karapatan nang babaeng nabuntis nang me asawa????

Magandang umaga po?ako po si mrs. timpug from bicol region,bago lang po ako sa site na to..kailangan ko po kase nang legal advice ukol sa bumabagabag sa aming mag-asawa so nagresearch po ako kung san pwede magkaron ng knowledge about sa mga batas at karapatan ng isang babaeng nabuntis nang me asawang lalaki.
Ganito po kase yon...nasa middle east po ako nang mangyari ang di ko inaasahan.Nagkakilala po ang asawa ko at ang isang dalaga a year ago bago ako umuwi.Alam po nung babae ang estado sa buhay ng asawa sa una naging magkaibigan sila at nanglumaon natukso ang asawa ko dahil sa sobrang flirt nung babae..na-inlove po kase ung babe sa asawa ko at sa madaling salita pinatulan ng asawa ko yong girl...nang malapit na kong umuwi inunti-unti ng asawa kong makipagkalas dun sa babae but nagbuntis yong babae para indi sila mawalan ng koneksiyon ng asawa ko...nang makauwi ako kinausap na ako agad ng asawa ko..todo paliwanag at hingi ng tawad sakin ..masakit at napakahirap tanggapin...but alam ko kung ano meron kaming magasawa so binigyan ko ulet siya ng second chance...the girl and i meet before she delivered the baby...nagkalinawan na kami...so yon susustentuhan namin yong kawawang bata..sabi nga nang asawa ko ibigay nalang samin yong bata para indi na siya mahirapan at mamroblema pa tutal eh indi naman siya nagpabreastfeed dun sa baby simula ng ipanganak but siyempre ina yon at naiintindihan namin kung hindi siya pumayag...para wala lang gulo todo suporta naman po kami,hanggang sa isang araw magaway sila ng mister ko dahil halos hindi na pinapakita samin yong bata hingi lang nang hingi nang allowance..so ang ginawa nang asawa ko tiniis niyang wag nang bigyan nang pera yong babae...tutal eh nagsasarili naman siya at nagtrabaho na..but hindi rin nakatiis yong babae dahil nahirapan siguro pinapahiram na ulet samin yong bata...lahat nang gastos at kailangan nang bata kami ang nagshoulder pero indi na binibigyan nang mister ko nang allowance yong mukhang perang babae...nalaman yon nang magulang nung babae at ngayon eh tinatakot kaming magdedemanda kung indi siya susustentuhan eh sabi nila iba na daw po ngayon dapat daw pati ina nang bata eh me sustento indi lang yong bata..indi po namin yon alam...ang alam lang namin eh sa bata lang..totoo po bang me batas nang ganon ngayon...?hanggat maaari nga kunin na namin yong bata tutal naman eh kami rin naman ang nagaalaga..kukunin niya para makasama for 1day lang tapos ipapasundo rin kinaumagahan..after mga 4day saka nanaman kukunin...sabi pa nung ina ang bata daw hanggat ala pa daw 8years old sa poder pa din nang ina...tama po ba yon?ano po ba ang maganda,tama at legal na paraan para indi kami ipitin or gipitin nong babae????please naman po..kelangan ko talaga ng advice...
sana po ay matugunan niyo ung hinihingi kon tulong...salamat po!!!

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your situation is different from your husband. you do not have any rights to the child.

your husband has visitation rights, but not parental authority; only the mother does.

the child is entitled to support, but not the mother.

my suggestion is that you formalize an agreement where there is a clear schedule when the child will be with the father, and how much support and in what form the child will receive.

your husband should not make the mistake of stopping sending support to the child; he will be liable for economic violence under RA 9262.

i hope you are not thinking that your husband's visitation rights are exchanged by the support. this is not a commercial transaction.

Thanks po sa pagreply,indi naman po namin pinababayaan yong bata.Mas madalas nga po andito samin kesa dun sa nanay nagwo-work na po kase yong nanay nung bata.Sa isang linggo po halos 2x lang kinukuha nung nanay...lahat naman po nang pangangailangan at sustento sa bata galing sa asawa ko eh hindi nawawala sa tulong narin nang mga magulang namin.
Yong nanay po kase nung babae parang naghahabol sa sustento nang anak niya hindi lang nang sa bata.Ganon daw po ngayon ang batas indi lang ang bata ang me sustento.
Eversince po nang ipanganak yong bata hindi naman po yon nag-breastfeed..Saka po alang trabaho ang mister ko..sa ganitong kaso po ba wala talagang mahihita yong babae samin...?
Pasensiya na po at maraming salamat ulet!!!

it is not correct to state that even the mother of the illegitimate child is entitled to support; only the child does.

i recommend that you draw up an agreement on visitation schedule and the child's support. the support you give can be non-cash or have to be liquidated by receipts.

Hi. Bago lang po ako sa site na ito. Ako po si Glenn Rivera ng Quezon City. Karagdagang tanong lang po tungkol sa sustento sa anak ng nabuntis na babaeng hindi naman asawa ng nakabuntis.

Malawak po ba ang coverage ng sustento na tinutukoy dito? Does it mean that even a 17-year girl who got pregnant by a boy of her age is entitled to receive any financial support for her child?

Can the girl or her family file a case against the boy or his family on grounds of economic violence under RA 9262? The couple are not even married. The child is just a product of casual sex.

Another thing Sir, is there a law that punishes a man who accidentally impregnates a woman even without the consent of her parents? Is the woman's family entitled to any damages incurred by the man's act? I mean, just to compensate for the woman's lost dignity and economic value for her family. The woman might be forced to stop schooling or working in order to attend to her child. Worse, the same fate can be suffered by the woman's parents, the mother at least.

Thanks a lot! I hope to hear from wise lawyers soon.

support covers, food, clothing, shelter, education. the amount depends on the needs and the ability to support.

a woman with an unborn child is entitled to support for the child even more when she is a minor. RA9262 contemplates even a dating relationship, not necessary to be married. i would argue casual sex is covered as relationship.

impregnating a woman of legal age, no. having consensual sex with a minor, yes, seduction.

if the family's honor and reputation is damaged, then it is possible to claim damages, but it all depends on the circumstances.

Maraming salamat po!

I will talk to the family of the girl to see if they can see a lawyer and decide to file a case...