marriage problem

hi! can anyone help me po kung ano dapat kong gawin.. im here at canada at may asawa pero 3 years na kaming hnd ok or should i say pinutol ko na lahat ng anu man meron kami sa kadahilanang may babae sya,, nung una deny to the max pa sya pero nung umuwi ako mismong anak ko nagsabi sakin na nagsasama na pala sila nung babae nya. umuwi ako last 2013 dahil pilit nyang nilalayo ang anak ko samin, kaya ako umuwi para sana magharap kami at pag usapan ang tungkol sa anak ko. na tutal samin naman gusto mag stay ung anak ko which is 10 yr.old na.. at sya nmn ang nakagawa ng kamalian sa relasyon namin,, pero ayaw at hindi po sya humarap sakin, at lagi nyang dinadahilan ay di nya maiwan work nya (tricycle driver). it takes 4 hours kasi ang layo ng lugar nila sa amin. 21 days lang ang bakasyon ko at ilang beses kong tinawagan na humarap sya sakin pero ayaw nya.. nakabalik na ako canada pero dipa sya nagpapakita.. nakuha ng pamilya ko sa kanya yong anak ko nung umuwi ako at nagstay sa bahay ng gang dec.. pero nung december (baksyon) kinuha nya at di na binalik.eh nag aaral yong anak ko. gusto nya ilipat daw pero sabi ng shool dina pwede transfer pero di pa rin nya pinapapasok till now.. at nabalitaan ko rin na kinakasama na nya ung babae nya. ano po ba dapat kong gawin o ng pamilya ko para makuha ko yong anak ko or ng pamilya ko.. wala akong magawa kasi andito naman ako ibang bansa.. ano ba pwede kong gawin para tigilan na ako ng asawa ko sa panggugulo samin ng anak ko,, since may kinakasama naman na sya, anu po pwede kong gawin sa asawa at kabit nya.. pwede ko kaya sila idemanda? thanks

Go to Philippine Embassy and get a Power of Attorney address to your parents enabling them to take care of your problem while abroad. In this case your parents will have rights to act on your behalf and get your child back. And when you have a chance to go back file a concubinage case against your husband and give power of attorney to your parents to follow it up for you! Once case is filed whoever you assign with power of attorney to attend the hearing can do so!

aside from the concubinage, they can file a petition for custody on your behalf. but be sure you can prove that he is living in with another woman and the child is being exposed to their immoral relationship.

Hi po meron din po ako katanungan.. My husband and I were separated a long time ago. I am now divorced and I live in canada. We have 3 children 15, 13 and 9 years old. When I left the Philippines 2006 I left my kids with my aunt. And it's just recently that my ex went and took them from my aunt. Now my problem is he has no permanent job, he is living with his parents, he has a drinking problem, he smoke. Can my kids choose not to go with him or do I need to file for custody and appoint my aunt as the legal guardian for my kids.. Do I need to file in person or can a lawyer do it from canada.. Please help I really need help bad.. Thank you

thanks po.. ilang beses na rin kasi sya pinatawag sa barangay namin pra iharap sana yong bata at tanungin kung san nya gusto stay pero ayaw nya iharap yong bata at thesame time ayaw din humarap asawa ko.. sabi din ng capt.namin na pag dipa raw sya hmrap for the last call mismong barangay na namin ang magsend ng summon sa kanya, kasi before nya kinuha yong anak ko nangako sya sa capt.namin na isosoli nya din yong bata sa parents ko pero di nya ginawa.. sabi ng capt.namin di daw nya pwede balewalain yong promised nya na yon kasi nakarecord sa files nila.. thanks po,, i'll do what you've advice.. thanks a lot

jhanz wrote:thanks po.. ilang beses na rin kasi sya pinatawag sa barangay namin pra iharap sana yong bata at tanungin kung san nya gusto stay pero ayaw nya iharap yong bata at thesame time ayaw din humarap asawa ko.. sabi din ng capt.namin na pag dipa raw sya hmrap for the last call mismong barangay na namin ang magsend ng summon sa kanya, kasi before nya kinuha yong anak ko nangako sya sa capt.namin na isosoli nya din yong bata sa parents ko pero di nya ginawa.. sabi ng capt.namin di daw nya pwede balewalain yong promised nya na yon kasi nakarecord sa files nila.. thanks po,, i'll do what you've advice.. thanks a lot
 

He is obligued to response and meet with the other party if not, you can file a kidnapping case against him by giving your trusted person a power of attorney from the Embassy.