his job and depend his income on part time. the wife has to pay for the rent and for all the expenses related to her own pregnancy. his part time income is not even enought for the expenses in processing the visa for the new employer, until lastly he made an arrangement with one company to sponsor his visa. he can hardly contribute to their expenses. after 3 months of no project and no part time they agreed for him to go home in the philippines and see if they can put up a business where her wife will take a loan for the capital. he was then arrested for the case.
please advise us po if he can demand for a proof na zya ang ama ng bata since the ex gf is asking for child support before he is to offer whatever he can kz wala nga po zyang work ngayon. is it the ex gf obligation po ba na iprove na zya ang ama ng bata thru DNA or legal documents if any. the incident was kept secret from his wife who is currently abroad scared that she willl file a divorce - they were both muslim po and ristrict him to see his daughter. i came accross your site kakahanap ng tamang gawin po. sabi naman po ni kuya, he has no issue providing support once na mapatunayan na anak nia ung bata and kapag nagkaincome na zya. sa ngayon po kz he is dependent din sa wife nia financially kz wala po siyang work pa. regarding nman po sa plan nila na business d pa po un nag uumpisa. please help us po sa tamang gawin.