Some advice please.
Feeling ko po pinagkakaperahan yong lolo ko ayaw lang nyang umamin samin. 82 na po cya widower for 16 years tas now my bumobontot sa kanya na babae na nasa late 40's. Balibalita sa bayan na hustler si babae. na confront na si lolo aboutit pero wala cya paki, hindi pa daw cya olyanin that alam pa daw nya ginagawa nya. lately kasi laging short syang nawawalan ng pera, despite being a pensioner and receiver ng rent sa property sa province. lately ko lng din nalaman na naloan na ng dalawang beses ung umid card nya, na confirm ko lng din last visit na nksanla nga ung umid car. Na encounter ng sister ko si babae, di cya formal na pinakilala ni lolo, umiba ng daan si lolo nung nakita si sister, sabi ni babae wala daw cya masamang intention sa lolo namin, pero di rin naman namin mapaamin tong si lolo if ano talaga sila. so to stop gossips planu ng mga elders na pagsamahin nalang daw sila, though we all have the fear na after ng assets lang tong si babae, tas parang nagayuma si lolo its like impossible for us na pagawan sila ng prenup.
So nows.
1. How can I get my grandfather to agree on a prenup?
2. Were should i file a background check sa girl?
3. having said that lolo is 82 and still insist to know everything, refusing to submit voluntarily for SPA., how can we obtain SPA to manage his asset and finances ?
Looking forward for some advice. need it badly. I'm based in Manila, my grandfather is in the province.
Thank You