VAWC Psychological Abuse

Hi lianscott and Bella Flores,

I am interested to know the update and progress of your cases. I am in the same case. I submitted an affidavit to the fiscal's office RE VAWC- emotional and psychological abuse against my ex boyfirend who just suddenly abandoned me after knowing that i am pregnant of his child and been texting me to abort our child but ofcourse I cant do such thing. I submitted my affidavit last March 20, 2013. I am just currently waiting for the result. I have read both your stories and just curious what's going on now with your cases so i will somehow know what to expect and the next procedures and steps i'll be taking

Hi ATTy LLL,

I submitted my affidavit last March 20, 2013 at our provincial prosecutors office RE VAWC- emotional and psychological abuse. How long shall I wait for the update from them Is it appropriate to make a follow up by the ned of this week? Further, while waiting..can i already request for a hold departure order against my ex? i am worried that he will be flying to other country to escape from all this. Thanks.

1st hearing is usually scheduled within a month of filing. you can check to which prosecutor it was assigned to and ask if subpoeanas were issued

hi Bella Flores,good day po..
hanggang ngaun naghihintay ako ng resolution ng fiscal..kasi nga po na file ko na ang demanda ko sa fiscal nung January pa hanggang ngayun wala pang resulta..wala parin ang resolution ewan ko kung hanggang kelan ako maghihintay ng resolution..sabi kasi ng imbestigador ng NBI hindi naman sila pde kumilos ng walang resolution galing sa fiscal kaya maghintay dw ako..ndi ako makatulog sa kakahintay kasi 2 months na wala parin nag aalala na ako baka mapunta lang sa wala ang kaso...

now ang problema ko kung pano nalang ung demanda ko sa dalawa na concubinage..kasi nung malaman ng asawa ko saka ng kabit niya na denimanda ko sila naghiwalay muna sila, ang babae umuwi sa magulang niya kasama anak nila,ang asawa ko umuwi sa magulang din niya...di ko alam kung ang concubinage na nafile ko nung magkasama pa sila kung I accept pa un ng fiscal kasi hindi na sila now magkasama sa isang bobong..pero 3 years na silang my relasyon at magkasama sa iisang bobong at my anak na..nung may 2012 lang nanganak un babae nagsama sila nung dec.2010 pa....

noon ayaw ng asawa ko magbuntis ang babae kasi nga nung malaman ko na nagsasama na sila nagwarning ako sa asawa ko..sabi ko oras na mabuntis mu yan kabit mu ibang usapan na..yan ang msg ko sa fb ng asawa ko..di ko naman sukat akalain na ang warning ko sa asawa ko nabasa ng kabit niya ang ginawa ng kabit niya hindi na nag pills kaya un nabuntis..binogbog pa dw ng asawa ko kasi nga ayaw din ng asawa ko na mabuntis ang kabit nia kasi nga nagwarning na ako sa knya,alam kasi ng asawa ko ang ugali ko,mabait ako pero oras na magwarning ako ginagawa ko talaga..nung nalaman ng kabit niya ang fb ko nag message sa akin pinagmumura ako saka sinabi niya na tinuloy niya ang pagbuntis niya para ako galitin dahil nabasa daw nia ang warning ko sa asawa ko..kala ng kabit ang warning ko sa asawa ko pananakot lang kaya nagpabuntis siya..now na tinuloy ko ang demanda ko sa kanilang dalawa natakot din pala...ang kabit kasi ng asawa ko ay isang GRO my anak din sa lalaking my asawa now my anak din sa asawa ko...

now bella ang problema ko pano na ang kaso ko sa kanila na concubinage na hindi na sila magkasama ngaun...pero my communication parin sila ngaun at nagkikita..

ano ba dapat ko gawin?

dear lianscott,

Nasa abroad ka diba?possible ba yun kahit malayo ka to prosper the case?

