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Karapatan ng AMA.

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1Karapatan ng AMA. Empty Karapatan ng AMA. Thu Nov 17, 2016 3:56 pm

jheslyanne


Arresto Menor

Magandang araw po. Ako po ay si Amir, OFW since 2009, from 2009 till 2011 nagpapadala po ako ng remitance, natigil lang ng mahuli ko ang misis ko na may ka text na lalaki kapitbahay namin. dahil sa nawalan na ko ng tiwala na baka sa lalaki lang ginagastos padala ko, nagdecide akong itigil ang padala. may dalawa kaming anak. April 2012 na confirm ko na sila na ng kalaguyo nya, nung una binabalewala ko ang mga sabisabi ng kapitbahay hangang sa hindi na nga ako pauwiin ng exwife ko sa bahay at naging open na relasyon nila sa pamilya ng asawa ko, nagpopost na sila sa fb ng magkasama sila, nasa akin po ang mga picture nila. simula nun lalo po ako di nagpadala sa kanya, pero simula din nun di ko nakakausap ung dalawang anak ko, unless nakabakasyon ako ng 1 month/year dun lang ako nagkakaroon ng chance makasama mga bata, kelangan ko pa manakot na papakulong ko sila para lang maibigay nila sakin mga anak ko. nagsasama napo sila sa iisang bubong kasama mga anak ko, at hangang ngaun maski anu message ko no chance para maka skype ko man lang ung dalawang anak ko.

ngayon po sila pa ang nagbabanta sakin na idedemanda daw ako pag di pa ko nagpadala ng pera at suportahan yung dalawang bata, wala naman po poblema susuportahan ko po sila kaya lang ni skype o video call di nila pinapakita mga anak ko.

nung malaman ko na nabuntis na ang dati kong asawa march 2015 nanganak sya, ninais ko pong idemanda sila para man lang mabawasan ang sakit na nararanasan ko sa pagwasak nila sa pamilya ko at pang bebrainwash sa mga bata na hindi ko sila mahal kaya di ako nagpapadala at di ko sila kinakausap maski sa video call. pero mas inisip ko po kapakanan ng dalawang bata kng makukulong nanay nila.

hangang ngaun wala po ako communication sa dalawa minimessage ko ang dati kong asawa pero di nagrereply, anu po ba ang dapat kong gawin sa ganitong situation

hinayaan ko na ang asawa ko at ang kalaguyo nya dahil ako din naman nakahanap na ng makakasama at nagkaanak na din kami ng isa. ang nais ko lang magkaroon pa rin kami ng communication ng dalawa kong anak.

anu po bang hakbang ang maari kong gawin? sana po matulungan niniyo ako. negative or positibong commento tatangapin ko po maraming salamat.

2Karapatan ng AMA. Empty Re: Karapatan ng AMA. Thu Nov 17, 2016 6:58 pm

marlo


Reclusion Perpetua

depende sa gusto mong mangyari.

afaik the wife can be liable for such adulterous relationship and if she was married to the 2nd guy too, then they can be both liable for bigamy case too as long as you can prove it in court, if your intention is to file criminal case against them/her.

otherwise, check other grounds for possible ground for an annulment case or legal separation which ever is your intention.

you must continue remittance of financial support to your children (whether this is being used as leverage by your wife or no) atleast an amount to prove a financial support is never forgotten. otherwise, you may be liable for non-support case by your wife against you, if she can prove that in court.

whiciever the case, if you were legally married to her, then the baby would probably carry your surname as your legit son (even though you are not the bio father) under your still subsisting marriage contributing to a more complicated marital scenario and legitimes. you must act soonest and/or contest legality of the child if that is your intention. Consult your atty and also mention your intention on guardianship and custody if that is your prayers and if that is possible to prove in court.

3Karapatan ng AMA. Empty Re: Karapatan ng AMA. Sat Nov 19, 2016 3:52 am

jheslyanne


Arresto Menor

even since 2012 kami naghiwalay at hinayaan ko na sya sa kalaguyo nya, pwede ko pa rin sya idemanda?

kung sampahan man nya din ako ng kaso na since 2012 till 2016 pambonambon lang remitance ko makakaapekto ba un sa adultery na ikakaso ko sa kanya?

4Karapatan ng AMA. Empty Re: Karapatan ng AMA. Sat Nov 19, 2016 7:50 am

johnlocke1290


Arresto Mayor

even since 2012 kami naghiwalay at hinayaan ko na sya sa kalaguyo nya, pwede ko pa rin sya idemanda? wrote:

I don't think you can pursue the case as this may be an implied pardon.

5Karapatan ng AMA. Empty Re: Karapatan ng AMA. Sun Nov 20, 2016 7:13 am

marlo


Reclusion Perpetua

Why would you admit that in court if she cannot prove that in court on the other hand? If you want to have the upper hand, then do not admit that in court then Very Happy.

Have a regular financial support to her

EDIT
If you want to contest the child, you have limited time to do it, you must act soon and get an atty to help you further.

6Karapatan ng AMA. Empty Re: Karapatan ng AMA. Sun Nov 20, 2016 10:13 am

johnlocke1290


Arresto Mayor

Yes, but he will be questioned in court where he has to be honest, or else, he will commit perjury. Cross-examination will be done, and his wife will state that he knows about the illicit relationship etc.

I agree, it is better to give the financial support.

Go to court for custody battle.

7Karapatan ng AMA. Empty Re: Karapatan ng AMA. Sun Dec 04, 2016 5:00 pm

marlo


Reclusion Perpetua

This could boil down as a circumstantial case in court if she cannot provide compelling expert witnesses or written records to support her claims on that 'alleged' pardon of spouse alone, as long as he denies that claim in court.

Her words on that 'pardon/admission' is not enough much similarly on a victim's admissions of an alleged (and disproven) rape case against OJ Simpson or the controversial Denise rape case imho

As long as she cannot prove it, it can be an option to him if you ask me.

8Karapatan ng AMA. Empty Re: Karapatan ng AMA. Mon Dec 12, 2016 11:14 am

jheslyanne


Arresto Menor

lumalabas po na anu man ang gawin ko lugi pa din pala ko sa batas ng pilipinas.

9Karapatan ng AMA. Empty Re: Karapatan ng AMA. Sat Dec 17, 2016 4:40 am

marlo


Reclusion Perpetua

If there are kids, in a couple's irreconcilable situation such as but not limited to separation or annulment, there's no win-win situation for both spouses if there are children involved imho.

You can demand your rights to visitation in court that can be agreed upon/scheduled upon courts approval with mother's consent on top of annulment or legal separation, if that are your intentions. The children have rights for visitation from their bio father (you), which likely seems to be the case.

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