PATERNITY TEST

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ung friend ko nabuntis nung friend nia, isang beses lng may nangyri sa knya..

engot kc tong friend ko,,, kakabreak lng sa bf eh nakipag inuman tas ayun may nangyri s knila nung kainuman nia.

ang sbai nung lalaki sakin, habang may nangyyri s aknila cnabi nung friend ko na ndi na daw xa mabubuntis kasi may sakit xa sa matres.. ug friend ko daw ung nsa top at nung malapit na si lalaki eh ndi daw umalis ung friend ko khit inaalis nia.

Ngaun buntis tong friend ko at ayaw panagutan nung lalaki kasi ndi nmn cgurdao na sa kanya ung bata.

Kpag ba nagpa-DNA ung friend ko magbabayad pra lng mnapatunayan kung ung lalaki tlg ung ama?

Ano pwede ikaso dun sa lalaki?

PAKISGOT MGA PAPS!

ANY REPLY PO?? ANY ANSWER?

magiging mas malinaw sana kung naka detalye kung paano sila nag tampisaw sa bawal na sandali:)

woman on top??

wow astig!! paki detalye kasi mabuti witj feelings:)

anyway.. sa usaping ganyan.. baka hndi alam ng kaibigan mo kung magkano ang DNA test? baka akala nya eh para lng itong blood test:)

kung sakaling mapatunayan na ang lalaking haliparot ang totong ama ng ipinag dadalang tuta!! este!! bata nitong si babaeng kire? ito ay maaring i prisinta bilang suporta sa tinatawag na "action to support" pwde ding mag fall ang isue na ito sa alltime favorite article ng mga babaeng sawing tutut na RA9262 sabi nga diba? malawak ang sakop ng batas na ito na nag bibigay proteksyon sa mga kababaihan at kabataang na agrabyado or na denggoy ng mga manlolokong lahi ni adan:)

gayun pa man.. ang nasabing action to support ay tanging sa sustento lamng iikot ang usapan at hndi sa pananagutan ng lalakeng haliparot dito kay babaeng kire:)

at fyi din.. hndi din dahilan na isang beses lng kasi nangyari kya mahirap maniwla na sila ay mabuntis..

yung iba nga. na dilaan lng nabuntis agad eh?  hihhihi..

ibang usapan naamn yun:)

sa loob kasi ng isang buwan or 30 days. may tinatawag na fertility period kung saan mataas ang chance na maka buo ng bata ang bawat kakang gata.. ito yung maaring mag meet ang spermcell at eggcell dahil s apagiging aktibo or pag ka hinog ng obone ng babae sa tuwing fertility period nya. bka kasi na tsambahan nitong haliparot na lalake mataas ang libido nitong si alembong girl

at take note...?? sya pa ang naka ibabaw??

oh my god..

paki detalye mo nga ng maganda hihhihi..

eh eto n nga bagong balita.. nalaman ko n buong storya base sa pkikitsismis ko sa messenger nung friend kong makyondi..

mejo naiirita n ko ditto sa kaibigan kong alembong at prang naawa nmn ako dun sa lalaki...

kakahiwalay lng nitong friend ko s bf nia at ung nka-keme nia eh tropa nia lng.. so ayun n nga.. love on top tong friend ko at natsambahan..

c friend gusto eh pagbusapan nila nung lalaki ung tungkol dun sa bata, pero ang sabi nia di nmn daw xa maghahabol kasi alam nia nmn walang pambigay ung lalaki... nkakaloka tong friendship ko,, kungalam nia pla wala pambigay ung lalaki, ano pang hinahabol nia..pinapasakit nia lng ulo nia..diber??

at eto nmn lalaki sbi pa-DNA daw muna bka ndi kanya,, gago tong friend ko sabi b nmn sa lalaki eh,, "pag pinaDNA mo to, magdedemand ako ng support"

nabasa ko sa convo nila kc ndi nia na-log out ung fb messenger nia sa fon ko.. kaloka..

so prang labas eh binablackmail niotng friend ko ung boylet.. in short.. prang labas eh.. basta panagutan lng nung boy;et ung bata eh ndi na xa maghahabol..

nkkloka tlga... tanong:

pwd bang nid panagutan ng guy ung friend ko kung ndi nia mapapa-DNA ung bata??

ano pwede iresbak nugn friend ko pag ganun?

Your friend has to prove that the man is the father. The only 99.9% way to do that is through a DNA test.

maeron po bapwede ikaso ung guy sa knya halimbawa:

1. Ndi po nia pina-DNA pero pinapa-claim nia dun sa guy

2.pwede ba xa makasuhan dun sa cnsabi nia sa guy na, "kpag pina DNA mo tong bata, magdedemand ako ng support.."

