How to file a case against a Seaman partner

Hello,

Good day to all. I am a mother of a 3 year old baby boy who is now growing up without the acknowledgment of his father. After years of being together, he has not fulfilled his obligations as a father. We are not married and not living together anymore.
Here is the thing, he is a seaman and he stopped supporting his son financially. We separated ways because he is irresponsible and hits me physically. He even used my money before and promised to pay when he goes on board. But 3 years has passed, no payment and no child support.

1. Can I file a complain against him at POEA? So that his departure may be blocked.
2. Can I file a demand stating that he must file a child support and pay his debts?
3. Can I file a hold departure order to the court so that he has to pay his obligations first?
4. What case should I file in relevance to his physical violence to me. I got no Medico Legal record, that is my disadvantage.
5. What case will I file to him provided that he just impregnated me and left me with a child without support. Such impregnation has cause me Moral damages as my family is known to be of good record.

Please help me.

Thanks,

Minyat

Now I want to fight for my rights.

did he sign the child's birth certificate?

NO he did not. What will I do?

it will be very difficult. you can send a demand letter. others address it to the agency. if he refuses, your remedy will be to file a petition for declaration of filiation of the child and support.

good day atty. yung asawa ko po ay seaman din kasal kami at isang taon lang kami nagsama on board nya ok pa kami pero nang umuwi sya bigla nalng siya nakipaghiwalay inamin nya na may babae sya pero wala akong ebedinsya pero narinig ko kausap nya yung babae nya sa cellphone at ngayon lang nakita ko sa facebook may anak sya wala pang isang taon siguro ilang buwan pa lang kami hiwalay ibig sabihin nagsasama pa kami may nabuntis sya may karapatan ba ako para mag demand sa alotment at kung sakali pwede ko ba siyang ireklamo sa POEA para di na siya makasakay isa akong teacher pero nag resign din ako dahil sa depression.

sorry, are you married or not? if you are, you are entitled to support.

hello po!
oo kasal po kami nagbibigay naman siya ng alotment pero pwede ho ba akong mag demand ng kalahati sa sweldo nya at kung sakali po na gusto ko talaga na mawalan siya ng trabaho ano pwede kong gawin kasi sobrang marami na siyang babaeng nabuntis at lahat yun iniwan nya walang dahilan bali kami po ay walang anak tinanggap ko lahat yun pero ngayon may anak na namn siya.salamat po!

to my mind you need better evidence if you will file a case, such as the birth certificate of the child.

if you can prove his actual salary, you can demand that 80% should be given to you.

bago kami kinasal may mga anak na siya tinanggap ko po yun,bago palang kami kinasal nambabae na naman sya ulit.hindi ko po kilala yung babae pero po sa facebook naka post din yung picture nang anak nila at yung babae yung may access sa accopunt nya ngayon po di na ka blocked ako sa account nya nang sinabihan ko sya na magreklamo sinabihan nya ako na manahinik nalang kasi mapapahiya ako sobrang napakasama nya,about po sa allotment niya ano po ba pwede ko gawin ma prove na ganun yung basic nya pwede po ba ako tumawag sa agency niya ano po yung gawin ko to file a demand of 80 percent of his salary.
maraming salamat po!

you will have to get a copy of his real contract or payslips.

hello,
pwede ho ba akong humingi ng copy of his contract sa agency kasi yung last na contract nya meron ako pero ngayon wala kasi hiwalay na kami.What if po hindi sila magbigay ng kopya?since po naghiwalay kami hindi kasi na ka contact sa agency ngayon lang po kasi ako nakapag isip para gumawa ng hakbang against him kasi parang pinagtatawanan niya pa po ako.
Maraming salamat!

the agency will not give you that document without a court order.

hello po,
so ano pwede ko pong gawin gusto ko pong fight yung rights ko pero papano po kung wala din akong pambayad sa abogado,isa rin ako sa mga taong gustong lumaban pero dahil sa wala akong pera wala din akong magawa,pwede ho ba akong humingi na tulong sa PAO?
Salamat po!

atty, kung sakali po wala akong naipasang demand letter bilang asawa po ba sa akin pa rin yung karapatan para tumanggap ng allotment nya pag itigil nya po san ako pwede lumapit at humingi ng tulong kasi minsan nagbabanta siya,nawalan kasi ako ng trabaho dahil po sa depression simula ng iwan niya ako.Until now wala akong ginawa kundi umiyak,please atty. i need help !
Maraming salamat po talaga!

if you need legal assistance, you can inquire at the PAO, IBP or law school

hello atty.
pwede ho ba akong humingi ng tulong sa PAO pag nag file ako ng case??kasi po wala po akong financial,maraming salamat po!

hello atty.,
pwede ho ba akong humingi ng tulong sa PAO because of financial problem.maraming salamat talaga!

you can try. good luck

Hello atty., tanong ko lang po i have live in partner seaman po sya. We have 2 kids unang baba po nya di na po sya umuwi sa bahay. Sa iba na po sya babae umuwi. Last year nagusap po kami sa baranggay about sa support po nya sa bata including tuition fees nagaaral na po kasi sila. Nakapirma po sya sa birth ng anak ko. Until now di po nya binayaran ung school ng bata,magpapasukan na po next month. Pwede po ba akong magpalegal agreement na automatic na lang po ung support nya. Na di na po ako makikisuyo sa mga kamag anak nya para i remind po sya sa responsibilidad nya.. Please help me po

you can go to the PAO and ask for help filing a case of RA 9262. That way you have leverage for asking for an agreement