I was civilly married in 1983 by a judge who was also my uncle. All those years (until year 2000), I thought i was legally married to my husband only to find out that our marriage certificate was and is still archived at the Civil Registry of Manila. In 2000, i'd decided i had had enough of my husband's verbal and physical abuse and so, i left him. During that time, i had plans to work abroad and started to secure documents needed to get a passport, hence, the reason i found out about the status of my marriage. I have now a steady partner in life for almost 14 years. Am i still legally bound to my husband? how can it be undone? Can i still revert to my single status and re-assume my maiden name in all my credentials, Ids, etc. ? what's the first thing to do? I have 3 grown kids with him. Will this affect their inheritance from their father? thank you so much for your immediate forthcoming help.