Kasi parang lumalabas eh, kpag ndi pina DNA ung bata at inako nung guy, ndi magdedemand ng kahit ano ung friend ko, provided n pipirma ung guy sa bcert..kasi wala nmn tlga ipprovide ung guy, pero kung magdedemand tlg ung guy ng DNA, magffile daw xa ng case for support..

ang masaklap pa, ung guy yta is married though pagkakaalam nmin is hiwalay sa asawa.

magulo n nga ung situation, sbi nmn ng friend ko ndi na daw magsasalita ung asawa nun based din sa cnabi nung tropahan nila na nakakakilala dun sa asawa nung guy.

ang gulo paano po ba, ayko nmn maresbakan din ung friend ko kaso sa way nia, prang nibblackmail nia ung guy at bka dun xa madali imbis na tahimik lang sana lahat.

pakisagot n lng po ung questions ko.

Your friend is being selfish and incredibly manipulative. To be honest she's a downright asshole.

1. If this man claims responsibility as the father and signs the birth certificate the child will automatically have a right to support. The child could claim that on his own or through another person who could act as his guardian if the mother refuses to enforce the child's right. Why do that to someone when there is the uncertainty that he is the father? She just broke up with her boyfriend. Who knows who else she was capable of having intercourse with? For all you know her ex boyfriend is the father. If he is not the father he could sue her for robbery with the use of intimidation or grave coercion. She has to have proof that he is the father other than her word.

2. There has to be an end to the uncertainty. Why not just go through the DNA test? I think she should pay for it as well.

She will lose anyway if the DNA test proves to be negative. What is important is the truth and the welfare of her child.

It would be unjust to obligate someone under threat when there is uncertainty as to the legal tie that would create the obligation in the first place.

honestly cnabi ko din yan sa knya na ndi tama ung threat na ginagawa nia, but the thing is mukang ung guy is napilitan n lng din kasi nga based sa cnabi nung friend ko,,,, ndi xa manghhingi ng support bsta akuin lng nung guy ung bata.. which is actually unfair.

another question there Sir is.. Halimbawa po pumirma n ung guy sa bcert nung bata, then nung lumalaki ung bata, naicp nia n ipa-DNA then napatunayan n ndi pla knya, mkakasuhan nia b ung friend ko at pwede bang ialis nia ung name nia dun sa bcert?

kasi pra ma-advise ko n din ung friend ko sa pwedeng gawin nung guy bka sakali marealiza nia n mali ung ginagawa nia...

Then he will be entitled to be paid back everything he paid by mistake. And if the mother knew that he was not the father and still made him support the child, I think that is some form of swindling.

Seriously. This will all end if the child will just be allowed to undergo a DNA test.

prang mahirap po patunayan kung alam o ndi nung nanay na NDI ung guy ung tatay kasi db pwde nmn xa magsinungaling about it?

what I want is at least to protect my friend from future prblems kso ang hrap nia pagsabihan.

until now nagstick pa din xa dun sa stand nia na HINDI DAW SIYA MANGHIHINGI NG SUPPORT AT NDI NA GUGULUHIN UNG LALAKI BASTA CLAIM THE KID AS HIS, PERO PAG PINILIT DAW XA MAGPA-DNA, MAFOFORCE XA NA IAKYAT SA COURT UNG CASE AND SHE WILL DEMAND FOR SUPPORT and dun natatakot ung lalaki kasi wala nmn tlga xa pangsupport, he has job pero ndi enough, and afraid din xa mabunyag kasi nga may asawa at anak xa pero hiwalay.

magulo ung situation nila actually..

makukulong ba ung lalaki kung ndi xa magkapag bigay ng support?

kasi for sure makukulong clang dalawa pag nag inagy ung friend ko kasi aware pla xa na na kasal ung lalaki though hiwalay

Even if she goes to court, they will still demand her to provide proof of paternity. It's the same banana.

I won't answer that because I don't want to give your friend more ammunition to manipulate and use another person. If she wants she could consult a lawyer of her own and pay for their services.

un na nga po.. later kakausapin ko ung friend ko to let her know all about this..

honestly I already told her na first step sa court is civil which is demand for support and kpag tumanggi ung guy it will then be criminal case,, at pwede makulong..

nabasa ko dn na depende p dn sa guy at sa knikita nia ung pagsupport kasi hati cla..

ndi lng tlga maxadong clear sakin ung situation nila dhil ang nagpapagulo is ung stand ung friend ko na I think ndi na tama.

what else can i say? malinaw at nasagot na ni sir jadis ang lahat.. kunwari kpa kasi na friend mo yang may problema eh..? ikaw yan ano? hahaha

anyway.. kung sino nag iinsist ng pag papa tunay.. sya ang gagastos. at halimabawa pinilit nung babae na gastusan ng lalake ang dna test? at lumabas na negatibo at hndi sya ang ama? kailngan ibalik ng babae ang halagang ginastos nung lalake.

at tungkol naman sa financial support. paano mag susupoort ang lalake sa bata kung hndi naman nya acknowlege yung bata as his child.
kailngan documented lahat. hndi naman kasi pwdeng kahit na lng sinong babae ang naanakan eh mag tuturo ng kung sino sino para lng sa suporta. kailngan documentado at may patunay na may rights humingi at may rights mang hingi.

