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Child abuse

Ung anak ko po na 4 yrs old was molested by my husband!s cousin who is 14 yrs old.. This happened about more than a week ago.. After i took a bath my girl sbi ng anak ko na wiwiwi sha but its very painful.. Then started cryin nd saw blood stains in her undies.. She said it was that boy who touched her.. Can u pls tell me d steps to give d boy a lesson, i mean d real punishment wen it comes to this case.. Everything i should know, d consequences, d procedures, d fees etc.. I jst wana get even.. Pls..

Yan ang hirap sa ganyang edad! hindi madaling kasuhan!
ipa medical mo ang anak mo bago mo ireport deretso sa Pulis! sila ang magsasabi sa iyo kung ano ang dapat gawin!

Npa medical ko na po.. Sbi ng pedia may irritation daw sa outer layer ng vagina.. Need to have urinalysis for infection.. Doc gave intibiotic too.. But still need to see pedia ob too for more testings there myt be lacerations.. We havnt consulted one yet.. Doc also wants us to go visit child protection program.. Is there a way i can get even.. Im so full of madness nd anger.. I wantd to kill that boy.. I wantd him to feel wat my daughter nd i is feelin ryt now.. Her mom knows bout it but of cors she'll do nothing.. It was jst d worst day of my life..

you can directly go to an ob-gyne. no need for a pedia ob. the best is do it right away because an ob friend of mine who diagnosed my cousin who has been molested as well told us that in cases that these things happened you should get a medico legal right away and that the ob will testify as well.my cousin is 11 yrs old but she concealed it not until we discovered what happened because of recurring urinary tract infection that we opted to go for someone we actually know. you are a good mom i am a mom as well.

Thank u.. Im sorry to hear that.. Is it still possible to have my girl examined even if its almost 2 weeks now?.. Do u have any police officer u know that i can ask?.. We jst move in here.. Not familiar with d place like wer d police station is.. I have contacts but not lyk them.. I min, am plannin to call people who can set up a plan nd beat that boy till he cant walk no more.. If d legal process wud take a long, then myt il b doing my way.. Aint gon let him live like d way he use to.. il make sure of that.. God forgive me..

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Well my husband nd i found a solution to this.. Although our decision aint that fair but better than nothing.. We ask his parents to send him to their province right away.. Amazingly they agreed.. I said not seein their son wud lessen my anger.. I jst dont know if it will really happen coz their life is here.. We both live in a small townhouse here in mandaluyong.. D boy will be in olongapo in no time soon.. Hate seein his face.. Spoiled lazy maniac boy! He deserve to be in jail if not for bein a minor.. And i still have this so lil respect to his mother nd my husband.. At least my girl wont be able to see that a$&#•£=.. Thanx for yall hu share thoughts with me.. Sory for d bad words, guess u jst cant blame me..

Glad to hear you have a better solution. Take an extra care of your girl and keep her away from arseholes!

Yes.. I am so protective wen it comes to my girl.. Shes my only child.. I was takin a shower wen that hapend.. D devil will have its way wen theres a chance.. Nalusutan ako eh.. Nd i cant bliv that d boy wud do that.. He did nd i curse him to suffer for d rest of his life.. Only death can give him happiness... Am i being to0 harsh?💔

NO! its normal to be harsh! all loving mother will feel that way! except the biatchas who never love and care about their children!

it is hard to think right even i hindi ko anak but its hard to accept. but the best thing to do is refrain from asking your daughter again and again about what had happened and if possible a change in her environment would help a lot. it works a lot because it will lessen the trauma and mostly children at her age may tend to forget memories easily. it worked with my cousin kahit may isip na siya. and that boy should seek phsychiatric help cause it may happen again.