Need advice

Hi! I am a single mom, married and got separated right away after few mos in 1999, (not legally separated) my ex husband have his own family and children already. Working abroad i have a boyfriend from 2006-2014 got separet as well and met someone in year2015 . We were friends , never did i felt and known that he is still together with the wife. Usually, pinoy would always chat or videocall his wife or child. He courted me, i ask people around if he is really single everyone said yes. I dont even see clue as well if he is still in a relationship with the wife or if they are still communicating except when he send allowance/money twice a month. Until one day the wife keep sending pic of ours not malicious but i am there and he is there, she likes to do that everytime she sees pic of him with someone she reacts as if their separation was just new.He told me they are married but was separated from 2014i saw a msg from her to saying the year wen they totally separated. This keep going everytime we are in an event and she sees both of us present even not together. She harrased me by sending msg to my daughter and posting pics in our filipino community website. Now she keep on messaging him that he is meeting a lawyer and would have us banned and go home as her revenge.. i am trying mybest not to intrude with their issue but i think and feel i have to do something. Knowing they are still married and not legally separated. I am lost and dont know where to stand. And what to do. I need advice. I want her to stop threatening me and and harrasing my daughter. I want her not to communicate with my work. What should i do

First thing you should do is talk with the man. Let him tell you everything, the truth. Then tell him to talk to his wife (ex-wife or whatever it may be) and let them settle their lives. After then if the woman would still continue to do the same, you can file libel, threat and harassment. You should not be afraid since she doesn't have any strong evidence proving that you have relationship with his husband. If possible, you file a case first.

Hi, he told me that they separated after finding out she is using pills when he went home for his immediate family members burial. Then after that the just communicate for the child support twice a month.
Then i met him and had liked each others company. All she have is pictures that we are in an event together, 1 fb live video that we arrived same time, no malicious pic ( holding hands, kissing or hugging) i respect his past and i dont want them affecting my future too. But lately it seems like i am disturbed by her words saying she dont care if i get involved in their fight i might as well go home and be banned at poea and wont be able to work outside philippines.. and worst she said that she will soon contact the company where i work. My name and works are being valued by the management it will be a big damage if she do that for my company value Family as well. And i am trying to stop that from happening.. what would be the quickest thing to do

File her a case. I suggest get your lawyer now.

File her a case. I suggest get your lawyer now.

Well appreciated thank you sir.

1. You are still MARRIED.

2. YOU CANNOT CALL THE PERSON YOU ARE MARRIED TO YOUR EX. IT'S DECEITFUL AND IT'S WRONG BECAUSE FOR ALL INTENTS AND PURPOSES YOU ARE STILL MARRIED. THE SAME GOES FOR THE PERSON YOU ARE SEEING NOW.

3. Is it really worth the stress to cavort with a married person?

4. Hire a lawyer and sue for libel or oral defamation if you can.

Hi, thanks for d advice. I know eventhough 17yrs n po akong hiwalay sa father ng anak ko technically in papers married prin po status ko khit pa may mga anak n sya at pamilya, pero gusto ko po sana malinawan, un stand ko sa alam ko pong complicated na sitwasyon, since hiwalay din po sya tulad ko, ngaun po na naghahabol un misis nya , at pati po work ko apektado i wanted po ng clear legal advice in kng ano po ang stand ko.. may karapatan din po ba ko magfile for threatening and harassment o wla po akong karapatan dahil sa kasal sila kahit After pa kmi nagkakilala ng mister nya.

Consult a lawyer where you are.

I wish i could find someone from back home so the lawyer could easily reach the attention of the other party before she do anything that could cause me to get fired.

Is there anybody that u guys can recommend?