Hi Atty LLL and readers,

It is quite encouraging that my case is moving fast. Considering that holy week has passed (long vacation), the prosecutors office released my subpoena last april 1st. I filed it last March 20, 2013. our first hearing is on April 25, 2013. I hope everyhting goes well from there and wishing all the ladies to be persistent with your cases until you get justice.

faith, in cases of psychological violence, it is good if you can get an evaluation by a psychologist. you can inquire at the ncmh

Thank you Atty LLL. I appreciate this assistance. Ill go and find means for psychological evaluation

i feel for these women... im in the same situation... married for 7 yrs with 5 kids and got cheated... filed a case ra9262 last dec2012... still waiting for the next step.... just wondering why is it taking too long, as to what i am observing the irresponsible father of my children is as happy go lucky righ now, i dont know exactly his whereabouts but i do have his possible addresses... im just observing him thru social net sites and there im seeing him as happy as if he's single....how long will he be punished i always ask myself, im not after his support or whatever, i want to him to be prisoned bec of what he has done to me most importantly to my children who are all minor...

follow up regularly at the prosecutor's office. file a motion to resolve at the sixth month

Ms. flores,

I know what you feel. I admire your courage. You're right. Fight for it. It shoudn't be tolerated. Give them a lesson.
Godbless...

Ms. Flores,

our situation are somewhat similar. ms flores may i ask you do you have children? how long have you been living together?

Re: VAWC Psychological Abuse on Sat Apr 13, 2013 6:44 am
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faith, in cases of psychological violence, it is good if you can get an evaluation by a psychologist. you can inquire at the ncmh


atty LL,

may i know what is ncmh?

thanks

national center for mental health in mandaluyong

lovely lady,
di ko nga po alam eh kc hanggang ngaun wala parin resolution..my nag ff up naman ng kaso ko,pero wala pa talaga..apat na buwan na eh...uuwi naman ako pag meron na klaro..kc mahirap naman umuwi ng wala klaro sayang naman pamasahe ko...

to: bella Flores,

Can you please update your case? Specialy the progress of psychological abuse.

Atty. LLL,

Is psychological evaluation will still be consider kung may 1 Year na hiwalay? Late na ba masyado kung ngayon pa lang ako magpapa evaluate?

Another question atty. LLL, pwede ba psychological abuse lang ifile sa vawc?

Good day po.


I would like to ask assistance on filing a VAWC case against my ex live-in partner po. I would like to file harassment and psychological abuse against him. I have medico legal of what he did to me last December 17, 2014. He even denied our 3rd child, to think he acknowledged the first 2 kids. I have printed out our conversation on FB and on my phone as proof po. I've also gone through barangay summon but he didn't show up even on the third summon. I was instructed to go to the fiscal's office by DSWS but I am still waiting for the certification from the barangay. What I am concerned po is that, the father of my ex live-in partner is an influential man in our town. His father is the chairperson in the KBP and I am afraid because I heard from my ex live-in partner before that his father has many connections in the government. I'd like to know the processes in filing the VAWC case. I am really scared because my ex live-in partner's father has connections in the government and maybe my case will be delayed.

I hope you could help me out po and advise me what to do. Looking forward for your response. Thank you and more power.

Hi.
similar case.
RA 9262.several times been cheated by husband.abandoned six kids.mga relatives including mother inlaws who meddle.and mga kunsintidor for that matter. husband lives with the other woman.
i had my case filed at the NBI around June of 2014.had the resolution reviewed and done on feb 5 2015.i was advised to wait for 30 days and id be advised of the schedule.was it for hearing?

can i site an accessory like let say an person who has knowledge of my husbands indefidility like my husbands aunt who threatened my kids support would be withdrawn , for some time my kids financial support was coursed through them and my kids were required to present a liquidation for expenses of the three thousand that they send per week.my husband is a project manager of his uncles construction firm.
i have six kids.and is legally married.
my husband has cheated on me several times during the course of our marriage.this last one was the worst and was the last straw for me.
financial support has always been one great struggle for me eversince.he now lives with his other woman and they have a child.
his uncle has full knowledge of whats going on with us.he knows about the other woman and knows that my kids support is inconsistent and has difficulty contacting theire father and getting support.
this and all the other crazy things that for many times drove me to attempt suicide and be physical with him,prompted me to file ra 9262 against him.resolution has been rendered.
i would like to know if i can site his uncle and auntie for accessory for the ra 9262 i filed against him.
has marital infedility been approved by congress?

You are definitely right!!! I agree with you