Custody of Legitimate Children Father's rights

Good evening! I am married and have 2 minor legitimate children. My eldest is 7 years old and youngest is 4 years old. My wife and I are having marital problems. My wife wants to separate from me. Medyo malakas loob ni wifey because her brother is a lawyer. Nag meeting kme Ng wife ko, her brother who is an attorney to discuss the situation. In the end, napagkasunduan n we stay in the same house and we avoid any altercations. So far ok nman Un arrangement.. On my part akala ko nag improve n Un situation until I found out na balak itakas ni misis Yun 2 anak ko. Kinausap ko Un wife Ng mahinahon n wag Ng ituloy and sundin yun original arrangement na peaceful co-existence sa Bahay. Mahal ko tlaga un mga anak ko pero Kung itakas Ng nanay Yun 2 bata.. Ano b legal remedies available? Matapang yun misis ko since kapatid Nya is abugado.

Sori.. Sa inis ko sabi ko Sa wife ko n grounds Yun for kidnapping since shared custody and itatakas nya Ng walang permiso or court order..

(My Tagalog is bad. I understood only some of what you told. I didn't understand what's changed since you made that agreement.)

LOOK UP! Even if your wife wouldn't have a lawyer as relative, you would almost sure LOSE a custody fight in court, because such small children end up with the mother "automatic" normaly, except if she is proven terrible as PARENT.

So they gave you a very KIND deal compared to what they could have got if going to court...

Hi Lunkan! The deal is not being honored since they made the deal but behind my back my wife is planning to run away with my children.

rainmanust wrote:Hi Lunkan! The deal is not being honored since they made the deal but behind my back my wife is planning to run away with my children.

Then you GET a LEGAL chance to get custody, because if it HAPPEN, then she BREAK the law...
BUT it's very hard to prove before it has happened.

Good day po! Ask ko lang po ano dapat gawin kung hndi nagsusustento ang ama ng mga anak q dlwa po sila isang 4yrs old at 10mnths nakaproblema po kami smula naisilang ko po ung anak nmin 10mnths old nagsustento lang po sya hnggng nun july nsa 6 mnths n ung bata aftr nun wala na po at ang pagsustento nia is nagbgay sya gatas ng bata at nagiwan ng 500 pangdiaper sa bata pero aftr nun smula ngaun hnd n nagbgay ng sustento sa bata ngaun po ay nsa barko sya on board ano po b dpat ko gawin? Salamt po

Good day po! Ask ko lang po ano dapat gawin kung hndi nagsusustento ang ama ng mga anak q dlwa po sila isang 4yrs old at 10mnths nakaproblema po kami smula naisilang ko po ung anak nmin 10mnths old nagsustento lang po sya hnggng nun july nsa 6 mnths n ung bata aftr nun wala na po at ang pagsustento nia is nagbgay sya gatas ng bata at nagiwan ng 500 pangdiaper sa bata pero aftr nun smula ngaun hnd n nagbgay ng sustento sa bata ngaun po ay nsa barko sya on board ano po b dpat ko gawin? Salamt po

I am currently pregnant and I am a seafarer so as my husband. Umuwi ako almost 3months ago dahil nga po buntis ako. Naging malabo po ang relasyon namin ng asawa ko but we are legally married for almost a year now. Dahil po sa business naming pautang sa barko kaya naiwan po dun ang salary ko dahil napauwi po ako emergency. Unti unti nyang pinapadala yung sarili kong pera but aside from that wala na akong natatanggap na financial support from him na galing talaga sa sarili nyang bulsa. Tinago ko lahat ng resibo ng chek up, ultrasound at kung ano ano pang gastusin para sa bata.
1. gusto ko pong kumuha ng abogado at ireinverse ang mga nagastos ko at para na rin po legal ang usap namin tungkol sa monthly support ng anak namin.. may makukuha po kaya akong reinversement sakanya kasi own salary ko lang ung pinapadala nya.

2. Balak ko pong bumalik as seafarer after ko pong manganak at maiiwan ang bata sa parents ko. Kung hindi na po mag aabroad ang asawa ko may karapatan po ba syang kunin ang anak ko at sya mag aalaga sa kadahilanan na nasa abroad ako? Gusto ko po sanang maiwan ang bata sa parents ko at hindi sakanya.

Maraming salamat po sa mga advice nyo.