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Hello, I'm Marlyn..just new here...hope my i can get some answers from here...

Magandang araw po sa lahat lalo na po sa ating mga taga payo. Ako po ay nagpapahiram ng pera sa kaibigan ng kaibigan ko. Nagtiwala po ako sa kanya.nung una po maayos po syang nag babayad sa akin at nag introduce narin sya ng iba pang umutang sa akin na may 5 percent lamang . Binigyan ko po siya ng 3.5 percent at ang kanyang kapatid dahil narin sila ang nag introduce sa akin ng mga kakilala nila na kumukuha sa akin. Ngunit mga iilang buwan lang ang pag babayad niya ng maayos. Kinalaunan nag abusar na ito. Hindi na halos maihatid sa akin ang hulog. Puro nalang sila pass. Itong babaeng pinagkaka tiwalaan ko as a guarantor ay iba na ang ipinakita. Kesyo hindi daw nag babayad pa nag pass at hanggang sa kung may naka schedule na relis ng pera siya na ang basta basta lang mag decision na hindi ipaalam sa akin. May panahon na pinipilit na nila akong pag relisin gawa ng yong kapatid nya ay hindi maka bayad sa akin kapag di ko ito na relisan. Pag nag relis ako hindi niya hinaharap sa akin yong kukuha. Listahan nalang ang kanyang pina pakita at sya na ang bahalang mag relis dun sa tao. Sobra pong tiwala ko sa kanya hanggang di na matino ang pag babayad sa akin. Hanggang sinabihan ko na siyang sa baranggay nalang kami mag kita dahil iilang besis ko nang sinabi sa kanya na gusto kung makita yong nangutang at ng sila amismo maka pirma sa kasunduan at ng maintindihan nila na daily po iyon. Pero sya poy umalma at nagalit at kung ano-anong sinasabi...ayo ko po ng gulo..hinayaan ko nalang siya ngunit yong mga pinag garanturan nya ay di na nag babayad pati sya at napag alaman ko na hindi pala kumuha yong taong sinabi nyang kumuha ng pera kung kaya nag decision akong ipa baranggay sya. Hindi sya sumipot sa dalawang besis na pag patawag sa kanya.At binigyan po ako ng endorsement ng baranggay captain para sa small court. Nung nalaman nyang ipa court ko sya mag demanda daw po sya ng harassment against sa akin at oral defamation dahil pinagsasabi ko daw pong ginamit nya ang pera ng pinangbayad sa kanya. Klaro naman pong sinabi sa akin nung taong ginawan nyan na utang na wala syang inutang dahil itoy hindi nya ibinigay so natural umalma ako kung bakit ganun. Pag humingi po ako ng number sa kanya nung mga nakuha ng pera sasa bihin nya na kabastusan....nag promise po syang babayaran nya ang kanyang inutang pero nung due na nya mismo nag ask po ako kung pwede nya po bang ibigay sa akin ang address ng mga nangutang ni tuldok di sya sumagot. Lahat po ng usapan namin sa text klaro na wala po akong pambabastos sa kanya or pang ha-harass...nilibre ko pa ng pagkain nung last naming pagkikita ngunit nalaman ko nalang na e demanda daw po nya ako ng harassment at oral defamation. Nagtataka po ako kung anong basihan at kakasuhan po niya ako ng oral defamation at harassment at may abogado na daw po sya. Hindi ko po lubusang maisip kung bakit ako kakasuhan ng ganun samantalang di kami nag kikita at never kaming nagka sagutan ng harapan at hinarass ko daw po siya. Kahit sa text walang pang haharass na nangyayari at paninirang puri dahil ang sinabi ko namay totoo dahil nakausap ko mismo ang sinabi nyang nangutang daw at ako po'y may tistigo sa pag sasabi nung nangutang di umano. Ano po ba ang dapat kung gawin gayong siya poy may atraso sa akin ngunit akoy kanya daw pong edemanda ng harassment at oral defamation. Please help me po. Maraming salamat po.More power po sa inyo..

Hi, I am a new member, hope this site can be of big help. Thank you

Hello, gusto ko po sana humingi ng legal advice. I am married for 12 yrs now. my wife has been working abroad for 7 yrs now. She worked in Hong Kong for 2 yrs then she immediately went to Canada to work as a Nanny. She got her permanent residency in Canada after 2 yrs of stay. Now, she's been in Canada for almost 5 yrs.

In that 7 yrs, she never went back to the Philippines to visit me and our son who is already 12 yrs old. until she arrived last Jan of 2013. She did not informed us that she will be going home. She stayed in her sister's house. After 4 days of stay here in the Philippines, I got a call from her, she told me if we can possibly meet in a mall to talk. She reminded me not to bring our son with me. But she changed her mind, instead of meeting in the mall, she told me to just proceed to her sister's house and she requested me to bring our son with me.

When we met, I cried a lot, may be because I missed her so much. I felt that my wife had no special feelings with me anymore. Until she invited my son to go with her to Hong Kong. My son said that he will go with her if I will be part of the trip. Of course, my son wanted us to be together. I was shocked when my wife told me that because I never expected that this would happen to me because there was no indication even when she was in Canada.

But my wife's invitation with my son going to Hong Kong did not materialize even if I already gave my consent to my son to g with her mom without me. In short, she went to Hong Kong alone with 1 extra ticket. She stayed there for less than a week, after that she proceed to our province, she consumed almost 2 wks both frm HK and our province. I never suspected anything until such time that she called me up and told me that she wanted to have a call off with me.

I was shocked with what was happening. To cut it short, I've found out that she went to Hong Kong with another man with the same province, we both came from the same province. My wife claimed that she was with that Guy in Hong Kong but just as companion according to her.

It really broke my heart, because I have spent my life taking care with our son.

She decided to stay in our own house 2 days before the scheduled flight going back to Canada. We had some conversations, she wanted to stop with our relationship with an agreement that our son will not be informed. We are legally married in a Civil Wedding.

Now, she;s in Canada, I have found out from her sisters that my wife has no communication anymore with that Guy. But at present, according to her sisters, she is entertaining a Guy in Canada. In fact, she posted in her Face Book Profile the flowers given to her on her birthday just recently. It has the initials of the person who gave the flowers having some comments which only means that the flowers came from a Man.

Because, it was a big insult to me and my son who see the pictures and quotations frm my wife's facebook. My son and me decided to block her in our facebook because it reakyy degrades my reputation as her husband and my son seemed being demoralized especially the posts of my wife i through a face book wall.

But during our conversation, my wife promised that she will get me and my son to Canada. In fact, we already complied with the medical results and it already arrived in Canada. At present, I am waiting for the next process which is interview in embassy.

Now, my worry is, what if the reason why she promised me that she will also petition me, is that because she just wanted to get my son which I cannot accept because I really love my son and all my life was devoted to my son.

The reason that she told me why she wanted to have a call off with me is becuase of my sexual preference. I am a homosexual but not cross dresser. But I act as a real man, My wife knew me as like that because she was my classmate in High School in our province ahd her family knew me very well. But even if I am like this, I did my full responsibility as both mother and father to our son.

My question is, can she get my son alone even if the family petition to Canada is for both of us?

Please advice me what should be done... Thank you and hoping for some legal and personal advices. Thank you.