Nahuli ko asawa ko na may ibang babae

Good Morning to all ,

Im a mother of two boys , 9 and 8 yrs old ., but hindi pa po kame kasal ng asawa ko almost 13 yrs na po kame pero on and off dahil na rin po sa family problem and other issues .
Last month lang po ng manibago ako sa kilos nya , hes a seaman po and currently waiting for schedule pa ng pag alis mag four months na po sya dito sa pilipinas .
January q ng mabasa ko po lahat ng conversations nila sa msgr . and i confronted him about it , he admitted . super sakit kasi i didnt expect na magagawa nya sakin . The said other woman is ex nya . I know the girl is walang alam about us , i know wala syang sinabi about relationship namen inilihim nya . in short , pinagsabay kameng dalawa . i know naguguluhan sya and parang i feel na mas natututunan nya na,mahalin un babae .

1. Just want to know what to do , how to handle this ,,,, im currently pregnant turning 3 months this month .

2. Is there any offense for them or him na pwede ko ifile kahit hindi kame kasal ? I know na un asawa ko ang may problema dito thats why im thinking a millions time what to do kasi kawawa din un babae .

3. When it comes to financial support for our kids ,,, kasi years na magulo pagdating sa suporta dahil mas nagpapadala sya sa nanay nya kesa sakin , and most of the time 5k a month minsan wala 2k or 3k monthly . amo po ang karapatan ko ....

please help me .

1. He has no obligation of marital fidelity to you because you are not even married. Technically, he is NOT your asawa.

2. See no. 1.

3. He has no obligation to support you because you are NOT his wife, but he has an obligation to support your children. Ask more for your children if the money he is sending for them is not enough.

thank you for your response . 😊