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Please, I need some advice. I'm a PWD. We have helper (katulong) who also act as my carer. Does my personal needs, like changing my diaper and all. I am paralyzed and cannot manage my self. She knows what are the tasks she must do even before we hire her.
My problem with her is that she keeps on spreading things like how she would clean me up, etc. A day ago, someone told me that she was telling some people in our town that, I can buzz her all I want but she will not come to me and she will remove the buzzer's battery. I put a buzzer in the living room and kitchen area so I could buzz her for she changed her mobile number and will not give me her new one for me to text her whenever I need something. I was furious when I knew about it. She was hired to cater my needs and do the chores. By the way, she's a stay out helper.
We are planning, we will fire her if ever she will remove the battery of the buzzer like what she's spreading.
Firing her is easy to do. But the words she will be spreading if ever we fire her will be worst than what she's spreading now. I already too much humiliation because of her. People who don't even know me or haven't even seen me knows how she clean me up. And even telling lies to lift her self up. Like she's the oppressed.
I know how much I needed someone to rely on, so as much I can, I try my best to be kind to them. I think I don't deserve such things like what she's doing to me.
Please, if anyone can give me advice or whom to inquire about this matter. I badly needed it.
Thank you in advance.
My problem with her is that she keeps on spreading things like how she would clean me up, etc. A day ago, someone told me that she was telling some people in our town that, I can buzz her all I want but she will not come to me and she will remove the buzzer's battery. I put a buzzer in the living room and kitchen area so I could buzz her for she changed her mobile number and will not give me her new one for me to text her whenever I need something. I was furious when I knew about it. She was hired to cater my needs and do the chores. By the way, she's a stay out helper.
We are planning, we will fire her if ever she will remove the battery of the buzzer like what she's spreading.
Firing her is easy to do. But the words she will be spreading if ever we fire her will be worst than what she's spreading now. I already too much humiliation because of her. People who don't even know me or haven't even seen me knows how she clean me up. And even telling lies to lift her self up. Like she's the oppressed.
I know how much I needed someone to rely on, so as much I can, I try my best to be kind to them. I think I don't deserve such things like what she's doing to me.
Please, if anyone can give me advice or whom to inquire about this matter. I badly needed it.
Thank you in advance.