At walang karapatan ipagkait ng nanay ang karapatan ng anak na humingi ng suporta sa tunay na ama.

I find that condition really stupid, deceitful and manipulative - sign the birth certificate and I will not come after you. Newsflash: it's not entirely up to the mother. The child when he or she reaches discernment can ask the help of another to claim support from the father since the mother is neglecting her duty to assert the child's right.

Yang pinagsasabi niyang hindi siya maghahabol? Haler! Madali lang bawiin yan kahit pa may kasulatan na nangangako siya na hindi siya maghahabol labag yan sa batas at wala yang bisa.

An agreement waiving future support or inheritance is VOID.

wow galing mo sir jardis idol!!!!

at isa pa. hndi naman pla mag hahabol eh ano ang ipinag puputok ng bahay bata nyang kaibigan mo kuno na yan? haha.. at tandaan din natin palagi. ang financial na sustento at suporta sa anal ligitimate man or illigitimate ay nasa balikat at responsibilidad ng parehong magulang. tatay at nanay.. depende na lng kung sadyang wlang kakayahan ang isa sa mga ito o likas na batugan:) at wlang eksaktong amount na naka saad sa kung mag kano ang dapat na halaga. basic needs lng, food, shelter, schooling, medicine etc..etc..

teka time out muna aq rda ha!!

may pinag dadaanan ang lolo mo!! maga na amata q kaka iyak muka na aq puyat na bisugo:)

ang pangit q pa naman umiyak grabe kala q pang famas na pag hagulgul q,, nung tumayo aq at nakita q sarili q sa salamin.. tang ina ang panget q umiyak hahaha.

Saglit, hindi ko nabubuksan sa cellphone yung mga private message.

Will get to your message when I'm on my desktop

ok sir.. mejo mahaba msg na yun ha.. hndi q na lng masyado na elaborate kasi naiiyak aq habang tpe yung msg.. tulo pa cpon q hihihi.. anyway tnx sa time sir..

I am female.

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Hi All,

this time ung guy na muna ung nkausap ko.. ndi ung friend ko kasi mukang sarado pa tlga isip nia..

nid nmn sa kinakampihan ko ung guy, all I want is magig fair ung mga bagay bagay..

I informed the guy about the things we've talked about here,, his concern lng tlg is the financial support, coz he know na wala xang maibbgay,,

I told him na kpag pumirma ka,, automatic responsible ka na jan coz u already acknowledged the kid.. I told him an let my friend do the DNA testing first.. ayoko kasi kusnsintihin ung ginagaw ania..

sabi ng guy pag isipan nia daw.. kc un lng daw tlg nagpapagulo sa icip and I asked him about his plans... di p din nia alam... bka daw dalawain nia n lng ung friend ko since mnanganganak n nga si tanga this 1st week of june punyeta,, sorry for the term..

magulo cla pareho.. ung isa sobrang tapang,,, ung is anmn sobrang duwag pag nainis ako pababayaan ko clang dalawa eh..

@Raheem.. baliw ka ndi ako yan siraulo.. hahahah!!

@Ms. Jadis.. you practiced law right?? does it ean ba na you're a lawyer na?? parang tanga ng tanong ko.. need ko kc ng lawyer..

It is illegal to practice law without first becoming a member of the Integrated Bar of the Philippines.

I see po...
kasi I need lawyer po hehhe...

anyways... nbabaliw n tlga ko kakapaintindi sa bith party kung ano dpat nila gawin... o even informed them that I already consulted to professionals baut their case..

eh kung bahala lng kaya cla sa mga buhay nila?? concern lng din nmn ako sa bata at sa friend ko... naaawa nmn ako dun sa lalaki..

why am I so best friend.. kakainis cla..

ano po magandang advice s knila na pwede cla matauhan prho Ms. Jaids?

I don't think that's really any of our concern anymore.

You should not meddle in matters where you are not even being asked for help or advice. They are adults and you are not their parent.

sakin po kasi is "prevention is better than cure lng" coz I know na at the end of the day pag nagkaproblema.. ako at ako lng ung lalapitan nung friend ko n un.. I've known her since we were kids..

kaya ngaun p lng I want to let her the risk of her acts..

I think lang na dahil kaya din naduduwag ung lalaki n tumanggi kasi alam niang pwede xang makulong dahil nga married xa, my friend know that kaya pwede nia un ipang-backmail dun sa guy.. pero diba pwede dn makulong ung friend ko Ms. Jadis pag nagkataon?